Ladies, Do you tell Hubby when you sleep around?

Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by AllAmericanWife, Apr 27, 2016.

  1. AllAmericanWife

    AllAmericanWife Well-Known Member

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    This is for the experienced couples out there. Ladies, do you tell Hubby when you've slept with your boyfriend? Every time you do?

    Back before Hubby was into me being with other men, I used to not tell him at all. As I encouraged him to embrace me screwing other men (mostly black!), I began telling him every time I was with someone else. It REALLy spiced up our luv life! And Hubby definitely got into it!
    But...lately I've been keeping it a secret more. Why? Because Hubby is SO into it now, he lasts like 30 seconds with me if he knows I've just been with another man! True story.:lips::blackheart:
     
  2. sweetginny

    sweetginny Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    Every time. Before, sometimes during, and definitely afterwards.

    Like yourself, it really spices things up. But, he still lasts for as long as I want. :qos:
     
  3. AllAmericanWife

    AllAmericanWife Well-Known Member

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    Lucky girl!:)
     
  4. sweetginny

    sweetginny Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    I think we're both lucky. Husbands who encourage us to be with other men are so rare.

    I don't know how you can slow your hubby down when you get home, but isn't it nice that he is into it?
     
  5. connnie169

    connnie169 Well-Known Member

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    I always tell. We keep no secrets.
     
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  6. Sarah Adams

    Sarah Adams Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    My husband knows and allows me to, but has no idea how much we are together at work, or the things I will do for the black man I see.
     
  7. beenblackened

    beenblackened Moderator Real Person Gold Member

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    Hubby knows.
     
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  8. Pamlovesblackcock

    Pamlovesblackcock Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    I meet alot of guys that I dont tell my husband about!They fuckme in their houses,in their cars,offices and so on!Ive really been getting into cheating and I love it!
     
  9. Chicagoblackm36

    Chicagoblackm36 Member Real Person

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    How exciting.
     
  10. Mywifelovesthis

    Mywifelovesthis Active Member Gold Member

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    I tell my husband everything we do when we have our date night.
     
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  11. CuckCpl4BBC

    CuckCpl4BBC Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    Almost all the time ;)
     
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  12. ctcougar

    ctcougar Member

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    We are swingers and the whole idea of that lifestyle is to be open about what we are doing and with whom.
     
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  13. Playtime Patty

    Playtime Patty Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    My hubby knows everytime.
    I have not played without him there. "Yet"
     
  14. BethLuvsBBConly

    BethLuvsBBConly Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    In the very beginning, when it was new to me and I had this hunger to 'make up for lost time' I would go to the mall and had sex in the backrooms of stores, sometimes my suv, and on occasion go to the mans house. When hub started complaining about my promiscuous behavior, I stopped telling him. Eventually we met a local guy to see on a regular basis, I stopped 'going out'. Now hubby is usually here when I entertain a black man or men. I actually love having him watch and submit to us: before, during, and after. When he travels on business, I may or may not tell him if I have company.
     
  15. Pamlovesblackcock

    Pamlovesblackcock Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    Dont tell him,its much more intense and intimate!
     
  16. TomandAnn

    TomandAnn Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    Always........he knows and is okay with it......lucky lady, I am
     
  17. Bristolangela

    Bristolangela Member

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    I used to tell him all the time, part of the process for him was getting me ready.
    We now live apart so I occasionally tell him
     
  18. Sam71

    Sam71 Member

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    my hubby knows too
     
  19. rock

    rock Well-Known Member

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    It was never a goal of mine to tell my husband of every black guy(I wouldn't have sex with any man that wasn't black)
    that I fucked. I didn't care if he knew and if I thought he needed to know I would tell him but I always felt us girls need to have our little "secrets"

    Phyliss
     
  20. RandC

    RandC Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    Totally aware..he knows my type and has given me to several great guys who remain my friends!