Male here married 25+ years, married at 30.
Met my wife when we're 24-ish. She was married at 18, divorced with 2 k i d s at 23.
According to her married way too young. She ventured out and had a guy on the side for a while, still married. She was VERY ashamed and remorseful. Cool gal, good values, we got along great.
One night we're out drinking, I'm feeling pretty badass, I ask her what her sex fantasy was, she said two guys. I thought wow but just a fantasy right?? I drunknley asked if she'd ever done it, she said yes. I was blown away. Was with a guy she was seeing and his roommate. I asked how many times, thinking one...she says a few. I was pissed and she knew it. Said it was a big mistake. We all have a past right?
Present day, wife and I enjoy mfm fun with a guy we know pretty regularly. We both enjoy it like crazy but we do have guilt feelings about it. We've done it many times with him, she gets really turned on and enjoys the sex like crazy.