Hello, this is the he of us to be clear and avoid confusion. The mrs posts here to and reads as well So I believe in respecting others and I get that some people like to humiliate and they find those that like being humiliated. I get the whole cuckold thing and the stereotypical roles of cuck, hotwife, and bull. We, however, are more into a MFM where both my self and the BBC both take s dominate role and make her submissive. We take turns using her, or both Dp or fuck her from both ends. I'm a mere 7" but I'm very thick and have a large pronounced head. I like watching her cum from her bull,or bulls even, but take pride and enjoyment in the fact that I can jump right on and make her cum again quickly. She also won't play alone with out me ( which I would allow with a Bull I trusted). She is gorgeous and I have no problem finding her BBC ( we have our play dates booked in advance), but we have struggled to find good regular people though that come back. Can there only be one alpha male? Am I chasing away her playmates. I'm secure and not jealous at all, and love to watch her play. Some of these guys are really long 10" and a few have been as thick too. I am guessing its that they have a wife, or they have notched there belt, and its not a feeling of disappointment at my co dominate role. She had a BBC playmate for a little while that told me that our closeness and affection, combined with the fact that she didn't see him on the side, call him or text him made him feel like the big black dildo in the room. Im str8 and do not play with other women. I just like to share her with another Dom and she prefers BBC when we do. I enjoy watching and filming as well as participating but she prefers I am hands on. Are we on the right board here? Are there BBC's that fit our niche or sub group. I look forward to any help I can in finding her what she and I want.