When the husband doesn't know.

It's how I started. With my black former boss. I dated my boss for almost a year and Hubby didn't find out until near the end. I date a black guy I work with now sometimes. Hubby knows and I think we're in a better place in our marriage. But...it's not the same. I was REALLY into my boss and the fact that I was cheating on my husband with him might have been part of it...:unsure:
 
SAMR said:
Tiff, only you know your husband. Some men, like me, are very secure and know that we just don't have much to give sexually any more. I am turned on royally by seeing a hot white woman being taken by a BBC. It is very visually appealing and when I think of my wife being handled by a BBC, it turns me on to no end. I love my wife and would do anything for her. When she wants a BBC, I understand. I see the way she looks at black men. We even have a black friend of the family that she kisses on the lips when we see him. She doesn't do that with anyone else. I buy her only black dildos and vibrators and she orgasms very quickly.
Maybe you and your husband can watch an interracial porn movie to get a gauge on what he thinks. You never know, it may turn him on and then the conversation goes from there. Going behind his back should not be the way. Be open and let him know of your desires. What are you afraid of, divorce? If that is the case, you are free to find any BBC you want. What if you do go behind his back and he finds out? Divorce will happen!
I realize it is hard but bringing in a movie or black dildo may peek his interest and gives you the conversation starter you long for.
Best of luck.
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SAMR I realize that you are replying to a post "when the husband doesn't know" on a site devoted to black men with white women - but I think sometimes we forget why do the women on this site enjoy black men. Its not just size, its presence and personality. And to be honest, you dont need a black man to fulfill all of those qualities, but having charisma in a sexually aggressive manner is associated with black men, so its a natural assumption.

I am white skinned, but mixed ethnic background. I am not WASP, nor Catholic, or anything like that, so I have been the transition for many white girls into this addiction because on the surface their families aren't shocked initially. Yes, in 2016, there are plenty of white families that still have "look who's coming to dinner?" syndrome...

So Id like to point out the more enjoyable aspects of this sexual relationship. I like the control, the dominance. I like having a woman devote herself to me. I like having her send me dirty texts during the day. I like her making me naughty videos of herself, saying "thinking of you." And yes, I get multiple texts from multiple women everyday. I like knowing the each woman is ok with and not intimidated by the fact that I have multiple women who want to experience sex with me.

I think that is the part that is not talked about enough on this site, from the Men's perspective. Its not socially acceptable for men to have numerous women - who accept and know about each other. I know that seems odd, boys will be boys, except that men who date around and flaunt it, are not looked upon with much respect by women.

I prefer the husbands to know. I prefer to make sure the husband gets a text from his wife right before we begin. I prefer to have dinner with both husband and wife. I have not yet been taking on vacation with a couple, but I wouldnt mind that at all - I know couples who have done that.

I try and encourage the husbands to understand their role. I run a kik group for cuckolding on the East Coast. I have 10 years of training experience with couples, because I believe in marriage and want every couple to stay together, not get divorced. I think sometimes sex gets in the way - and if white married men, just let their wives live out their sexual fantasies, they would reap many many benefits.

Maybe im getting off topic, but Ive read multiple posts on this thread and I think some of the wives are playing with fire. There is nothing wrong with sex, and there is nothing wrong with sex with black or white bulls, but sneaking around will only end in divorce unfortunately.
 
blackbull4couple said:
I can see why it may be horny for some. I also sympathise with wives that need black cock but feel that they can't get it with their husbands consent. For me personally though I shy away from women who fuck without their husbands knowledge.

Besides, for me the thrill is fucking married women knowing that their husband is aware
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You are a rare one! Most men love the thrill of getting what is not theirs!
When I travel for business and a man finds out that I am alone, they feel that I am "fair game"!
 
Smallwhitey said:
There is no way the husband can't know after the first time or two. The physical changes to the vagina (more open/accommodating) are just too obvious for a guy to not notice.
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Women give birth and their vaginas get back "into shape", so to speak. In spite of what the porn addled mind may think, a black dick doesn't compare to a small human.
 
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