This is for the experienced couples out there. Ladies, do you tell Hubby when you've slept with your boyfriend? Every time you do? Back before Hubby was into me being with other men, I used to not tell him at all. As I encouraged him to embrace me screwing other men (mostly black!), I began telling him every time I was with someone else. It REALLy spiced up our luv life! And Hubby definitely got into it! But...lately I've been keeping it a secret more. Why? Because Hubby is SO into it now, he lasts like 30 seconds with me if he knows I've just been with another man! True story.