WTF is a Bull?

As I have said in past submissions of mine, the term "Bull" congers up images of a man who has the mentality of a "wham, bam, thank you mam" and doesn't take the time to be tender and loving to the woman. I prefer the term 'lover' to a man pleasuring my wife. My wife has never, and will never, use the term 'Bull' for her bed partners.
 
i don't agree. I've been fucked by a few black guys and none of them came close to giving me this amazing experience. maybe most black men you are referring to have never witnessed this technique preformed the correct and very controlled ability. i have talked to a bunch of my white girlfriends and they all know what it means. i guess the meaning has changed over the last twenty years. me and a lot of women i know are glad for it.
But that has more to do with skill and not whether he is a bull or not. Just because a person has a title, does not mean he/she is good at it......like um, the President lol. All I am saying, a man can be a bull, but that has nothing to do with his sexual skills. I do apologize that you have not experienced this euphoric feeling you missed out on. But that does not mean it won't happen, and truth be told if given the chance it could be from someone you least expected.
 
Blacks from Africa hate the N word and are always disappointed when we see our American brothers use it. It’s kinda dumb really because you are keeping the word alive. Smh
Blacks from Africa hate the N word and are always disappointed when we see our American brothers use it. It’s kinda dumb really because you are keeping the word alive. Smh 🤦‍♂️
It is so embarrassing to see people that look like me use that word in public. I tell my ******* not to as it is degrading no matter how you spell it or pronounce it. You see white people, there are black people and black people that act like the n word that we stay away from. I am pretty sure you can guess which is which group. We dont all think the same. Most of us definitely never wanted to defund the police because we know criminals will prey on those areas..Baltimore, Chicago, Minneapolis, Seattle, Portland. Need I say more. But we can all agree on one thing, white women know how to please black cock.
 
I haven't heard the word stud used since football in the '80s. I dont think Bull is a sexual orientation as much as a behavior. It's a dominant man, in most cases, Black, who plays the alpha (i.e. first choice in mating) to the female. A stud seems like they are being ****** to breed whereas a Bull is doing his duty...
 
This is a word that I wish was replaced with Stud instead.. I first started hearing the term 20 years ago in the Dark Cavern chat rooms. Many of the hubbies, cucks bi and gay men used the term to describe a black man that fucks men and women. Are there any men who will admit to the double meaning of this word. One thing I have learned over the years that language matters in this lifestyle. It can lead to major misunderstandings. Black men you have to be careful of terms you hear used in this lifestyle.

I honestly wouldn't be bothered by such things. Words have meanings depending on context.

My understanding is from a cattle ranching perspective, where you have a prime bull used exclusively for mating or breeding with the females (heifers)...

Hell yes!!! Call me that!

Did you know the word stud has its origin with horses? I'm sure it has alot to do with how hung it is

If you want to be associated with a horse...up to you!

Bull is all good for me!!!

absolute unit GIF
 
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The term bull is so similar a description to stud surely? however in our minds the term "stud" is very cringeworthy! really is a throwback from the USA in the 60's - 70s! if you described yourself in the UK or Europe as a "stud" then I think most people would swipe left! :ROFLMAO:
The term "Bull" in our minds is much more a positive description for a virial, strong alpha leader of the pack type who can take us in hand! and the term "Bull" isnt just used to black men but also all races.

So come on "you big studs, take me to bed or loose me forever" :LOL::ROFLMAO::LOL::ROFLMAO::LOL::ROFLMAO:
 
I think everyone has their own language they like to use when it comes to sexual lifestyles and games. I have met men that do not want to be called bulls and some that call themselves bulls. Some men are all about being BBCs and others want it to be clear they are more than just a big black cock. Some men are all about the skin color difference and other it's all about the sex. So as a general rule I just call them men and specific terminology they like or don't like can be addressed later on.
 
This is a word that I wish was replaced with Stud instead.. I first started hearing the term 20 years ago in the Dark Cavern chat rooms. Many of the hubbies, cucks bi and gay men used the term to describe a black man that fucks men and women. Are there any men who will admit to the double meaning of this word. One thing I have learned over the years that language matters in this lifestyle. It can lead to major misunderstandings. Black men you have to be careful of terms you hear used in this lifestyle.
You need to get off of this site and stop bringing this negative BS! We are all here to have fun! There are no bulls without the hot wives and vice versa! Bull, Cuck, hotwife, Queen, all just words used in the lifestyle! You either are into it or you aren’t, but ain’t nobody got time for you or anyone trying to change the lifestyle!
 
Wow ! You remember dark cavern ? Lol I used to be in there too. JaxRussellbbc been in the lifestyle a long time bro. Seem like you have too if you were on DARK CAVERN . Those were the good old days bro. Hey don’t let the word BULL bother you . You sorta answered your own question. Let me bring it to light for ya. Hey now back In the 2015’s to current 2022 era interracial Lifestyle has changed . Now you have people in the lifestyle that quote unquote shouldn’t be in the lifestyle at all due to smartphones. Back in the early 90s up to 2010ish the lifestyle was great! Once smartphones and swingers apps came into play the entire lifestyle has become fucked up. The lingo has changed , sexual preferences has changed , there’s a debate over the term CUCKOLD v/s CUCKHOLD , couples say bi but mean the wife is only bi ,but the husband has bi on his profile , you have black guys that don’t have a clue to what the lifestyle is about . All they see is free pussy. They are very disrespectful nowadays,every other word out their mouth is N word this N word that , some black guys actually think white couples pay money to have a black man fuck his wife ectt.. . You have white women claiming to be QOS but never fucked a black man in their life . All because they put temporary QOS TATTOOS,take pics in QOS clothes that make them QOS . You have white men who pretending to be white females and couples . Now you have JOS (jack of spades) . JOS wasn’t even a term or thing back in the 1990s-2010 era . Gay white men wouldn’t dare step into the arena of the interracial swinging lifestyle back then . Now gay WHITE men have black guys that want them just as much as they want them . The lifestyle is SO fucked up now. Back in the day this was really taboo and secretly done. Now any and everyone is in the lifestyle and it’s not a good thing. You have white women making thousands of dollars on onlyfans manyvids and other site claiming to be QOS . Making videos wearing QOS clothes fucking black dildos but never fuck a real black man . You have some legitimate QOS making money and they are fucked up as well. The legitimate QOS with onlyfans only will meet guys to fuck on film. It’s reversed pimping . Not everyone want to do porn . The lifestyle just isn’t the same . It’s a lot harder and difficult now. Smartphones and social media has fucked it up. So look at the word Bull used today as these new age so-called lifestyle people misusing the word. You’re right the term used back then was Black Stud or BBC Stud .
Your right about the lifestyle, I was heavily involved from the late 90s to about 2010. I still have some couples I deal with where the wife plays alone. Your SO right it was like heaven back then hooking up with couples was really simple. Not like it is now. Hey we need to talk, I have some ideas that can possibly put money in our pockets. It revolves around black men like us telling our stories about the interracial lifestyle from a black mans point of view.
 
You need to get off of this site and stop bringing this negative BS! We are all here to have fun! There are no bulls without the hot wives and vice versa! Bull, Cuck, hotwife, Queen, all just words used in the lifestyle! You either are into it or you aren’t, but ain’t nobody got time for you or anyone trying to change the lifestyle!
I think I struck a nerve lol
 
The term "bull" came from the process of a stud bull (male) mating with a number of cows (females). The strongest, most virile bulls were kept for breeding purposes. The lesser male bulls/bovines were put out to pasture, or sent to the slaughterhouse.

So the term is both complimentary and not-so-flattering at the same time, if you want to think that deeply about it.
Similar to the way "spade" is used in "Queen of Spades", which is both a complimentary title to women in this lifestyle for their love of black men and a holdover from a time when the term "spade" was more derogatory.

With regard to this lifestyle though, both "Bull" and "Spade" are used in a positive way.
 
The term "bull" came from the process of a stud bull (male) mating with a number of cows (females). The strongest, most virile bulls were kept for breeding purposes. The lesser male bulls/bovines were put out to pasture, or sent to the slaughterhouse.

So the term is both complimentary and not-so-flattering at the same time, if you want to think that deeply about it.
Similar to the way "spade" is used in "Queen of Spades", which is both a complimentary title to women in this lifestyle for their love of black men and a holdover from a time when the term "spade" was more derogatory.

With regard to this lifestyle though, both "Bull" and "Spade" are used in a positive way.
Well said!
 
This is a word that I wish was replaced with Stud instead.. I first started hearing the term 20 years ago in the Dark Cavern chat rooms. Many of the hubbies, cucks bi and gay men used the term to describe a black man that fucks men and women. Are there any men who will admit to the double meaning of this word. One thing I have learned over the years that language matters in this lifestyle. It can lead to major misunderstandings. Black men you have to be careful of terms you hear used in this lifestyle.
Bull and stud are both ******* husbandry terms.

You’re spinning your wheels here. Stop trying to reason with racist gay dudes posing as “cucks” and “couples.”

If you’re trying to fuck milfs work on your game and take it to a bar because it’s not likely you’ll find one to fuck here. Lol
 
Bull and stud are both ******* husbandry terms.

You’re spinning your wheels here. Stop trying to reason with racist gay dudes posing as “cucks” and “couples.”

If you’re trying to fuck milfs work on your game and take it to a bar because it’s not likely you’ll find one to fuck here. Lol

Your right about the lifestyle, I was heavily involved from the late 90s to about 2010. I still have some couples I deal with where the wife plays alone. Your SO right it was like heaven back then hooking up with couples was really simple. Not like it is now. Hey we need to talk, I have some ideas that can possibly put money in our pockets. It revolves around black men like us telling our stories about the interracial lifestyle from a black mans point of view.
Your right about the lifestyle, I was heavily involved from the late 90s to about 2010. I still have some couples I deal with where the wife plays alone. Your SO right it was like heaven back then hooking up with couples was really simple. Not like it is now. Hey we need to talk, I have some ideas that can possibly put money in our pockets. It revolves around black men like us telling our stories about the interracial lifestyle from a black mans point of view.

Wow ! You remember dark cavern ? Lol I used to be in there too. JaxRussellbbc been in the lifestyle a long time bro. Seem like you have too if you were on DARK CAVERN . Those were the good old days bro. Hey don’t let the word BULL bother you . You sorta answered your own question. Let me bring it to light for ya. Hey now back In the 2015’s to current 2022 era interracial Lifestyle has changed . Now you have people in the lifestyle that quote unquote shouldn’t be in the lifestyle at all due to smartphones. Back in the early 90s up to 2010ish the lifestyle was great! Once smartphones and swingers apps came into play the entire lifestyle has become fucked up. The lingo has changed , sexual preferences has changed , there’s a debate over the term CUCKOLD v/s CUCKHOLD , couples say bi but mean the wife is only bi ,but the husband has bi on his profile , you have black guys that don’t have a clue to what the lifestyle is about . All they see is free pussy. They are very disrespectful nowadays,every other word out their mouth is N word this N word that , some black guys actually think white couples pay money to have a black man fuck his wife ectt.. . You have white women claiming to be QOS but never fucked a black man in their life . All because they put temporary QOS TATTOOS,take pics in QOS clothes that make them QOS . You have white men who pretending to be white females and couples . Now you have JOS (jack of spades) . JOS wasn’t even a term or thing back in the 1990s-2010 era . Gay white men wouldn’t dare step into the arena of the interracial swinging lifestyle back then . Now gay WHITE men have black guys that want them just as much as they want them . The lifestyle is SO fucked up now. Back in the day this was really taboo and secretly done. Now any and everyone is in the lifestyle and it’s not a good thing. You have white women making thousands of dollars on onlyfans manyvids and other site claiming to be QOS . Making videos wearing QOS clothes fucking black dildos but never fuck a real black man . You have some legitimate QOS making money and they are fucked up as well. The legitimate QOS with onlyfans only will meet guys to fuck on film. It’s reversed pimping . Not everyone want to do porn . The lifestyle just isn’t the same . It’s a lot harder and difficult now. Smartphones and social media has fucked it up. So look at the word Bull used today as these new age so-called lifestyle people misusing the word. You’re right the term used back then was Black Stud or BBC Stud .
I'm going to put together a podcast (audio) Called onlywiveswilldo. I would like to have experienced brothas like you on the show. talking about the lifestyle from a blackmans point of view. I'm tired of white dudes and white wives talking about this as if the black man is nothing more than a prop to use. I believe that the Black man is the impetus behind the whole IR sex lifestyle. You don't see the heavy hitter brothas in porn fucking average white wives. It is average black men like us who fucks the thounsands of wives and fuels the whole IR sex lifestyle. My show will focus on what got you started, the good the bad and ugly about the lifestyle. Ive got so many topics to touch on from sexual racism, to the extreme ******* like being a live in dom to what we think about the closet dl white dudes. I also know there are unfortunately some brothas out here who dont care how they get it wet. That is what attract these bi and gay cucks to us. The reality though IR sex is the BM/WW and some people are trying to be included. The thing we have is experience and younger black men will listen to us. We can promote the real wives and expose the fake ones. All the while we build a base of REAL people and get paid doing it. I have a job and you do also I assume. However I would like to start out with 2 or 3 30-60 minutes podcast per week. Let me know what you think
 
Wow ! You remember dark cavern ? Lol I used to be in there too. JaxRussellbbc been in the lifestyle a long time bro. Seem like you have too if you were on DARK CAVERN . Those were the good old days bro. Hey don’t let the word BULL bother you . You sorta answered your own question. Let me bring it to light for ya. Hey now back In the 2015’s to current 2022 era interracial Lifestyle has changed . Now you have people in the lifestyle that quote unquote shouldn’t be in the lifestyle at all due to smartphones. Back in the early 90s up to 2010ish the lifestyle was great! Once smartphones and swingers apps came into play the entire lifestyle has become fucked up. The lingo has changed , sexual preferences has changed , there’s a debate over the term CUCKOLD v/s CUCKHOLD , couples say bi but mean the wife is only bi ,but the husband has bi on his profile , you have black guys that don’t have a clue to what the lifestyle is about . All they see is free pussy. They are very disrespectful nowadays,every other word out their mouth is N word this N word that , some black guys actually think white couples pay money to have a black man fuck his wife ectt.. . You have white women claiming to be QOS but never fucked a black man in their life . All because they put temporary QOS TATTOOS,take pics in QOS clothes that make them QOS . You have white men who pretending to be white females and couples . Now you have JOS (jack of spades) . JOS wasn’t even a term or thing back in the 1990s-2010 era . Gay white men wouldn’t dare step into the arena of the interracial swinging lifestyle back then . Now gay WHITE men have black guys that want them just as much as they want them . The lifestyle is SO fucked up now. Back in the day this was really taboo and secretly done. Now any and everyone is in the lifestyle and it’s not a good thing. You have white women making thousands of dollars on onlyfans manyvids and other site claiming to be QOS . Making videos wearing QOS clothes fucking black dildos but never fuck a real black man . You have some legitimate QOS making money and they are fucked up as well. The legitimate QOS with onlyfans only will meet guys to fuck on film. It’s reversed pimping . Not everyone want to do porn . The lifestyle just isn’t the same . It’s a lot harder and difficult now. Smartphones and social media has fucked it up. So look at the word Bull used today as these new age so-called lifestyle people misusing the word. You’re right the term used back then was Black Stud or BBC Stud .
This is a word that I wish was replaced with Stud instead.. I first started hearing the term 20 years ago in the Dark Cavern chat rooms. Many of the hubbies, cucks bi and gay men used the term to describe a black man that fucks men and women. Are there any men who will admit to the double meaning of this word. One thing I have learned over the years that language matters in this lifestyle. It can lead to major misunderstandings. Black men you have to be careful of terms you hear used in this lifestyle.
WHOA!!!!
Y'all have no right making me feel ancient...again! I was so damn addicted to Dark Cavern that when they went pay I weened myself off my internet prohibited substance....and to this day not on social media!

The only reason I've kept SCBlknNsty was it too was from that time, the other DarqmanSC.
 
We don't get mixed up with the terminology or the stereotypes. Most of it is just silly bs most likely created by people that have never even played. We never seem to fit into any of these stereotypes anyway. My husband is not a "cuck", has a great cock and is fantastic in bed. I just like having more of a good thing. :) Dark Cavern, blast from the past!
 
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