Y’all do you and I’ll do me. If you don’t like my lifestyle choice then that is your opinion. Trying to say I’m dysfunctional is hilarious. I guarantee I am far more functional than anyone attempting to criticize me here. The mere fact that you would log on to an interracial fetish site and complain about black men fetishizing white women and white women fetishizing black men proves your own dysfunction. I just assume it’s ignorance and misogyny that drives people to react to my lifestyle choice in such a way. I think a lot of insecure men don’t like it when they see a woman objectifying men based on their physical characteristics and are open about wanting to use particular men for their bodies just like how nearly ALL straight men objectify women and don’t need to connect with us on a personal level in order to want to have their way with us. Do you see the hypocrisy? Also, I’ve never said I would never be in a relationship with a black man and I have become genuine friends with some of my regular playmates. If I wasn’t with my husband I would be just as likely to be in a relationship with a black man as long as he met the personality criteria which I require in order to spend all of my time with someone. What you overly sensitive keyboard warriors love to do is ignore the specific words used and overly generalize statements or take them out of context so that you can get your panties in a bunch and react with undue apprehension. Some of y’all need to grow the fuck up.
What?! There is nothing hypocritical or misogynistic about what I critiqued.
Your first post you were trying to express the difference between sexual and romantic attraction. In your explanation, you let us know that while you fuck a lot of
black men, you
are 'quite often not compatible on a personal or social level'. You further share with us that
you and your husband rarely become friends with any of your playmates.
That's what YOU wrote. That's what I commented on.
No one is criticizing your 'lifestyle' choice. I'm actually one of the few that put money toward supporting your OF page for a while. If I was misogynistic, I think in the thousands of my posts, you would see it. It's what you wrote, not how you pee. That misogyny shoe doesn't fit.
Anyway, the whole point of the site is objectification I even wrote about it being in the DNA of men in my response. No problems there because we all choose to be here.
I'll paste the meat of what I wrote here:
"So, all of those guys that I saw you banging on OF were not compatible on a social or personal level?
Trust me, any guy will tell you, seeing someone they want to fuck, but could not have a relationship with is part of our DNA. That was college and my 20s. But cutting off a whole race as not being socially acceptable to you, and only good for fucking? I don't know, sounds terrible. You have very few black friends, but fuck tons of them?
Wow."
And the criticism is from what you wrote here:
"I think there’s a big difference between being sexually attracted to some men and romantically attracted to some men. Romantic attraction has very little to do with sexual attraction as far as I’m concerned. A nice body and big cock make me want to have sex with a guy but that doesn’t mean I’m compatible with that person on a personal level.Quite often I’m not compatible with my playmates on a personal/social level. Very few of my playmates end up becoming actual friends with my husband and I outside of sexual play sessions because of that."
And, even above you write:
If I wasn’t with my husband I would be just as likely to be in a relationship with a black man (should be a full stop here) as long as he met the personality criteria which I require in order to spend all of my time with someone. (strike through because that's assumed with any relationship black or white.)
So, this is not about criticizing your lifestyle, or getting "panties in a bunch", or even being a 'keyboard warrior'.
It's about reading what you wrote, and commenting on it. That's a forum. You expressed yourself, we did the same.
You got a lot of likes from the Simps, so you don't have waste your time responding to us that see this as it is. That's also a fair choice. But, don't try to gaslight me and say I am not reading what you wrote. Maybe what you wrote didn't fully express your views?
Just curious… I love learning about others and this has always been on my mind.
