NO I WILL NOT

Lately on these sites... Noticing some of these couples requiring that their hub/bf or whatever the fuck they wanna call it now suck someone's dick. I know this is 2022. Y'all can do y'all ting.... But I WILL NOT. WILL NOT. Call it what you want but it's cemented. Don't come at me with all the non sense. Bring your chick drop her off blindfold her watch take pictures but STAY your distance and watch a Real Man handle a real slut. I know some of these couples will quote me or take action👌🏿. Please do👊🏿🍫😜
Well Said!
 
Cool bro. Just stating black men area being lead down the wrong path
Lead by whom and how? I'm straight, I'm 100% certain that there is nothing anyone could say or do to me that would make be give my consent to guy on guy stuff. Doesn't matter how many offers I get or how pushy someone is, I'm not touching a man in that way or allowing myself to be touched in that way by another man. But that's my preference and I won't pretend to speak for the 4 billion other men on this planet that aren't me, or even the 22+ million black men in the US. If other guys want to try that that's cool, pleasure is pleasure and all that, I won't be joining them and I wish them luck on their journey of personal discovery, it doesn't effect me at all.

And for that matter what makes it the wrong path? I can see why it's wrong for me personally and from your comments it seems wrong for you, but I don't see why that's an argument for shutting down that path for everyone for all of eternity. Some people like that stuff and I say let them like it.
 
Lately on these sites... Noticing some of these couples requiring that their hub/bf or whatever the fuck they wanna call it now suck someone's dick. I know this is 2022. Y'all can do y'all ting.... But I WILL NOT. WILL NOT. Call it what you want but it's cemented. Don't come at me with all the non sense. Bring your chick drop her off blindfold her watch take pictures but STAY your distance and watch a Real Man handle a real slut. I know some of these couples will quote me or take action👌🏿. Please do👊🏿🍫😜
Exactly 🎯🎯🎯
 
Lately on these sites... Noticing some of these couples requiring that their hub/bf or whatever the fuck they wanna call it now suck someone's dick. I know this is 2022. Y'all can do y'all ting.... But I WILL NOT. WILL NOT. Call it what you want but it's cemented. Don't come at me with all the non sense. Bring your chick drop her off blindfold her watch take pictures but STAY your distance and watch a Real Man handle a real slut. I know some of these couples will quote me or take action👌🏿. Please do👊🏿🍫😜
You have a gorgeous penis. I just want to take care of it for you.

Yes most men in this lifestyle are gay or bi. You have to check them when they inevitably come onto you.
 
Look if there's ANYTHING in the bedroom that you don't want to do, you are under no obligation to do it. I don't know where y'all live where you're surrounded by a sea of couples that require bi play but that's not my experience at all. MAYBE one in 20 couples ask for that sort of thing in my experience and I haven't met anyone that tried to ******* it on the unwilling. All that happened was they asked, I said no and we both moved on because we weren't a match, no hard feelings, plenty of fish and all that. But again it's definitely a small minority and not even in the top 5 reasons of why I don't match a with couples I meet/message.

Really the most I encounter it is on THIS site, and 99% of it is from nonverified accounts who I assume are all desperate horny white dudes with a fantasy who either don't have a woman at all or the one they have doesn't know or doesn't want to participate. It's a huge reason I stay out of the general discussion forum for the most part. I would not take that as a representative sample size of the IR swing world and I would not make any judgements based on the depraved thoughts of desperate, horny, creepy white dudes. I know there seems to be a lot of them and they like ruining everyone else's experience online (not just in this space btw) but it's best to just ignore them until some glorious genius finds a way to identify and quarantine them from polite internet society.

Having said all that, there's nothing wrong with being gay or bi and I'm sure there are black guys more than willing to fill that niche, I just won't be one of them. But I really don't feel the need to yuck other people's yum and don't understand y'all need to hate on people you're not attracted to for doing things that don't affect you. @superdick33 your profile says Tampa, I know for a fact there are PLENTY of straight couples around BEGGING for BBC where you don't need to even think about fucking with the nonstraight crowd.
The point is you should have some respect and consideration for others' sexual orientation and state in your introduction or profile that you're gay or bi, make it clear in your post if you also want to get involved physically with the bull or if it is just for your wife/girlfriend, but don't use her as bait then wanting to be "touched" by the bull, or don't surprise him during meet by actions that he could find inappropriate. It's not during the meeting that you suggest the idea, under the pretense that the circumstances are so hot that it is changing your orientation all of sudden.

Plenty of guys here or so-called couples play those tricks. RESPECT & RESPECT!
 
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The point is you should have some respect and consideration for others' sexual orientation and state in your introduction or profile that you're gay or bi, make it clear in your post if you also want to get involved physically with the bull or if it is just for your wife/girlfriend, but don't use your her as a bate then wanting to be "touched" by the bull, or don't surprise him during meet by actions that he could find inappropriate. It's not during the meeting that you suggest the idea, under the pretense that the circumstances are so hot, that it is changing your orientation all of the sudden.

Plenty of guys here or so-called couples play those tricks. RESPECT & RESPECT!
I've never had anyone surprise me with m2m play during a meet or heard of it happening. If you have that's horrible, but the problem there isn't the m2m play, it's the lack of respect or consent. My point is there is nothing wrong with m2m play, if that is what you're into go for it. There is DEFINITELY something wrong not respecting people's boundaries. I've been told by couples with bi men that don't put it in their profiles because of the amount of biphobia they get and they don't NEED m2m to be a part of every session but enjoy it when it is. I don't have a huge problem with this approach as long as everything is discussed before meeting. I always discuss kinks and boundaries with couples and make it clear exactly what I am and am not into and don't meet with any couples that set off red flags.
 
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