That's usually the fault of most husbands who just want to skip to the main course meal.
White Couples in the "Lifestyle": Real or Illusion?
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That's usually the fault of most husbands who just want to skip to the main course meal.
Did he accept it or reluctantly accept it?
He wanted to keep me. So he did what I wanted. Something's he has had a issue with but he likes now. He thought going second or after I was with someone was nasty or gay if someone else's cum is in me. Now he like going second.
It's happening more.. and will continue To happen more. Porn is def. PlayIng a huge roll.. as time goes by Porn is getting more and more popular and once wives or husband's start watching black cock they are addicted. It is how it started for uslots of people in their fourtiedfourties grew up without internet or vert little access to it. Once the generations change where they grew up with internet it will be increasingly popular. No doubt it will still be a small margin of people who are in the lifestyle as it isn't for everyone but i do believe the amount will increase.
I think this is a salient point, the Internet has made huge difference and impact on every aspect of social interaction, just look how the latest generations communicate and stay connected with their social circle, friends and family.
Just take this website/forum and others like CL as an example. Before the Internet, the only way to find like-minded swingers or similar was to hang out at a bar/club, or meet through physical low quality magazines hidden behind the adult store counter!
And of course specific to this topic, online pornography is pervasive.... just Google something that *may* have a pornographic angle, and one will get an eyeful! Plus sexual innuendo and not so "innuendo" is just everywhere now, TV, movies, commercials..... some pretty surprising when it's an ad for something as innocuous as a travel website!
And other points have been made about barriers continuing to dissolve around the 'taboo' of interracial relationships, which is true and great. It wasn't that long ago in many part of the USA that a mixed race couple might get some odd looks, or worse, but that has become the exception now!
Those points and others such as "swinging" becoming more mainstream (heck there was a prime time network TV series in the last few years) have definitely made this lifestyle more acceptable and probably not really that 'shocking' to those that are a bit more conservative
On the topic of "cuckolding" versus "swinging" terminology, we agree that it is just a label, but there is a distinction. In our case we are definitely "swingers" in that we both share and participate, but we also sometimes have MFM threesomes (sometimes BBC, sometimes not) and in those cases issues like logistics and opportunities to rest and "tag in" make it more "cuckold like". Definitions of "cuckold" vary, and in our case we absolutely don't subscribe to the humiliation, degradation or owned aspects that are sometimes part of the "cuckold" lifestyle, but we can understand how others may and that's OK.
As long as everyone is comfortable, happy, safe and having fun, then go for it and call it what you like!
...... but regardless or reason, we agree that swinging and specifically interracial couples playing with BBC is definitely on the uptick and coming out of the shadows. And we're so glad it is because we can now meet new couples and singles friends so easily, and we have! We'll look back at this time for the lifestyle as the revolution that brought it mainstream, you wait and see!
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Sounds like you understand the power of your pussy. Good for you girl.
It's hard to explain because our relationship began in a weird way. He has a girlfriend now and we never saw him again during more tan 3 years.
It's hard to give a good explanations about our weird relation with him. Perhaps you don't understand it.
When Susie and me met, she was still having a relationship with him. They were close to break up but she had not take the finally decisión. They had been together for almost 5 years. Susie and me began ging out to bars and pubs. Sometimes we kissed but she didn't wish to have sex with me until she broke her relationship definitely.
Axel knew she was seeing me and he tryed to solve the situation through sex, but that didn't work.
For some weeks Susie was confused about what she must to do. Sex was great with him but it wasn't enought to sabe a relationship. So she broke up with him. We had been dating for almost 6 months before the break and I knew she was having sex with him. It didn't care because she was not my girlfriend yeat, but I developed I felt myself excited hearing her tell me that she had fucked with him.
I used to ask her about sex and she told me almost all I wished to know. We had great confidence.
When we became in a couple, the first time we had sex was amazing...and weird!
I felt so excited putting my dick in the same place where a black guy had put his great black cock. That was just the beginning.
AGREED ... 20 YEARS MARRIED & JUST HAD FIRST ENCOUNTER A FEW MONTHS AGO
ALMOST 15 YEARS IT WAS PART OF OUR FANTASY ...ALSO WE HAVE ALWAYS HAD AN EXTRAORDINARY SEX LIFE & STILL DO TODAY JUST THAT NOW WE ARE ENTERING INTO ANOTHER JOURNEY IN OUR MARRIAGE & THE SLUTWIFE/CUCKOLD LIFESTYLE IS DEFINITELY OUR DESIRE AS WELL AS A SEXUALLY FULFILLED HUSBAND AT HOME!!! I JUST NOW NEED A BIG BLACK COCK TO TOTALLY RAVISH,SATISFY & "OWN" MY PUSSIE
WE'RE SOOO LOOKING FORWARD TO FINDING A STEADY BULL NEAR US ~ ST LOUIS MISSOURI
They have entire clubs here in KC dedicated to the "lifestyle" I'd say it's very real.
Club Detox....also the Bump n Grind is one of our favs
We're in ST LOUIS wish there were a few here...discretion is an issue too ..KC is not to far & would be FUN ...thanx KC
Agree, and the changes are nice to see.
KC has been ahead of the curve in regards to the lifestyle
In my opinion, cuckolding is a mental workout, involves getting your mind past the jealousy.
Most intellectuals are into cuckolding, the other guys are crippled by jealousy when they are aroused and upset and don't know why.
To all you cuckolding “wannabe” you must know and understand the important dynamics of cuckolding.
Most intellectuals are into cuckolding, the other guys are crippled by jealousy when they are aroused and upset and don't know why.
To all you cuckolding “wannabe” you must know and understand the important dynamics of cuckolding.
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Yes. The mental part is very important
But not just the husband. The wivEs view of things changes too
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