Has nothing to do with culture. If you want to view yourself as the only one who is normal and everyone else is abnormal, I guess that is up to you.That is your culture. Not mine
So it's not a problem for you to push your lifestyle on others, but not OK for them to do the same. There is nothing wrong with others deciding not to meet you because your interests are different from yours.NO ONE is saying people aren't different. The problem arises when you try to ******* your lifestyle on others. You're doing the exact thing you don't want to be done to you. Same as the guy who labels a bull that doesn't want his dick sucked "homophobic."
Yes, that is exactly what you are saying. When you are constantly bitching and complaining about a theoretical event that is likely never to happen, then you are homophobic. It's easy to avoid this theoretical problem, Communicate! Before you meet, tell them that you are extremely straight, and are only interested in a one on one. No one is going to insist on sucking your dick when you tell them that. However, they may take the option not to meet you. I'm guessing that is the real problem.
We live in nude resorts about 4 months a year. There are a few gay men at these resorts. He has been asked if he is into men. He just tells them it's not his thing. That's the end of it. He is secure in his sexuality. It doesn't stop them from being friends even though they have different sexual interests. Do you understand the difference? Being asked if he was into men did not send him to message boards to bitch about gay men. Actually, I think he viewed it as a complement as the guy was telling him he was attractive. Of course he is not "normal" as he doesn't have your same inhibitions, but neither is anyone else except for you.
I do think some of you guys who are bitching on here are in the closet. For others it sounds more like the rants from angry guys who are virgins and can't get laid. The solution to your problem is very clear, Communicate! What I have a problem is denigrating others because they aren't "normal" like you.
Instead of spending all your time bitching, why not focus on meeting people who have the same hang-ups that you do?