Very hot. Big turn on for me. Told my wife she can cheat on meI just added the Bull/s component for my own enjoyment/pleasure. I do not want hubby to even know what I am doing because that makes it even hotter and sluttier for me and is MY thing
Tips to convince husband
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Great approach
Excellent point. He should be everyday
Blanketparty
Male
To me it sounds he has problems with porn, which may even lead to ED and disinterest in sex overall. Considering that he is physically fit and healthy then that's the most likely reason.
You're looking great there Darling, keep going next time???
Message me for some practical advice.
...or not.
The OP, a one-poster who was never seen again BTW, mentioned ED - whatever that means in case of her husband. Anything that pushes sex too much could increase the pressure on him which might as well lead to his complete withdrawal. Tread lightly is what i say.
She better brings it up in a way that does not accuse or blame him. He can't be blamed for what he is not capable of. There must be other ways to bring it up and work it out.
Perhaps it would be better to include him in her masturbation habits. He could be included by using her favorite toy on her. If she thanks him for giving her pleasure that way and the good sex he proviedes her with, he may feel put at ease and develop great enjoyment and pleasure from giving her pleasure with the toy. Just an idea for a start.
Once it becomes a regular style of sex for the couple other themes can be brought up and added more easily, and there is possibility for development.
i beg your pardon, i did not read through the whole thread before replying here.Hiya [you have a long name]!
- anyone reading, please immediately skip to TL;DR in at the bottom of this. Do not read anything in between, it's boring.
Thanks so much for your input!
Since this topic is the same ilk as a subsequent one by @Wboi, I'll add that to this reply...
Thanks so much for caring about his health and the health of our marriage - really, it's rather rare to have virtual strangers care enough about you or your potential issues they take time and energy to help you and pass along encouraging sentiments. I'll just pop into direct mode for a second - read the next paragraphs with love; the curt tone is merely a function of my academic and Euro upbringing;
The issue of the ED, it seems, has become somewhat of a red herring - understandably so, because it seems to outsiders like an issue that - if remedied - would fix everything.
It won't.
Man OK... really didn't find it necessary to go into detail about this since it's not extremely pertinent... but here goes: To list off, just to set the record straight; he's not overweight, in fact his metabolism is somewhat of a wonder - he probably doesn't do enough cardio and that's because if he does, it interferes with muscles gains (re see above metabolism). He does not have diabetes (of any kind). He takes no *******, prescription or other, rarely drinks, and vapes (weed) but nothing that would interfere with this - he has no addictions. He's sadly subject to a curated and predominantly whole foods diet because his wife is in the fit biz (and definitely does too much cardio which also interferes with her muscle gains - but such is life when it's work). He doesn't miss a doctor check-up - doctor deems him healthy. It's not a sudden or semi-sudden onset of issues. He's into women and women only - he likes me. He's had issues before me. He might just be... unlucky in this area. Does daily, professional stress and fatigue interfere with such workings?; probably - adulting sucks.
I mentioned ED in the OG post because it's an explanation to the situation where the reason could also be ... "likes men more than women", "has been cheating", "is just super worried about his fantasy football lineup" - I don't know... insert other reasons mutually pleasurable sex isn't happening.
Right... so... ED is a red herring because; could it "get fixed"... which it can't... even then, here I am. Just a girl standing in front of a bunch of sexy people asking for their input and experiences on potentially introducing this - which is a major turn on for me - into a partnership.
On a side note, it is interesting to me that the thought is that it's counterproductive to try to find a solution through my surefire cravings whereas "fixing" him would constitute a shoe-in. I reckon that might just be a consequence of the lack of information given - so that's obviously also my bad. And let me just add here that there's a general misunderstanding that there's no communication or strong foundation - which I've attempted at outlining in other replies, but obviously, all that gets lost in the sea of words - also understandably so.
I uhmmm am trying to make it work... for him as well as me.
Now, is one of the trajectories here that we just... don't introduce anything extra into the equation? - sure. Then I'll have no (pleasurable) sex life - again. Absolutely, that could be the outcome if he's just not ultimately into any of it. Tried that for some years; can endure. Wouldn't mind getting fully pleasured though - perhaps that's just a particularly selfish wish.
My current quest, if you will, is sampling ideas from experiential and anecdotal narratives as well as from general thoughts by these wise people on here who have enjoyed the lifestyle for a while - so that I might ascertain whether my partner happens to also find that lifestyle exciting (read previous comments if you right now think ED means not cumming.) There. That's the unsexiest sentence ever written.
Oy, that's it. Appreciate you, truly, for showing interest and for showing care for me and my lifeThose who asked for updates on this through PM; shall do!
TL: DR; carry on being hot and awesome, nothing to see here.
Sorry for that.i wish you all the best with your man and may your deepest, darkest desires eventually become a reality for the enjoyment of the both of you!
You can use a fait accompli.
italianwhitepc
Couple
Get a bbc dildo and have him walk in on you creaming on it.
Lol leave him and marry me lol... I accept that I'm small and can't please a woman... So naturally I'd encourage you to get some BBC!!! I'm fine being pussy free... I could clean u and kiss u/hug u/cuddle ect... Be there for you emotionally... I know woman need BBC to be satisfied... Also I'd buy you a BBC fuck machine lol
I accept that I'm small and can't please a woman... So naturally I'd encourage you to get some BBC!!! I'm fine being pussy free... I could clean u and kiss u/hug u/cuddle ect... Be there for you emotionally... I know woman need BBC to be satisfied... Also I'd buy you a BBC fuck machine lol
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