Stag Vixen (non-cuckold)

Hi guys, I know the whole cuckold thing is a whole genre of porn and a lifestyle. I really am interested in finding out some answers so don't go off and get all butt hurt.
What I want to know is where are the non cuckold couples. I personally would never want my man to be a cuck. If you are, then good for you. I would never want my man to do that and I think the Stag Vixen lifestyle is growing.

Bulls, why would you fuck another man's wife and want her husband to clean you up or even want to watch him eat your cum out of her? Doesn't that make you bisexual?

I personally love to have sex with other men. While I am the one with the control and can say no anytime, he can also say no anytime he wants. That means if I want a man but husband doesn't like him, he can nix it right there, and he has done it. Every guy must go through him to get to me. Is there anybody else out there like us? I must say we have some very respectful bulls.

As a couple we desire the same things. If anything she wants to be "made" to be super slutty. Submissive. But horny and uninhibited.

Being dominated and shared is our kink
 
This is the first time I’ve ever heard the phrase “stag and vixen” but I think this perfectly summarizes my situation. Is there a reverse of this too? Like for a female who likes to watch her husband have sex with other women?
Yes. And we are a lot alike.
 
Hi guys, I know the whole cuckold thing is a whole genre of porn and a lifestyle. I really am interested in finding out some answers so don't go off and get all butt hurt.
What I want to know is where are the non cuckold couples. I personally would never want my man to be a cuck. If you are, then good for you. I would never want my man to do that and I think the Stag Vixen lifestyle is growing.

Bulls, why would you fuck another man's wife and want her husband to clean you up or even want to watch him eat your cum out of her? Doesn't that make you bisexual?

I personally love to have sex with other men. While I am the one with the control and can say no anytime, he can also say no anytime he wants. That means if I want a man but husband doesn't like him, he can nix it right there, and he has done it. Every guy must go through him to get to me. Is there anybody else out there like us? I must say we have some very respectful bulls.
Just like us. Or very similar. Yes
 
Call us what you will, doesn't really bother us either way. We enjoy what we enjoy... ...Humiliation isn't our thing. Sometimes I clean her after if she asks. I also do that when we're together so we don't see that as submissive. It's really about what makes her happy and likely to keep doing it.

This pretty much sums up my view nicely.

Most couples I would think operate on a sliding scale of “green light” “red light” items depending on their sexual moods for any given play encounter and the man(men) they are playing with at the time.

As long everyone is on the same page with expectations then it’s all good.

Get naked and have fun!
 
This is the first time I’ve ever heard the phrase “stag and vixen” but I think this perfectly summarizes my situation. Is there a reverse of this too? Like for a female who likes to watch her husband have sex with other women?
Cuckquean is the term for a female cuckold.
 
For me... It's about connection. I have to feel a connection with her and personally talking ******* about the husband and other degrading stuff at him takes away the energy i want to send in focusing on her pleasure AND mine...knowing his pleasured is in seeing her receiving pleasure.
 
Right I’ve heard that term but that’s not what I mean. There’s no humiliation or degradation when I hear about or watch my husband with another woman. If cuckold is to stag, then cuckqueen is to _________?
That`s the same difference. There was no humiliation or degradation when i watched my girlfriend with another man either. Yet that`s referred to as cuckolding. It`s the definition of the term, not what some people want it to be.

But if you feel the need to raise further confusion... ImO a good analogy would be Hind or Doe. Your husband or boyfriend then would be a Fox, and his female lovers, well, make a guess. :angel:
 
That`s the same difference. There was no humiliation or degradation when i watched my girlfriend with another man either. Yet that`s referred to as cuckolding. It`s the definition of the term, not what some people want it to be.

But if you feel the need to raise further confusion... ImO a good analogy would be Hind or Doe. Your husband or boyfriend then would be a Fox, and his female lovers, well, make a guess. :angel:

I think the term “cuckolding” has connotations that go beyond just watching your wife having sex with another man and enjoying it. I think it’s perceived as immasculating, at least that’s what pops up in my head. That’s why instead of changing peoples minds on the word I would rather have there be a different word.
 
I think the term “cuckolding” has connotations that go beyond just watching your wife having sex with another man and enjoying it. I think it’s perceived as immasculating, at least that’s what pops up in my head. That’s why instead of changing peoples minds on the word I would rather have there be a different word.
i see. But more important would ImO be that everyone involved knows what to expect and is on the same page before and during a meeting no matter what they or others call it!

i assume a statement like "We are looking for a black man to join us in the bedroom; we are not into humiliating or degrading acts, but we prefer the husband to watch" more telling than "We are a Stag-Vixen couple lookin for a Bull." jm2ct`s
 
i see. But more important would ImO be that everyone involved knows what to expect and is on the same page before and during a meeting no matter what they or others call it!

i assume a statement like "We are looking for a black man to join us in the bedroom; we are not into humiliating or degrading acts, but we prefer the husband to watch" more telling than "We are a Stag-Vixen couple lookin for a Bull." jm2ct`s

Yeah but I’m looking at it more as a title or verb that can some up all of that in a single word.
 
Yeah but I’m looking at it more as a title or verb that can some up all of that in a single word.
That would create hundreds of terms for the many guises of a lifestyle or the different lifestyles. Those can never be as well-communicated or accepted as a more general umbrella term. i would say that would be Cuckold/Hotwife but also Stag/Vixen are on the rise. In any case it is recommended to be more specific about the particular scenarios you like to get involved in in order to avoid confusion and find a playmate who fits into those scenarios.
 
That would create hundreds of terms for the many guises of a lifestyle or the different lifestyles. Those can never be as well-communicated or accepted as a more general umbrella term. i would say that would be Cuckold/Hotwife but also Stag/Vixen are on the rise. In any case it is recommended to be more specific about the particular scenarios you like to get involved in in order to avoid confusion and find a playmate who fits into those scenarios.

I think you are over complicating things. There easily could be a term for what I’ve described. You know what I mean when I say bull, twink, Dom, unicorn, etc. Why couldn’t it be the same for this?
 
We are EXACTLY like you and your man. Hubby shares me with friends and fortunately several are black. I gave my cherry to a black guy when I was 17 and have fucked countless black guys over the years. In college I was in a relationship with another gal who LOVED to share me and watch me get fucked so I fucked lots of guys in my 20's. Hubby had no idea about my slutty past for the first 10+ years we were married, he just thought he was a very lucky guy who'd married a gal who NEVER said no. Once I started to share my slutty past the more I told him the more he fucked me and within 6 months was sharing me. He played college sports so has several black buddies who are divorced or never married and he KNEW they wanted to fuck me. Years later I have a regular 5 or BBC's that he shares me with and we play with some biracial couples. He says he's like a guy that owns a Lamborghini. It wasn't meant to be driven the speed limit but as hard as fast as possible and he's lucky enough to be married to a slut that NEEDS more than one guy's cock and he gets to watch me being USED and help when he wants or just sit back and enjoy the show!! lol
 
Hi guys, I know the whole cuckold thing is a whole genre of porn and a lifestyle. I really am interested in finding out some answers so don't go off and get all butt hurt.
What I want to know is where are the non cuckold couples. I personally would never want my man to be a cuck. If you are, then good for you. I would never want my man to do that and I think the Stag Vixen lifestyle is growing.

Bulls, why would you fuck another man's wife and want her husband to clean you up or even want to watch him eat your cum out of her? Doesn't that make you bisexual?

I personally love to have sex with other men. While I am the one with the control and can say no anytime, he can also say no anytime he wants. That means if I want a man but husband doesn't like him, he can nix it right there, and he has done it. Every guy must go through him to get to me. Is there anybody else out there like us? I must say we have some very respectful bulls.
My husband that’s exactly what he does !!
 
Hi guys, I know the whole cuckold thing is a whole genre of porn and a lifestyle. I really am interested in finding out some answers so don't go off and get all butt hurt.
What I want to know is where are the non cuckold couples. I personally would never want my man to be a cuck. If you are, then good for you. I would never want my man to do that and I think the Stag Vixen lifestyle is growing.

Bulls, why would you fuck another man's wife and want her husband to clean you up or even want to watch him eat your cum out of her? Doesn't that make you bisexual?

I personally love to have sex with other men. While I am the one with the control and can say no anytime, he can also say no anytime he wants. That means if I want a man but husband doesn't like him, he can nix it right there, and he has done it. Every guy must go through him to get to me. Is there anybody else out there like us? I must say we have some very respectful bulls.
We are a stag vixen couple, no cuxk here. I am definitely an alpha male. But she lets me fuck other females as well as myself letting her. We are onto threesomes and groups as well.
 
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