When the husband doesn't know.

[jazzmo]

Once a woman gone black she cant go back - Found it universally true

Really would enjoy all the details about your experience and how you feel about white cock now.

 

[Choccy]

Naughty girls...

 

[Tim Larsson]

My husband has no idea, and that's the way I like it. That way I can spend his money on sexy clothes for myself and going out to the club, buying IR porn, buying my black men jewlery or whatever they want, etc.

He has no idea I got on the pill either, so I don't let him fuck me without a condom. Nor do I swallow for him. (I told him I read it was bad for you, haha). As long as I'm there when he gets home from work in the evenings, and I make dinner and clean the house, he's happy. And with him working long hours and taking business trips frequently, I get to play while he is away alot!

Hi Cassie
I sounds like your relationship is very much like the one me and my wife has. Only she doesnt know that I know. I guess sometime your husband finds out too. Hopefully he does like I did - nothing.

 

[blkdickking]

i am married myself, to.a black woman. ive been caught cheating with white pussy before, but she thinks ive stopped cheating on her. there is NOTHING like fucking married white pussy behind the husbands back. when i lived in AZ i had three regular women. 2 were married and one was in a relationship with a friend of mine. i LOVED the sneaking around and cumming in their pussies. a couple times id see them at the store while i.was with my wife, what a rush!!! whats even better is that one of them was really into taking pix and making videos, i just couldnt show her face. it was so risky and sexy. i live in atl now and im hoping to find some sexy bbws like i had in AZ

 

[wife_wants_better]

I'll probably get flamed for this one, but there is nothing sexier to me than a hot white wife or fiance succumbing to her deepest desires behind the back of a white fiance or husband whom she loves dearly, but does not satisfy sexually the way a black man can.

Of course you must use your utmost discretion when posting here, but are any ladies currently (or previously) in this situation? Any black men experienced this situation?

What are your thoughts and your stories? Does it turn you on more knowing you're doing something you shouldn't be? Or on the other hand, do you think it's perfectly justified?

so true

 

[cltblackdick]

Hi Cassie
I sounds like your relationship is very much like the one me and my wife has. Only she doesnt know that I know. I guess sometime your husband finds out too. Hopefully he does like I did - nothing.

Tim. I want to meet your wife. And I want to meet Cassie too.

 

[syscom3]

I do. He will scream, cry, probably kick and punch the wall, get hysterical. That's why I mentioned in another thread that I want my black lover Jamaal to be there when I tell him, so things don't get out of hand.

You would do it just to deliberately hurt him. Hurt him bad. And those types of situations where you bring your lover with you, many times end up in gunfire with the woman and her lover dead. Just remember you will be a corpse and he will have a chance for freedom in front of a potentially sympathetic jury.

Not cool and very stupid.

 

[syscom3]

Thanks for your support DCDC. I'm sure my husband will take some time to accept the situation, but Jamaal has said he could take me on vacation to Paris or Martinique afterwards, to give my husband time to come to terms with the new situation. Jamaal is very generous, but he is also smart. He says that time heals, which is so true.

There is also the issue of who will stay on in the house if we go our separate ways. My husband will probably want to stay put, but I love my house and garden and would prefer that my husband got a studio somewhere. That is something we need to talk about too. Jamaal says that the fact the house is in my name would mean that my husband must move out if we want him to.

Sure that will happen. After all it works out in fairy tales.

One day youre not going to be pretty anymore. And your lover is just going to dump you for his next piece of ass.

 

[syscom3]

Have any of you cheating woman considered the STD's that you are exposing your unsuspecting spouse to? If he knows what you are doing, then he knows the risks. How would you like to be in divorce court and hearing your husband and lawyer tell the judge, "well your honor, I started to get a urinary tract infection and my doctor said it is gonorrhea. And he said its looking like its one of those anitbiotic resistant strains".

There are many ways to get STD's and just because your lover uses a condom, it doesnt reduce all the risk to zero.

 

[BlackInWhitePNW]

one was in a relationship with a friend of mine.

Hot until this part. Dick move. Hope you don't have friends in Atlanta.

 

[blkdickking]

Hot until this part. Dick move. Hope you don't have friends in Atlanta.

do you really think its a dick move? no need to answer, i really dont give a fuck about ur opinion but thanks for commenting anyways

 

[Torpedo]

Are most of the women in your circle married with unaware hubbies?

I would have to say probably yes. Information is on a need to know basis. I really don't have have a reason to pry into my partners personal lives. Some of the women I know their husbands are clueless about what is going on, other I don't know. The members of the group meet for pleasure, not relationship counseling. The first and most important rule of the group is discretion. Things that aren't shared aren't going to be inadvertently discussed.

 

[1bbc4u2c]

Ex

I would have to say probably yes. Information is on a need to know basis. I really don't have have a reason to pry into my partners personal lives. Some of the women I know their husbands are clueless about what is going on, other I don't know. The members of the group meet for pleasure, not relationship counseling. The first and most important rule of the group is discretion. Things that aren't shared aren't going to be inadvertently discussed.

Exactly.

 

[Torpedo]

Please don't feel I was casting aspersions. I was simply stating how things are with my hubby and me. Ultimately, it is each couple who must decide what parameters they can work within.

I would say your relationship with your husband is ideal

 

[BlackInWhitePNW]

do you really think its a dick move? no need to answer, i really dont give a fuck about ur opinion but thanks for commenting anyways

Just saying you're a shitty friend, but I'm cool that you don't give a fuck. Cheers.

 

[Choccy]

Sleeping around behind your husbands/wifes back is cheating period no amount of liberal speak or new age Psychobabble covers it you don't want him/her tell them if you want an open relationship tell them if they agree fine if they don't leave them or shut up and get some self control! personally if you prefer sleeping with black/brown guy's why don't you just marry one and be done with it no need for any extra hassle ?

Wise words DESI. I actively encourage my girl to experience over black or coloured guy's and have no problem with her going away with her girl friends and meeting other blackcock and enjoying herself. But if she done it secertly i think it would be different. Maybe i would get over it. But if it turned out to be a so called friend i think that would finish us and i'd probably end up in jail..

 

[Ann4BBC]

Have any of you cheating woman considered the STD's that you are exposing your unsuspecting spouse to? If he knows what you are doing, then he knows the risks. How would you like to be in divorce court and hearing your husband and lawyer tell the judge, "well your honor, I started to get a urinary tract infection and my doctor said it is gonorrhea. And he said its looking like its one of those anitbiotic resistant strains".

There are many ways to get STD's and just because your lover uses a condom, it doesnt reduce all the risk to zero.

I and my hubby are in our forties, right from the start we discussed the chance of getting STDs. But we both agreed we would take the risk so i do have unprotected sex.
It is a risk but if both parties are aware and ok about it then its all good. I have regular tests and am fine.
I do agree, though, if the hubby is not aware of what is going on and suddenly develops something, then that could be awkward!

 

[bob north est uk]

As a bull, I leave it up to the lady I am enjoying to sort the domestics out.

 

[syscom3]

I and my hubby are in our forties, right from the start we discussed the chance of getting STDs. But we both agreed we would take the risk so i do have unprotected sex.
It is a risk but if both parties are aware and ok about it then its all good. I have regular tests and am fine.
I do agree, though, if the hubby is not aware of what is going on and suddenly develops something, then that could be awkward!

You are not cheating. I am referring to the ones who are are.

 

[Ann4BBC]

You are not cheating. I am referring to the ones who are are.

True, in which case you are perfectly correct. Catching something then passing it on to your partner, without them even aware what youve been doing, must be a nightmare! X