I've got a date tonight with someone I met on here. Our second date and the first one didn't disappoint. It does happen.
Get verified. That's the first step.
Next, post your city, where you live or where you're able to meet. Not just your state and surely not just your country. That's the only way to make meeting realistic.
If you're not doing those two things, you're only pretending to be looking for some BBC.
I don't mean to be crass or offend, but it's like when my nephew told me at Thanksgiving dinner that he was looking for a better job. I asked to see his resume and he didn't have one. I said "Oh, so you like saying you're looking for a better job more than you like actually looking for one."