In many cases, it's a totally new experience for the woman, and she may be a bit more nervous, apprehensive and even excited. To think that a white woman or couple venturing into Black sensuality and sexuality for the first time do so with absolutely no trepidation and view it as "just another night," is a bit naive. I've had women from other races and cultures ask me, "is this your first time with a {fill in the blank}?" And then go on to say "I'm going to try and make it extra special, so you will always remember this night."