The biggest issue in the lifestyle is distance and who is going to be paying for the visit ? I've paid it myself before ,I've even had cucks pay for my visit and some ,I've also split the costs. I prefer when the cuck pays , it's a huge turn on for me ,maybe not for the husbands. I have noticed that many husbands will go the extra mile to make sure she is satisfied properly. I was just curious if anyone else had measures or a way of discussing it with a couple or even the husbands opinions. Is it a turn on for you to do something that kinky and extreme for wife's pleasure? Does the wife know that some husbands pay for the bull to be there ? Does it turn her on ? I'm just curious, it's like one of those huge questions in the lifestyle that is so important but not discussed until meet time