Dear Janice when you go to fuck your wife and its like putting pencil in a bucket it is obvious that something huge has been deep in your wife , and I don't have any white friends with a cock that big that could do so much damage.
When the husband doesn't know.
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Very true. I'm not into all the hubby watching thing, I just like to enjoy the wifey with no distractions or onlookers around. It's just my my thing and maybe other people get off like that. I guess the old saying to each it's own applies here.
Dear Janice when you go to fuck your wife and its like putting pencil in a bucket it is obvious that something huge has been deep in your wife , and I don't have any white friends with a cock that big that could do so much damage.
Well, the positive thing about it is that you don't need to worry about him finding out anymore and it's nice to hear that he supports your black lusts. Did you just finally tell him about it and if so, what was his initial reaction..?
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I'm pretty sure my wife would still be doing it behind my back, if I hadn't gotten suspicious and followed her to his house. Sometimes I wish I still didn't know.
Surprised at first but I think it has always been his fantasy and we never agued about it just supported me
My husband doesn't know about my desire for black. When we started dating he asked me if I ever had sex with a black man. If I had it would have been a deal breaker for him. I love him to death, but hate his racist views. I get off thinking of going black behind his back. I guess you could call that passive-aggressive behavior, but I can assure you I wouldn't be passive 
I guess the old saying should be " Once you go black your hubby don't want u Back " I hear a lot of white women say white guys call them tainted if they knew you ever had sex with a black guy and no white man would ever want you anymore. Have Fun n Be SafeMy husband doesn't know about my desire for black. When we started dating he asked me if I ever had sex with a black man. If I had it would have been a deal breaker for him. I love him to death, but hate his racist views. I get off thinking of going black behind his back. I guess you could call that passive-aggressive behavior, but I can assure you I wouldn't be passive
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Judgement based on skin colour always makes me incredibly sad. There are good and bad, and wonderful and horrible, people out there in all colours of wrapping. My husband would only get upset if the guy I play with hurts me in some way, physically or emotionally. The colour of the guy wouldn't matter at all.I guess the old saying should be " Once you go black your hubby don't want u Back " I hear a lot of white women say white guys call them tainted if they knew you ever had sex with a black guy and no white man would ever want you anymore. Have Fun n Be Safe
You have a great relationship with your husband and not all women are that fortunate. Colour shouldn't matter at all, but in reality it does. Just be open with your partner about your desires and hopefully he will come around or maybe not. Tread lightly.
Yes, I am lucky, luckier than most, I think.
My husband doesn't know about my desire for black. When we started dating he asked me if I ever had sex with a black man. If I had it would have been a deal breaker for him. I love him to death, but hate his racist views. I get off thinking of going black behind his back. I guess you could call that passive-aggressive behavior, but I can assure you I wouldn't be passive
@anna_a
You haven't been passive-aggressive until you have actually carried out the actual act of aggressively getting some BBC. Now this would be some passive-aggressive ******* to do to him:
Show him this...
Then tell him "FUCK YOU, I WANT TO CUM ON SUM BIG..."
Fuck his racist views and getting some black-cock behind his back would definitely be the ultimate way to say Fuck-U to him. He would probably fuck Beyonce in a heart-beat without you knowing anything of the least. I know a red-neck white-guy with a crew-cut who lives out in Pensacola FL by the tip near Alabama or whatever who admitted to me he would fuck Beyonce in a hard-beat. Its hard to resist what you desire and find sexy.
Another couple (Atlanta911) on here you have to give credit to had a great post on their effort to help Erase the Racism. Worth checking it out:
https://www.blacktowhite.net/threads/our-part-to-fight-racism-can-you-post-some-of-yours.36576/
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Nice. How'd you get picked up by your first BBC?
I wish I was the one fucking you!At first my hubby had no idea that his black buddie was fucking the ******* out of me! The first time he fucked me he pinned me against our kitchen counter while my husband was in the shower, it was against my will and was nothing short of *******! My pussy had never had such a huge extremely hard cock and he about fucked me ******* and he shot his load deep in my pussy and just held me there kissing me and pumping his seed into me! Then he let me down from the counter and said shhhhh and when my hubby came out of the shower I said nothing.After that he would come over and every chance he got he would kiss me and fondle me and I began wanting him and looking forward to him comming over.Then I found myself sneaking away to see him and when he would be at our house I would send my hubby to the store and we would fuck hard and fast and he would cum in me before my hubby would get back from the store and this went on for over a year with a couple pregnancy scares.Since then Ive been with alot of hot black men and I even have a black boyfriend who just got me pregnant for the second time.Im still happily married and our 20th anniversary is Nov.10th my hubby is totally turned on by my extramarrital relationships and loves seeing me black owned! Go figure? Lucky me
I gotta say I've had quite a bit of experience on all sides of the spectrum.
One of my first sexual experiences with a white 40 something woman married next door neighbour. When I was holiday from uni studies, she used to sunbathe topless, concealed, but visible by my bedroom window. Looking back, it seemed deliberate, but to begin with it wasn't obvious. I was a strapping horny young 19 year old, I'm sure she used to play cat and mouse with it. The first time I stared at her from outside the window, I honestly thought she would catch me, be angry, and dash indoors. But she seemed to take ages to react, rolling over, pointing her toes, stretching, though when she did finally look up she got flustered, flushing and rushed back jiggling naked white titties back into her house. She may have been playing, or perhaps she suddenly got a little scared, you can never tell with a woman. But that cat and mouse game eventually led to her slowly getting excited with her 'show', I got to flirting from the window, to talking to her whilst sunbathing, seducing her, and ultimately fucking the ******* out of her in her own marital bed.
Now I was young then, and it was sexy, thrilling, I felt like an alpha male who had claimed her and given her pleasure that was superior to her husband. At the time it was fucking incredible because it was much more complex, daring, and primal than normal vanilla. This woman didn't know how lusty she would get. But, BUT! I was also guilty, my heart went out to him, and her, and that was the first and only time we ever did it. She didn't have to see me for much because I went back to uni to study, but that to me was not a particularly healthy style of doing things, and I'm sure she was wracked with guilt for a long time. And in many ways she was right it was something to be ashamed of. While the lust was titilating and exciting, in no way did it feed back into the marriage, and it just smacked of a lack of integrity and losing control, it just all died. It didn't have to, but that speaks to the quality of relating going on from start to finish.
Since then, I've met a few kinds of people. Alot of women fall into the category of excitable little does who just get caught up in deeply electric lust. Ride the black taboo train, shy and sweet, a deep submissive streak who have been excited by the idea but have never had a man to make them feel desired, wanted, and submissive. Then there are just the cockteasing bitches, either naturally dominant, or just completely devoid of ethics. Either they have a submissive husband, or more common, they basically give no ******* for their husband, at best he says he is fine with it even though you can tell he has low self esteem, at worst she is just an abusive whore who has everything handed to her and thinks just because she has a pussy she is god's gift. In my view, if the man wants to fuck around like a stud emulating her he has absolute right to do that.
Or you get the slightly nicer but just as prone to cheat, the woman who is in a half assed relationship with a man, and instead of her black lover adding to them, she basically just wants to leave her partner, which is pretty damned vile, and I find that heart breaking.
With the submissive types, sometimes there is an unease because they have a black fantasy, but they feel guilty about their husband and what he will think. By and large these usually tend to be submissive kinds of men, who funnily enough, I've often kindly but also seductively got involved, because they enjoyed being dominated by their wives and being the beta male. It is a small break of trust in relationship, I've pushed someone's boundaries seducing them, but kind of knowing that in the background is a healthy relationship. Or, these women tend to have naturally dominant men, where it's not cuckolding at all it's just swinging but perhaps they have a racial fetish.
I would make the distinction, that secrets are fine, but cheating and affairs are fucking not. Sometimes it's titilating, to push a woman's edges, make her so deeply excited she will become extremely submissive and shock herself, or push the husband in the same degree. The unknown is inherently sexy, and sometimes consensual mystery is one of the most erotic things on the planet. Sometimes I will go further than the couples rules, and ultimately they come to like it because I do not take over their relationship, I respect their side of things and encourage them to become more kinky. But that is with seduction, dark playfulness and having their best interests in mind. Lust always pushes peoples edges, the virgin who starts off all shy, starts getting her own confidence and boundaries and before long she is suckling on sweaty black nuts telling you how much she wants to tear her apart lol. Or the wife and husband who say they are not into humiliation, when the intelligent lust hits the man often likes to feel small, almost baby like as opposed to shame, and the wife likes to lovingly dominate him. I am a conniving devious bastard who knows the difference between and actual no, and one where they are just a little scared and confused. While I push down walls, I also strengthen them, if someone is getting left out I hate it, because I actually care about people.
Even if people keep sexy secrets. To some degree I think it's fine to have a private part of you your partner doesn't know about, to come online, feel dirty, dangerous, and independent. But you have to make sure that energy comes back to the person you care most about, in some form or another. If you find yourself being submissive or dominant it needs to come back, fantasy, role-play, all of that.
So there are people who respect relationships and intimacy and are deeply sexy, then there are the cunts and dicks who basically just lose their ******* whenever a tiny drop of lust gets in their veins, their partners, their bulls, anyone they can use to get off, become extremely disposable. Being dangerous and daring, and caring can be a tricky balance in the short term, but ultimately is obvious when done right by most. I can't stand the cunts and dicks, they make my ******* boil, they are ******* in the sack, confused, heartless, and just rob and steal peoples natural zest and desire. And while it may be sexy at first, they usually hit a wall of hate, self-hate, with a huge lost too their personality via some big fucked up addiction that hampers all their abilities to relate sensibly.
One of my first sexual experiences with a white 40 something woman married next door neighbour. When I was holiday from uni studies, she used to sunbathe topless, concealed, but visible by my bedroom window. Looking back, it seemed deliberate, but to begin with it wasn't obvious. I was a strapping horny young 19 year old, I'm sure she used to play cat and mouse with it. The first time I stared at her from outside the window, I honestly thought she would catch me, be angry, and dash indoors. But she seemed to take ages to react, rolling over, pointing her toes, stretching, though when she did finally look up she got flustered, flushing and rushed back jiggling naked white titties back into her house. She may have been playing, or perhaps she suddenly got a little scared, you can never tell with a woman. But that cat and mouse game eventually led to her slowly getting excited with her 'show', I got to flirting from the window, to talking to her whilst sunbathing, seducing her, and ultimately fucking the ******* out of her in her own marital bed.
Now I was young then, and it was sexy, thrilling, I felt like an alpha male who had claimed her and given her pleasure that was superior to her husband. At the time it was fucking incredible because it was much more complex, daring, and primal than normal vanilla. This woman didn't know how lusty she would get. But, BUT! I was also guilty, my heart went out to him, and her, and that was the first and only time we ever did it. She didn't have to see me for much because I went back to uni to study, but that to me was not a particularly healthy style of doing things, and I'm sure she was wracked with guilt for a long time. And in many ways she was right it was something to be ashamed of. While the lust was titilating and exciting, in no way did it feed back into the marriage, and it just smacked of a lack of integrity and losing control, it just all died. It didn't have to, but that speaks to the quality of relating going on from start to finish.
Since then, I've met a few kinds of people. Alot of women fall into the category of excitable little does who just get caught up in deeply electric lust. Ride the black taboo train, shy and sweet, a deep submissive streak who have been excited by the idea but have never had a man to make them feel desired, wanted, and submissive. Then there are just the cockteasing bitches, either naturally dominant, or just completely devoid of ethics. Either they have a submissive husband, or more common, they basically give no ******* for their husband, at best he says he is fine with it even though you can tell he has low self esteem, at worst she is just an abusive whore who has everything handed to her and thinks just because she has a pussy she is god's gift. In my view, if the man wants to fuck around like a stud emulating her he has absolute right to do that.
Or you get the slightly nicer but just as prone to cheat, the woman who is in a half assed relationship with a man, and instead of her black lover adding to them, she basically just wants to leave her partner, which is pretty damned vile, and I find that heart breaking.
With the submissive types, sometimes there is an unease because they have a black fantasy, but they feel guilty about their husband and what he will think. By and large these usually tend to be submissive kinds of men, who funnily enough, I've often kindly but also seductively got involved, because they enjoyed being dominated by their wives and being the beta male. It is a small break of trust in relationship, I've pushed someone's boundaries seducing them, but kind of knowing that in the background is a healthy relationship. Or, these women tend to have naturally dominant men, where it's not cuckolding at all it's just swinging but perhaps they have a racial fetish.
I would make the distinction, that secrets are fine, but cheating and affairs are fucking not. Sometimes it's titilating, to push a woman's edges, make her so deeply excited she will become extremely submissive and shock herself, or push the husband in the same degree. The unknown is inherently sexy, and sometimes consensual mystery is one of the most erotic things on the planet. Sometimes I will go further than the couples rules, and ultimately they come to like it because I do not take over their relationship, I respect their side of things and encourage them to become more kinky. But that is with seduction, dark playfulness and having their best interests in mind. Lust always pushes peoples edges, the virgin who starts off all shy, starts getting her own confidence and boundaries and before long she is suckling on sweaty black nuts telling you how much she wants to tear her apart lol. Or the wife and husband who say they are not into humiliation, when the intelligent lust hits the man often likes to feel small, almost baby like as opposed to shame, and the wife likes to lovingly dominate him. I am a conniving devious bastard who knows the difference between and actual no, and one where they are just a little scared and confused. While I push down walls, I also strengthen them, if someone is getting left out I hate it, because I actually care about people.
Even if people keep sexy secrets. To some degree I think it's fine to have a private part of you your partner doesn't know about, to come online, feel dirty, dangerous, and independent. But you have to make sure that energy comes back to the person you care most about, in some form or another. If you find yourself being submissive or dominant it needs to come back, fantasy, role-play, all of that.
So there are people who respect relationships and intimacy and are deeply sexy, then there are the cunts and dicks who basically just lose their ******* whenever a tiny drop of lust gets in their veins, their partners, their bulls, anyone they can use to get off, become extremely disposable. Being dangerous and daring, and caring can be a tricky balance in the short term, but ultimately is obvious when done right by most. I can't stand the cunts and dicks, they make my ******* boil, they are ******* in the sack, confused, heartless, and just rob and steal peoples natural zest and desire. And while it may be sexy at first, they usually hit a wall of hate, self-hate, with a huge lost too their personality via some big fucked up addiction that hampers all their abilities to relate sensibly.
Tiff, only you know your husband. Some men, like me, are very secure and know that we just don't have much to give sexually any more. I am turned on royally by seeing a hot white woman being taken by a BBC. It is very visually appealing and when I think of my wife being handled by a BBC, it turns me on to no end. I love my wife and would do anything for her. When she wants a BBC, I understand. I see the way she looks at black men. We even have a black friend of the family that she kisses on the lips when we see him. She doesn't do that with anyone else. I buy her only black dildos and vibrators and she orgasms very quickly.
Maybe you and your husband can watch an interracial porn movie to get a gauge on what he thinks. You never know, it may turn him on and then the conversation goes from there. Going behind his back should not be the way. Be open and let him know of your desires. What are you afraid of, divorce? If that is the case, you are free to find any BBC you want. What if you do go behind his back and he finds out? Divorce will happen!
I realize it is hard but bringing in a movie or black dildo may peek his interest and gives you the conversation starter you long for.
Best of luck.
I understand your love for him and at the same time your need to be satisfied. Years ago, I would have been devastated if my wife told me she wanted a BBC. I would have been jealous and feeling worthless. As I have matured and understand love, I realized that it is not just my life but hers as well. The strong desire you have will hurt you one way or another. If you don't have your experience, you will grow very frustrated and become a total bitch. That will lead to marital problems. If you do it and absolutely love it, you will want more. Then you will do anything to get away and he will become curious. Honesty is the best approach. Bring in the BBC movie and black dildo. It will break the ice and you could be innocent about it. Kind of just feeling it out.
Make sense?
Sam R
Make sense?
Sam R
Or you could actually work on the actual emotional depth of your relationship and great passion will happen naturally without all this gimmick and fetishes, which is a million miles from cheating him. Sam R sounds like he's just lost his balls and passion so it's easier to let another man do it for him, hence this ridiculous narrow view that repressed desire must always mean she fucks a black dude, otherwise she gets catty and bitchy like a spoilt baby, not if she fucking loves you she doesn't. I wonder if your wife loves you truly, or if she just goes along with it because you do not seem to have pride in yourself as a man, a sexual being, and your affect on her, and your relationship lacks genuine intimacy and has just been replaced by fetish and objectification.
Most normal people would be quite upset if their partner was intensely desiring others, where the relationship needs to be worked on and that desire brought back into their own dynamic, not broken down where they get someone else to do it for them. Imagine the shoe on the other foot, a husband that tells his wife he doesn't find her sexy and thinks they should ad another woman into the relationship to make up for his lack. She would have all rights to get extremely angry. I doesn't sound like you would, but to counter Sam R, you may well lose your husband if you act so recklessly, so seriously think about your actions.
It's one thing for both partners to come into the interracial world together. It's another to just have one partner lose their own sexual charm, while the other one gets the world world placed at their feet on a platter of sexual privilege.
LOL ok I just read them I will pull my rather colourful language down a notch, though not because it's not nice or encouraging, I wasn't calling anyone specific any names my derogatory words were to describe hypothetical people making those mistakes. I didn't post it just for you either it was also a message to the wider readers. I see these mistakes happen alot of the time and people are often want of rational faculties and ethics when lust gets involved. You didn't take issue with any of the points I brought up just the fact that it was fiery. Not all of our 'wonderful world' is wonderful, some of us do it just as much justice from counteracting bad opinions and a lack of ethics. I judged Sam R on the credits of that very response, I don't have to know every tiny detail of the relationship with his Mrs.
As for you Mac hypocrite much? Given you're normally the voice of unpopular reason. You seem to possess the more ingrained version of being psychologically bitch slapped in the form of being a white knight who thinks just because a woman stands up to a man she is automatically right and wins, and is justified.
As for you Mac hypocrite much? Given you're normally the voice of unpopular reason. You seem to possess the more ingrained version of being psychologically bitch slapped in the form of being a white knight who thinks just because a woman stands up to a man she is automatically right and wins, and is justified.
yup! ... Unpopular reason? I'm just for a little "entertainment" and "humor" ... nothing more!
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