White Couples in the "Lifestyle": Real or Illusion?

My wife and I called it neither "cuckolding" or "swinging" when she was blackened by my old university friend and roomate, Edwin. By way of background, from my very early teens, 13 to be exact, while attending a summer cadet camp, three friends and I were headed into the showers, we witnessed this much older, old to us anyway, black cadet masturbating. That episode then became the hot subject of the day for us for the remainder of our stay. As I recall it seemed like every time it was discussed, his manhood grew ever bigger, even to the point that the biggest and best of horses would've been embarrassed by the size this guys manhood had grown. LOL

Anyway that experience had one lasting affect on me, "to see a white girl get laid by a black guy". Little did I think that after almost nine years of marriage that fantasy would become a reality. Lesser still that the white girl being screwed would be my wife, or that the guy between her legs blackening her would be no other than an old university friend as aforementioned.

So call it want you want but "yes" I can definately confirm it does happen and more often than most would believe. Since Pam's initial encounter she's has taken on Edwin's twin brother and two of his friends. We also know several other married couples who have had the same experience while vacationing. All are under 35 years old and younger.
 
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None of thoses options for me. In my case my wife Susana had not wished cuckold me. It happened because she was having a relationship with a black guy, when I met her. Her relationship was not good and they used to break and reconciled over and over again. During one of those breaks, we began to go out and some times we kissed too. I thought we were starting a new relationship together, but he came again and she reconciled with him one more time. Then I felt like a cuckold, in special due they were having sex often, during their last time together. When she broke up with him definitely, she became in my gilfriend. But something was changed my mind. I began feeling excited thinking abouth Susana and her ex having sex. I asked her to tell me about her sexual life with him. She told me a lot of experiences and I undertood that his virility was incredible.
I developed a great admiration for him and despite she never saw him again during more tan 10 years, I always begged her to call him and get sex together. After 10 years of marriage she finally agreed to call him.
In reality, this is how the cuck tendencies begin for many of us. Jealousy, girls toying with your affection. All that good stuff.
 
The proof that BBC is the best sex the girl ever had? EVERY SINGLE SLUT IN PORN DOING BBC FOR THE CASH EVERY SINGLE MOVIE THEY SAY THESE 3 WORDS OVER AND OVER WHILE BEING FUCKED BY THE SNAKE? OH MY GOD OH GOD IT FEELS SO GOOD OH GOD!! I FOUND OUT WHEN I FIRST BLEW MY MAN AND I WAS IN SHOCK . HE ONLY GOT 8INCHES. BUT CRAZY BEER CAN FAT AND I CANT WAIT UNTIL HE AND A 14 INCH BLACK ANACONDA DP MY FAT PUSSY WHILE MY MAN UNDERNEATH HE SAID HE CANT WAIT TO FEEL MY BODY WHEN A MONSTER PUTS IT IN MY BOX AND MY MAN IN MY ASS!
 
We go to a swinger motel pretty often, and we have seen a lot of younger guys that enjoy watching their wives with Black men, and other men who are better sized than they are. Just recently my husband sat with a husband and he and this husband talked. The other husband was in his mid twenties and was well sized himself. This other husband told my husband that what he loved most about watching his wife with Black men was that they could do for his wife what he couldn't. My husband commented to this other husband that he was well sized himself. This other husband told my husband what the Black men could do that he couldn't was spark desire in his wife that he didn't.

When we have sat in the hot tub, at this same swinger motel, I have noticed that Black men go from one white woman to another and then another and then another. And the white husbands often sit and watch and jack off. Few of the white husbands join in. I have noticed more and more white husbands sitting and jacking off watching their wives with Black men. And the Black men just go from wife to wife to wife. Well, the wives go from one Black man to another, then to another then to another.

We also attended a party recently. At this party there was a room set aside just for sex. My husband and I went into the sex room and there was one Black guy in his mid twenties, and he had three white women loving all over him. The husbands were all sitting together watching and jacking off. My husband and I sat and watched for a while, then another couple walked into the room, the man was Black. I joined that couple and so did one of the other wives that was with the first Black man. So, both Black men had two and three women each and the white husbands all watched and jacked off.

Toward morning I was sitting with the Black man, the one in his mid twenties, and he told me that he was exhausted. He said that he couldn't believe how easy it was to get pussy. He also told me that he enjoyed me. This young Black man also told me that he couldn't believe how many white husbands had come to him and asked him to fuck their wives. Our live-in and his friends have said the same thing again and again.

My ******* had lived with her ******* for four years and then came back to live with me and my husband. My husband's ******* had asked my ******* to go on a date with her and this Black guy that she worked with. I mentioned that I wanted to go with. So, the three of us went on a date with this one young Black man. And he got to have all three of us. This younger Black man worked at a local restaurant/theater with my husband's *******. He told me that a lot of white couples came to him asking him to have sex with the wife. And he said that he'd been with more wives, while the husband watched, than he could count.

Our live-in has told me several times that when he has been out with friends, playing basketball, that they have been approached by white couples expressing a desire to have the wife gang banged. And they have obliged, several times. There used to be a Black club on Colfax that we used to go to quite often, and there were a lot of single white women and white couples who used to go there, too. In the basement of this club was a dark room where sex happened, a lot. A lot of single and married white women got gang banged in the basement of this club. I know because I got gang banged there several times.

This happens more than people realize, and it happening more and more often. It is not an illusion.
 
Also, not everyone would prefer to call it 'Cuckolding'; they'd prefer to call it 'Swinging'. To some, that's an insulting word. For others like myself, its a word that doesn't fully do justice to what the lifestyle means.

I personally would not define the cuckold lifestyle as swinging. While there are many areas of the lifestyle that overlap, swinging is much more open to both partners. TO me, the cuckold lifestyle, while it indeed provides for the "cuckold" to experience his needs and desires, is much more female centric.

To answer the original question from our perspective, while surely there are many posers and fakes out in the great universe of life, there are also many real couples who truly do enjoy the experience and journey of this lifestyle. We are quite real and have met others who are as well. We've also met our share of fakes, be it couples or "bulls". Like anything else in life, you get it all.
 
Of course, interracial sex is more popular than ever. High school ******* can now easily exchange nude pictures. and more young ladies will become curious at a younger age than they did in the past. Plus, the media encourages interracial relationships. No surprise to see white or latina ladies with black men when out in public all the time. I talk with my gf about it sometimes too.
 
Yes. Seeing lots of this in schools but that is what the ******* are being taught. Ie racial intermixing. What we are seeing now though is more young white couples with a black man as a regular third partner. Before there was some " sampling " but now there are many more couples that are committed. More mature couples also going this way too for enhanced sex lives. Couples whose sex lives had almost diminished to zero are now enjoying active sex lives again
 
Many more " Tiger Woods". Ie successful black athletes and professionals. Today. Than some years ago. Can't say which is more popular. Young white wives chasing black men or young white. Husbands looking for BBC for their wives. Many more mature wives and couples now enjoying this too than some years ago
 
it's hard to imagine it's not happening more than ever, if only because interracial sex generally is happening more than ever. makes sense too, that among those young people who are inclined to be a little more sexually open in relationships, for whom race matters less than earlier generations, the fact that interracial sex is not seen as taboo would make a more favorable environment for these encounters.

but I believe the real sweet spot for the hotwife/cuckold thing must still be for couples a little further along in life, more towards and into middle age.
Exactly. From a single girl in her 20's perspective, the openness of IR dating and marriages, the acceptance of mixed children and the equalization of media such as TV, Magazines and advertisments showing comingling of the races makes in an acceptable thing to do unlike the generation before me.
 
Some of us are ******* into the lifestyle by our wives actions and wants and if you truly love your wife you give in and accept what she enjoys.
 
Exactly. From a single girl in her 20's perspective, the openness of IR dating and marriages, the acceptance of mixed children and the equalization of media such as TV, Magazines and advertisments showing comingling of the races makes in an acceptable thing to do unlike the generation before me.[/QUOT
Some of us are ******* into the lifestyle by our wives actions and wants and if you truly love your wife you give in and accept what she enjoys.


"*******"? Maybe it is the wives that are being upfront and wanting their spouse to partake. If a woman is of the mind to go behind your back, the opportunity is there. I would hate to think my future husband would be dragged. That's selfish.
 
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"*******"? Maybe it is the wives that are being upfront and wanting their spouse to partake. If a woman is of the mind to go behind your back, the opportunity is there. I would hate to think my future husband would be dragged. That's selfish.
Experience it for real then tell me how you would describe it.
 
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