It really all depends on who you are and when you go, as to what happens at Hedonism. If you are the outgoing type you are going to have a lot of fun. If you are more reserved, maybe not as much fun. People go to Hedonism to have a good time. There are times when a lot of lifestylers go, but there are other times when just average people go. You can have a good time there, and find what you want , if you make yourself available and are not just looking for sex. We have found that when you aren't looking for sex, it's everywhere.