Dom hub/sub wife perspective.
None of these occur without a recent std/sti test showing all negatives. No test results, no meeting. We do not meet with dominant bulls either, hubby is the dominant, we do need anyone else filling that position. Bulls must be respectful to hubby as well, we don't do the humiliation thing at all. Wife only submits to husband, will not do anything without his approval. Hubby is allowed full participation.
Kissing? Yes
French kissing? Reserved for hubby only
No condom? Yes
Cum inside? Yes
Swallow cum? No
Anal sex? Reserved for hubby only.
Sleep over? Bull can sleep over with us, but she is not allowed to go to him alone overnight. We both consider this to be cheating. If you aren't comfortable with hubby present, you get nothing from us.
Rimming? No.
Sharing with others? Not without test results, we don't do gangbangs.