So hard being a black man of quality in this lifestyle...

With the abundance of couples and women that expect you to have no standards, gangbang her with any and every Tom, Dick, and Harry, be available at their say so like you don't have a life outside of this, and don't get me started on the only in it for OF crowd I will say it is worth it when you come across the good ones that actually treat you with hospitality like a human. I've been fortunate to have been with some of the most amazing women (some very notorious in this realm) in my 20+ years of this so I tend to be a bit more "uppity" when it comes to what I feel I deserve as an elite black man.

I can't help but feel sorry for some brothers that think they are really living it up but they are really being used for someone's slumming fantasies. For instance I never pay for hotel rooms with couples. Had a couple recently say they expected every guy to get it because they are bringing the pussy to the table 😂🤣 You are searching far and wide for a black man so I know that I am the prize here. Do you know I have a selection of willing sluts whose husband will not only immediately get the room but will say just return her back satisfied the next day?! There's no way I'm taking the chance on getting a room when there's a chance your wife may not be adequate sexually and tap out within minutes (Yes I said it! There actually bad pussy out there!) Then there's the dreaded "She's the perfect hotwife but her husband requires being involved sexually with you too"

It's like some assume every black man is going to be down for scavenger behavior but I must say that I'm grateful for all the other men that call them out on that. I always say there is a difference between a Bull and a Buck. I don't do plantation buck behavior so you're not going to buck break me. Anyone else notice this getting worse in the last couple years? What are some of the ridiculous requests and statements you've heard recently?
First, THIS! Second, to answer your question, Yes. It’s getting worse. We would need several drinks or cigars to run down the “characteristics” of this new breed…
 
Can’t believe the amount of pushback you are getting from people about having a high opinion of yourself…I mean WTF. You should have a high opinion of yourself and what you bring to the table. My fiancée and are are fully confident and appreciate the same in others…friends, coworkers and more. Good on you for saying what should be said
Black men are not expected to have standards, opinions, or anything outside of some imaginary insatiable desire to fuck white women.

It's damn near insulting when these bottom-shelf white women feel entitled to our bodies (especially those of us who take care of ourselves) and then get indignant when we dare to decline their advances.

If they would care about our preferences as much as they cared about our dicks, this wouldn't be a problem.
 
Boy you have quite the opinion of yourself.
What a racist slut. Not the opinions of a "boy" you RACIST hag. These are the white women I try to avoid at all costs and all of us black should should. Those are racist sentiments coming from this bitch. Ain't nobody your BOY you old century hag!
 
What a racist slut. Not the opinions of a "boy" you RACIST hag. These are the white women I try to avoid at all costs and all of us black should should. Those are racist sentiments coming from this bitch. Ain't nobody your BOY you old century hag!
I'm fairly certain she was using that term in a different context, as in "Wow, you have quite the opinion of yourself."
I'm basing this on her previous posts, which don't seem to have racist connotations. Seeking clarification, rather than jumping to ad hominem attacks, moves the conversation forward instead of dragging it down.
 
What a racist slut. Not the opinions of a "boy" you RACIST hag. These are the white women I try to avoid at all costs and all of us black should should. Those are racist sentiments coming from this bitch. Ain't nobody your BOY you old century hag!
You sir are foolish. You read that the way you wanted too. Not the way it was written or intended or even explained. Move along. Its already been explained, you just didnt read that far. As far as the OP's reply its the same.
 
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There's a lot to unpack here...



On that account of the word "boy"

- The term "boy" has historically been used as a derogatory and demeaning term towards Black men, minimizing their adulthood and reinforcing racist power dynamics. Its offensive nature lies in perpetuating racial stereotypes and undermining the dignity and respect that Black individuals deserve.


-Here is some real-world evidence: "Eleventh Circuit Court of Appeals finally recognized that a supervisor’s use of the word ‘boy’ to refer to black employees is sufficient evidence of racism... ruling overturned a three-judge panel’s 2010 decision rejecting the evidence as insufficient, even under the Court’s guidance: Although . . . The disputed word will not always be evidence of racial animus, it does not follow that the word, standing alone, is always benign.” The Court said the meaning may depend on “context, inflection, tone of voice, local custom, and historical usage.”

- Given that this is a website predominately about Black and white people and the fact that you're trying to tell someone, a Black man, they think too highly of themselves for their own personal boundaries and standards...not really respecting his opinion for himself. ALso, it isn't stupid to think that word "boy," even if you were ignorant of it, is an offensive word choice towards a Black man when it is historically an offensive word towards Black men, even if the word itself doesn't have that denotation. Instead of acknowledging this, you double down on using it. That's wild and subtle af.

-Social justice is a well-researched and evidenced-based field with many peer-reviewed papers on the subject.
-"Social justice is the pursuit of equal rights, opportunities, and fair treatment for all individuals, regardless of their background or identity. It is important because it fosters inclusivity, understanding, and respect, ultimately promoting a more equitable and harmonious society for everyone."
- There are a lot of things Black people have done in the name of social justice that has benefited white women:
  • Civil Rights Act of 1964: The fight for equal rights by Black activists led to the passing of the Civil Rights Act, which not only prohibited racial discrimination but also included a provision for gender-based discrimination, benefiting white women in terms of employment and educational opportunities.
  • Feminist movement: The civil rights movement inspired and influenced the feminist movement in the 1960s and 1970s, leading to increased awareness and activism around gender equality, which positively impacted white women's rights and opportunities in society.
  • Affirmative action: While initially aimed at addressing racial inequalities, affirmative action policies expanded to include gender-based inequalities, benefiting white women by providing them with better access to education and job opportunities.
  • Equal Pay Act of 1963: This legislation, which emerged in the context of broader civil rights activism, aimed to abolish wage disparities based on gender, ensuring that white women received equal pay for equal work.
  • Title IX: Passed in 1972, Title IX prohibited gender discrimination in education, a result of activism around both civil rights and women's rights. This has had a significant impact on white women by increasing access to educational opportunities and promoting gender equity in sports programs.
I usually don't like to do homework for people that don't want to do homework, but I had time today.
Boy is also used "historically" to describe a male baby as a noun , a person of male gender differentiating from that of a female as an adverb and in an exclamatory phrase as an interjection. Once again you've decided the use of the word in you're context to fit your agenda.
 
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Boy is also used "histrically" to describe a male baby as a noun , a person of male gender differentiating from that of a female as an adverb and in an exclamatory phrase as an interjection. Once again you've decided the use of the word in you're contect to fit your agenda.
I love that AnnieS is a Hot BBC Slut teacher! You let em know girl! Wait...can I call you girl?? 😳🤣😂😛😘😍
 
Black men are not expected to have standards, opinions, or anything outside of some imaginary insatiable desire to fuck white women.

It's damn near insulting when these bottom-shelf white women feel entitled to our bodies (especially those of us who take care of ourselves) and then get indignant when we dare to decline their advances.

If they would care about our preferences as much as they cared about our dicks, this wouldn't be a problem.
It’s crazy to think there are people on this site that have that attitude but yet it’s there.

Like it ruins the whole point of the lifestyle of you ask me
 
I have made this comment on other similar posts that this is a fuck site. Plain and simple. Nothing more. Nothing less. In any situation, you are going to get a diversity of people with this fantasy kink. Some will be professionals, others just plain freaks. Once you’re in this lifestyle for a while, you can decipher between the two and kindly reject those that you have no interest. The taboo to me is fine. What I don’t get are the role playing calling the dude the N word or ******* fantasies. That seems to be too far. But that’s me. I’m sure you have bruhs on here that will willingly buck dance and do all that nonsense for the pussy, but that’s nothing new either. Don’t let this stuff stress you out man. It will take away from what you are supposed to enjoy. Sex and fun. And if it gets too off the wall for you, then maybe just stick with the regulars you know and hang it up. Nothing lasts forever. Things change.
 
Good points not going to lie I feel the same way!

I'm just looking for hot women and couple (sharing the woman) for sane fun. And some of these Cuck males be demanding me to perform like a pornstar, not meet halfway, or split hotel, or just try to work things out!

I had some annoying dudes just hmu to act weird and claim they want me to get with their women.

Same act snappy! Idk why
 
Once again, this site is not to solve societal problems. It’s a site for different races to fuck. Mostly black men fucking white women. The site exists alone based on the taboo. It’s called blacktowhite not asiantonativeamerican. I’m not saying people don’t have a legitimate argument. I’m saying I don’t think this is the right platform. If a person feel disrespected, move on. Ask yourself, why are you on this site? Ultimately, it’s to find someone to fuck. Why make ******* complicated. There are more other stuff happening in life to stress about. Chat. Meet. Fuck. Go back to your normal life.
 
I live by a few creeds, one of my favorite is "we train people how we want to be treated". That being said, it's up to us to demand what we want from people. I've said it on here more than once, just because we are in the lifestyle does not mean respect and or morals are non existent. I never call myself a bull or a BBC.... I am a black man. I'll always be the prize, but not from an arrogant perspective, but one of confidence and self respect. If there is a meetup, depending on the circumstances, I do offer to either pay for or split the room. If I'm flying or driving far, I negotiate they provide accommodations. My mindset is that we are both giving and getting something to and from each other, fair exchange. If it's a flake, on the meetup, it's all good, I just make the best of the situation. I don't have and have stopped having expectations of people that way I'm never disappointed. I don't take this site seriously at all, it's just entertainment. At the end of the day, it is up to us what we take from or accept. Whatever that may be, we have to live with it.
 
This is a very healthy conversation. We’ve been in this lifestyle for a long time. We’ve made a lot of friends that are lovers. We so enjoy meeting men, getting to know them, learning about their lives (in TX, or NC, or Baltimore….); sometimes traveling to their cities, seeing their neighborhoods, spending time over a meal. The sex is the cherry on the cake; especially because it’s usually fantastic. We are LuckyFucks, no doubt.
 
reading all the comments is entertaining. A few things to address: it is a porn site to some and others it’s a hookup site (maybe). We aren’t here solving the world‘s problems - any of them. Specifically it’s a BM-WF site for the most part. Lots of people are into that scene in various capacities as bulls, hot wives, cucks etc. Yes i used the world bull. I’m sure someone will be offended but I know of no one who uses it to mean it in a derogatory way. Hell I wish I were a bull !!

In regard to meetings etc: For us it’s about chemistry and connection BUT there has to be a physical attraction as well and everyone’s tastes and preferences differ. (that’s ok people - it really is ok to have opinions)

In regard to this new trend we are starting to see where the guys want you to pay them or they get offended - the remedy is talking and communicating beforehand and discussing the wants, needs and likes of all. The “pay me” part would be a deal breaker for us - but others are cool with it and that’s great - just communicate beforehand So no surprises.

in terms of splitting the cost on hotels etc: It varies. We have paid for many hotel rooms and differnt guys have paid for them as well. If a guy we were considering throws out early on he doesn’t pay for anything - again it tells us who you are- not that we would even ask you to contribute - but the fact you throw that out early on let’s us know more about you. We have been ghosted on more that one hotel room over the years and if you are in the LS in ANY capacity it’s happened to You.

Dont take yourself too seriously. Enjoy life. Don’t sweat the truly Insignificant things.
 
All the posts hyping up Europe as less racist than the US is delusion. Since this is a sex site, let's use a sexual reference to illustrate my point. In countries like the Netherlands and Germany, the White sex workers can charge almost double POC sex workers. Go walk De Wallen thinking you can get with any of the sex workers (White), you're in for a rude wakening. They will avoid eye contact, slam the door shut, or close the curtains if you approach. Then if they do invite you in, it will be double or triple to what a White guy pays. Some of the POC workers adopt this attitude. Germans with their passive/ aggressive attitudes have a lot of the POC on edge there.
 
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And to the poster asking why White people come to this site seeking Black men, while being racist, the answer is simple, White people have historically used POC as a disposable and easily replaceable convenience. Stii occuring today. All you have to do is watch the election cycles, all the pandering to certian communities of color for votes, just to ignore and make excuses for not addressing their issues when elected.
 
Black men have to stop looking for self validation from others. Never lower your standards. I understand most people are here for sex. Our the life-style quote on quote. And don't care who they sleep with. But you have to have respect for yourselves or others won't have it for you.
 
Thats sounds awful. Nothing should be expected or ****** upon from anybody. I think both should talk about the financial loads, of travel and etc and figure out a common ground. I think nobody is the prize, yes, not even a hot man with a BBC or a hottie woman. The i'm the prize, the ego really ruins it, i think.
If i see a hot man, i would love to jump on him, and would love him to feel the same way about me. We can work out the expenses 50/50 or etc.
I'l bring to lube you bring the snacks😅🥰
Couldn't agree more, well stated!
 
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