mywayintermsofsex

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Hey gus and gals,

you can hear or read the term "pussy-free" quite often lately, and it seems to have become a fantasy or lifestyle choice for some out there.

But while the concept is being spread across websites and social media there seems to be a lack of a sound definition.
And actually there are more than one (ImO very different!) concepts or styles that are applied at different depths that often go by one and the same "pussy-free" label. As an example of the latter statement let me provide you with descriptions of two common but different (life-)styles...

On the one hand you will find limitation of male sexuality as a source of sexual arousal or gratification for some men by completely excluding any and all "pussy" from sexual activity and/or as sexual stimulus to whatever extent.
There is a wide spectrum reaching from temporarily abstaining from having sexual intercourse with a Woman to abandoning any physical contact with any part of any pussy once and for all. This may go as far as permanent refraining from any sensory perception of a pussy. Examples of that can be found on porntube sites where videos for that particular fetish have been uploaded often tagged "pussy-free" and/or "censored". Even though a great portion of these videos are focused on the female body, those will show Women either clothed only or alternatively naked but edited by some means of "censorship" - often a black beam or blur - to make sure any pussy that would otherwise show is always properly hidden from the spectator's view. There are videos that even top that approach by including breast nipples or whole breasts in the censoring!

On the other hand you will find a concept or style that is very different to the one explained above, yet often also assigned the "pussy-free" label. It is when a consenting wifesharing couple decides for the monogamous male partner to temporarily or permanently (or under predetermined conditions) relinquish sexual intercourse with his female partner to the sexual partner(s) she is being shared with. In many if not most such arrangements the male partner of the couple will still get and give pleasure from and to his partner's pussy directly, and is often not restricted to only one means to do so. Cunnilingus may be popular, but then he may also use his hands, or "dry-hump" his partner, etc.

In my opinion the second one of the two (life-)styles explained above does not at all satisfy the "pussy-free" condition, so that i see the "pussy-free" label a misrepresentation of that lifestyle and plain inaccurate! Therefore, may i suggest a term that better suits that style and helps differentiate between those two styles?!

As the second lifestyle which has been described above is characterized by a shared wife's, fiancèe's or girlfriend's monogamous husband, fiancè or boyfriend not having sexual intercourse with his partner (or any other Woman, as he is monogamous) ImO it would be best described by the label "intercourse-free" (instead of "pussy-free") for the male partner.

Considering the pussy is a trinity composed of three distinguishable integral parts...

* the vulva: the pussy's region that is visible from the outside
* the vaginal canal (or simply vagina): the pussy's most interior region
* the vaginal entrance: the short region that connects vulva and vagina (typically not deeper than a tongue can reach ;) )

...we could also use the terms "vagina-free", "vag-free" or "V-free" for "intercourse-free". (Those have about the same meaning but are a bit shorter.)

It is very important to notice that "pussy" does NOT equal "vagina"! Therefore "V-free" and "pussy-free" mean two completely different things!
 
My personal situation is that I have not inseminated my wife or any other woman in five years and one month. I did try twice, but I lost my erection just as I managed to get inside resulting in my wife pushing me off of her. I also haven't seen her nude since August 2011. There hasn't been any oral sex in those 5 years except when I ate her before the 2 times I tried to fuck her and failed. All my orgasms have been from hand jobs since June of 2014 except my last fuck on February 26, 2017. I'm allowed to edge myself, but not cum except in my wife's hand, averaging 6 to 8 times a year. My wife began sexual denial in 1993, and slowly weaned me off of everything but hand jobs, and even those were only once every two months for a few years.

As for my wife, she has been cuckolding me since our first date in January 1978, which I was fine with, since I was already a long time cuckold beginning in May of 1970.

You can call it what ever you want, but pussy free fits me perfectly. Pussy, vagina, vag, cunt, vajayjay, or any other word, I'm still insemination free for 61 months.
 
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My personal situation is that I have not inseminated my wife or any other woman in five years and one month. I did try twice, but I lost my erection just as I managed to get inside resulting in my wife pushing me off of her. I also haven't seen her nude since August 2011. There hasn't been any oral sex in those 5 years except when I ate her before the 2 times I tried to fuck her and failed. All my orgasms have been from hand jobs since June of 2014 except my last fuck on February 26, 2017. I'm allowed to edge myself, but not cum except in my wife's hand, averaging 6 to 8 times a year. My wife began sexual denial in 1993, and slowly weaned me off of everything but hand jobs, and even those were only once every two months for a few years.

As for my wife, she has been cuckolding me since our first date in January 1978, which I was fine with, since I was already a long time cuckold beginning in May of 1970.

You can call it what ever you want, but pussy free fits me perfectly. Pussy, vagina, vag, cunt, vajayjay, or any other word, I'm still insemination free for 61 months.
If only half of what you say here is true, you're definitely pussy-free for now. *lol*
 
My unclothed penis does not get anywhere near an unclothed vagina, not within arms length. I perform oral or use toys on my partner, but I remain partially clothed. That's my definition of pussy-free. Also, any image of a naked woman or her vagina is OK (even encouraged) as this reinforces what I am prevented from achieving.
 
Pussy free for over a year now and only got into my wife's pussy with my four-inches 3 times in the last six years. I honestly think that's all over now. No blowjobs for about three years and no hand jobs ever, really, from here.
Well...i mean honestly...do you really think you deserve any of that?? 4 inches is pathetic! Hopefully you just resign yourself to being completely sex free in any way. Dont make it awkward for your wife to have to touch that 4 inch noodle.
 
I absolutely love it when I get to read such a beautiful comment as this occasionally. I am truly envious of you, and wish you luck on continuing to your tenth year. I am not what I would define as pussy free as of yet, but I am certain I will. It's only a matter of my wife determining, and telling me when.
My favorite quote, "she has the pussy, she makes the rules!"
 
For me it means no pussy at all for at least the last 5 years. I am still very sexual so over the last year or so have transitioned away from jerking off to having anal orgasms. I feel this has made me more submissive and more feminine sexually. Would also enjoy being caged in hopes this would increase the pleasure I currently enjoy from anal orgasms. Being pussyfree and being denied is now a turn on for me.
 
Is "V-free" (or "vag-free") a good suggestion for an adjective / term (as in "V-free cuck hubby", for instance)? What do y'all think?

Feel free to join the discussion and comment!

Thank you.
In my marriage pussyfree means that I am not allowed anywhere near the vagina of my wife or any other woman. But my wife says that pussyfree means also means that I am liberated from any responsibility from pleasing a woman sexually and am free to have sex with men to achieve my release.
 
In my marriage pussyfree means that I am not allowed anywhere near the vagina of my wife or any other woman. But my wife says that pussyfree means also means that I am liberated from any responsibility from pleasing a woman sexually and am free to have sex with men to achieve my release.
So true about no longer having the responsibility of pleasing women sexually. No sure I could even if I tried!
 
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