White Couples in the "Lifestyle": Real or Illusion?

Discussion in 'Cuckold Forum' started by vahtcpl, Mar 20, 2015.

  1. vahtcpl

    vahtcpl Active Member

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    It does seem to us that interracial cuckolding for white couples has increased and is becoming less taboo and secretive. It also seems like younger white couples are trying it.

    In your experience, is this actually happening, or is it just illusory?


    We’re interested in your honest assessment based on your experiences and observations. All comments welcome, but let’s please keep this friendly and respectful.
     
  2. Synergy13

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    interesting topic
     
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  3. Dsoul

    Dsoul Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    I would say that Yes, it's actually happening. However, you should understand that even though more couples are getting involved in this lifestyle, most still employ a strong sense of discretion, particularly in their immediate environment. Especially now with the internet trying to encroach on such civil liberties, the need to hide is becoming even more aggressive for some. You're hardly never going to get a sure-fire answer or reliable poll count as to how many couples are getting into this lifestyle. You might as well take a poll count on how many people watch porn on their computer when they ought to be busy at something else.

    Another thing you should take note of is that when most people ask such question, there's mostly referring to the cuckold lifestyle in America. They fail to recognize that over in Europe, there's more lassitude as regards to this lifestyle than in the States, preferably around the Bible Belt region where judgmental outlook tends to lower people's expectations.
     
  4. vahtcpl

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    Thanks for the comments. We do appreciate that it is hard to verify the legitimacy of replies, but we'd still encourage folks to post. And to clarify: We hope that couples and bulls will reply regardless of their country of location.
     
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  5. Dsoul

    Dsoul Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    Also, not everyone would prefer to call it 'Cuckolding'; they'd prefer to call it 'Swinging'. To some, that's an insulting word. For others like myself, its a word that doesn't fully do justice to what the lifestyle means.
     
  6. Dsoul

    Dsoul Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    Also, not everyone would prefer to call it 'Cuckolding'; they'd prefer to call it 'Swinging'. To some, that's an insulting word. For others like myself, its a word that doesn't fully do justice to what the lifestyle means.
     
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  7. vahtcpl

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    Labels are just that: Labels. They can indeed be confining, particularly if folks insist that a label like "cuckold" means that a couple must conform to some rigid definition.
     
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  8. spin419

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    it's hard to imagine it's not happening more than ever, if only because interracial sex generally is happening more than ever. makes sense too, that among those young people who are inclined to be a little more sexually open in relationships, for whom race matters less than earlier generations, the fact that interracial sex is not seen as taboo would make a more favorable environment for these encounters.

    but I believe the real sweet spot for the hotwife/cuckold thing must still be for couples a little further along in life, more towards and into middle age.
     
  9. MrsPlayfulWife

    MrsPlayfulWife Member Gold Member

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    We have been swingers for over 17 years and about 2 or 3 years ago, one thing lead to another and here we are. But some swinging couples still frown on this, so we try not to mix couples and guys, when we can, really depends on the party too. We don't need the drama !!!
     
  10. JenCucksDave

    JenCucksDave Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    It's really happening. It just doesn't seem like it is because there are so many guys who are talking about it in the wannabe stage. We personally know other couples in the lifestyle who do this cuckolding, almost on the side. Like if swinging was a career, cuckolding would be moonlighting.
     
  11. spin419

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    Re the wannabes: You've got to start somewhere.

    And I might think differently of it if I were into it like you, but to me the hotwife/cuck thing is a kind of swinging. The wife would be doing the actual hitting but the commitment is definitely a shared one. She's swinging for 2 and he's enjoying it too.

    And if his pleasure derives from her pleasure, if he thrills to her being thrilled, if he can find beauty in her passion with another man, it seems like really viable sex, particularly if it enhances their sex. It just seems like there could be a lot of bang for the buck.

    This site is a repository for a range of expression but it definitely has a strong vibe of role play/bluster connected to humiliation and subjugation. I don't think that figures much, if any, to quite a lot of men who watch their women with other men, or think about it. You'll get an avid and vocal contingent of very submissive guys in a place like this, some of them doubtless posing as women, and also get plenty of folks picking up on what they offer and thumping their chests, amplifying absurdly upon the theme, but I don't think it's representative in a legit or accurate way of what really drives this kind of sexual expression.
     
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  12. biwhitecple

    biwhitecple Active Member Real Person Gold Member

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    It's happening more.. and will continue To happen more. Porn is def. PlayIng a huge roll.. as time goes by Porn is getting more and more popular and once wives or husband's start watching black cock they are addicted. It is how it started for us :) lots of people in their fourtiedfourties grew up without internet or vert little access to it. Once the generations change where they grew up with internet it will be increasingly popular. No doubt it will still be a small margin of people who are in the lifestyle as it isn't for everyone but i do believe the amount will increase.
     
  13. TomandAnn

    TomandAnn Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    more today than ever.................
     
  14. BumBuster

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    Oh its happening, I had no idea this shit existed at first then I hooked up with a couple and I was like shit that was weird. I figured it was a freak accident because no opportuinty presented itself for years. Then I got introduced to again and that led me to other encounters almot one after another. Its real, once you start looking, you can see it.
     
  15. BBCnATX

    BBCnATX Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    Its definitely actually happening because I keep meeting them here in Austin :blackgreedy:
     
  16. calixto

    calixto Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    None of thoses options for me. In my case my wife Susana had not wished cuckold me. It happened because she was having a relationship with a black guy, when I met her. Her relationship was not good and they used to break and reconciled over and over again. During one of those breaks, we began to go out and some times we kissed too. I thought we were starting a new relationship together, but he came again and she reconciled with him one more time. Then I felt like a cuckold, in special due they were having sex often, during their last time together. When she broke up with him definitely, she became in my gilfriend. But something was changed my mind. I began feeling excited thinking abouth Susana and her ex having sex. I asked her to tell me about her sexual life with him. She told me a lot of experiences and I undertood that his virility was incredible.
    I developed a great admiration for him and despite she never saw him again during more tan 10 years, I always begged her to call him and get sex together. After 10 years of marriage she finally agreed to call him.
     
  17. vahtcpl

    vahtcpl Active Member

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    Just a quick thanks much to those who have taken the time to respond. Much appreciated!:)
     
  18. WhiteGuyintoThis

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    I agree more swinging then cuck. I love woman who fuck bigger then me. But I won't eat cum or suckmamcock. I just like the idea of seeing her better fuckednand stretched outnfor my sloppy seconds
     
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  19. Got2

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    Ah hem,

    If you want opinions, you will get lots of them here, with the obvious slant given the nature of this site.

    If you want real facts: Go to a swingers club and take note of all the attention that the buff Black men get. Then you will know it is real.
     
  20. kevtat

    kevtat Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    been to a swingers club in Ft Myers FL twice now. We were looking for another couple and not a single. No scarcity of singles and it is actually kind of intimidating. Really looking for a couple and preferably one with similar interests so suppose we would have to go down in the illusion column right now although we both are into it.
     
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