Well said. I have met couples and the wife wanted to badly but the husband didn't want her too kiss because he thinks that is to intimate?? So what the hell is my cock inside her pussy with no condoms on and the fact that she sucks my cock and swallow my loads that not the ultimate form of intimacy????I hate being given rules like that. While I understand a guy can have insecurities, it's a turnoff for me when he gets like that. You're either all in with total trust or move on. That might seem harsh to some...but I feel like there's no room for insecurity like that in this kind of relationship.