My husband and I have been swingers for many years. I've attended many gangbang parties. I did one for a video with 20 guys. I've attended several parties where there were like 70 men and 6 women, only 3 of us played. I loved those parties, but it's really difficult to make happen. However I went to the party knowing that I would be well fucked by multiple guys. I would probably be good with a surprise gangbang, but only where I don't lose control. I fuck shoni want to fuck.
I have been in situations a couple times at swing club where it just happened, and I think I enjoyed those the most. On one memorable occasion we were watch others play in the group room. I was dressed in a sheer dress that was almost long enough to cover my pussy. I was standing next to a very good looking black guy. I was not there by accident. The room was crowded. I made a point of pressing my breasts against him. He took that as an invitation. We were kissing and his hands were all over me. I removed his cock from his pants and started to strike him. Another black guy started rubbing my ass. When I looked around he asked if it was OK. He pulled my skirt over my ass, and I pulled my top down giving them access to my boobs.
I was loving it! Then a third black guy asked if he could join. I laid my head back on the first guy while all them felt me up. I was stroking all of their cocks. I asked if they would like to join me in the bedroom where I got my brains fucked out.
I really prefer small gangbangs with 3 or 4 guys. It's not as distracting.The problem again is making it happen. Most of the times guys are afraid to ask if they can join. I'm not into being ******, but if the guy is nice and asks I'll usually fuck him. Guys if you want to get laid more often, ask!