Is it possible to become a couple based on IR cuckolding?

[WelshIRcuck]

I hope that the best time for white men wanting to be interracial cuckolds hasn't past. It's now so easy for white females just to partner black males and it's happening at an incredible rate here in the UK

A few generations ago it was not so socially acceptable for white women to be with black men, and so having a white cuck, as a front, may have been beneficial for white women. On the surface they may have been just like any other white couple, but behind closed doors she was having sex with black men.

Mostly there isn't the need for this now as interracial couples are a modern phenomenon. That said, I'd like to think there are some white women out there who actually like the idea of cuckold relationships and the eroticism and taboo of fucking black men while married or in a relationship with a white guy.

 

[WelshIRcuck]

While Wife and I were dating, she was also on a break from her bull/lover. When he came back into the picture it took me awhile to accept the situation. We have been together going on 12 years and her bull has been there for most of it.

Thanks for sharing that. I really hope that you have come to enjoy the interracial cuckold lfestyle and the benefits and thrills it gives both you and your wife?

 

[WelshIRcuck]

This possibility or unlikelihood dominates my thoughts. Will I find her or will I not?

 

[CuckToBeInWV]

At this point, I think it's unlikely. I came here when I had a friend with benefits who was interested. She flaked out. I've talked to a few females about this, and they either seem to be:

Catfish
Looking for money
Looking, but with extremely high standards.

I'm still interested in this, but if I found someone interested in this before starting a relationship, I'd be surprised.

 

[WelshIRcuck]

Appreciate your thoughts and experience on this matter. But I have to believe, even if there's nothing left to believe in - madness I know!

But that lady's out there waiting for me - of that I have no doubt! Now, that is madmess!

That said, I'm more optimistic now than I've ever been before.

 

[WelshIRcuck]

The original question is still as elusive as ever. But the desire for a cuck relationship has grown in intensity, desire and need. Such a relationship holds the fulfilment of so many lusts and desires, so the inevitable is yes, an IR cuck relationship is possible.

 

[trustnoone]

The original question is still as elusive as ever. But the desire for a cuck relationship has grown in intensity, desire and need. Such a relationship holds the fulfilment of so many lusts and desires, so the inevitable is yes, an IR cuck relationship is possible.

We have to believe!!!

 

[WelshIRcuck]

We have to believe!!!

Yes we do.
There are so many variations and nuances in what different humans want from relationships, that it is highly likely a compatible partner is out there for us. The difficulty is in finding her!

 

[sheetmusic]

I have such a marriage. I introduced the idea of IR cuckolding very early when we were dating. I just went for it and told her it was a deal-breaker for me. I told her exactly what I was into and that it had to be fully integrated into our relationship. To my surprise, she agreed. She had never been with a Black man before and she had never even heard of cuckolding. She was very turned on by the idea. She said her only condition was that while she could sleep with other men, she would never tolerate me sleeping with other women. No problem there. We began meeting Black Bulls our first year of dating and we have been going strong ever since. We are married, have been together for 10 years, and she has had many Black lovers. A few years ago, we progressed to an FLR where she dominates me much of the time. After that, she became Black-only so I am no longer allowed inside of her. We most recently became Black-owned. Our marriage and love for each other has never been stronger.

My advice it to take a chance in the very early stages of the relationship and see if she'll go for it. Seems like your chances will never be better than that.

 

[WelshIRcuck]

I have such a marriage. I introduced the idea of IR cuckolding very early when we were dating. I just went for it and told her it was a deal-breaker for me. I told her exactly what I was into and that it had to be fully integrated into our relationship. To my surprise, she agreed. She had never been with a Black man before and she had never even heard of cuckolding. She was very turned on by the idea. She said her only condition was that while she could sleep with other men, she would never tolerate me sleeping with other women. No problem there. We began meeting Black Bulls our first year of dating and we have been going strong ever since. We are married, have been together for 10 years, and she has had many Black lovers. A few years ago, we progressed to an FLR where she dominates me much of the time. After that, she became Black-only so I am no longer allowed inside of her. We most recently became Black-owned. Our marriage and love for each other has never been stronger.

My advice it to take a chance in the very early stages of the relationship and see if she'll go for it. Seems like your chances will never be better than that.

Congratulations on having the courage and frankness to actually broach a difficult subject with your partner, it really has paid dividends for you. I understand from personal experience, how difficult that is. The fear of rejection, shame or humiliation are feelings I've felt that have prevented me from doing what you did - or maybe just a plain lack of courage!
It imbues me with great confidence and optimism that broaching the subject of interracial cuckoldry with your partner had such positive outcomes. Nearly all the developments you mention are situations I believe I would feel happy and content with - you are a very lucky guy.

Many thanks for sharing this with us here on this website.

 

[sheetmusic]

Congratulations on having the courage and frankness to actually broach a difficult subject with your partner, it really has paid dividends for you. I understand from personal experience, how difficult that is. The fear of rejection, shame or humiliation are feelings I've felt that have prevented me from doing what you did - or maybe just a plain lack of courage!
It imbues me with great confidence and optimism that broaching the subject of interracial cuckoldry with your partner had such positive outcomes. Nearly all the developments you mention are situations I believe I would feel happy and content with - you are a very lucky guy.

Many thanks for sharing this with us here on this website.

Thank you for the response and you are quite welcome. In my previous marriage, I made the mistake of introducing IR cuckolding 7 years into the marriage and it did not end well. After the divorce, I dated for awhile and decided that I would not get serious with anyone unless they were willing to accept the terms of my fetish. Once I sensed we were getting serious, that's when I brought it up with her. I simply told her everything I wanted. I didn't try to seduce her first with IR porn and black dildos. I just laid it all out for her and described what our relationship would look like. Lucky for me, she not only accepted it, she was very excited by it. I do think timing is everything. If you introduce this too early, you may scare her away. If you wait until you're married, it becomes even more difficult. Timing (and luck) is everything. The other benefit of introducing this early on is that if she decides to walk away, you haven't lost too much and you saved yourself from a long-term relationship where you would ultimately be unhappy and unfulfilled.

When you broach this subject, it's important to remember that all women need to feel safe, secure, and not judged. She needs to know that you will always put her and the marriage first. This will never jeopardize your love for each other. This does not make her a whore or something dirty in any way. She needs to always feel and be treated like a lady.

 

[WelshIRcuck]

Thank you for the response and you are quite welcome. In my previous marriage, I made the mistake of introducing IR cuckolding 7 years into the marriage and it did not end well. After the divorce, I dated for awhile and decided that I would not get serious with anyone unless they were willing to accept the terms of my fetish. Once I sensed we were getting serious, that's when I brought it up with her. I simply told her everything I wanted. I didn't try to seduce her first with IR porn and black dildos. I just laid it all out for her and described what our relationship would look like. Lucky for me, she not only accepted it, she was very excited by it. I do think timing is everything. If you introduce this too early, you may scare her away. If you wait until you're married, it becomes even more difficult. Timing (and luck) is everything. The other benefit of introducing this early on is that if she decides to walk away, you haven't lost too much and you saved yourself from a long-term relationship where you would ultimately be unhappy and unfulfilled.

When you broach this subject, it's important to remember that all women need to feel safe, secure, and not judged. She needs to know that you will always put her and the marriage first. This will never jeopardize your love for each other. This does make her a whore or something dirty in any way. She needs to always feel and be treated like a lady.

Many thanks again for elaborating further on your relationship and the importance of timing in broaching the interracial cuckold fetish - very informative. I have been reticent to initiate another relationship for the fear your suggest above, of getting into a long-term relationship and being ultimately unfilled, and all the while secretly holding interracial cuckold fantasies.
I really respect the emphasis you put on stressing to your wife that she and your marriage will always come first. And the need for her to feel supported, valued and treated with respect - sounds like you have a really solid loving relationship.
And you are living out your interracial cuckold fantasies and she's enjoying great interracial sex - wow!
All the best to you.

 

[sheetmusic]

Many thanks again for elaborating further on your relationship and the importance of timing in broaching the interracial cuckold fetish - very informative. I have been reticent to initiate another relationship for the fear your suggest above, of getting into a long-term relationship and being ultimately unfilled, and all the while secretly holding interracial cuckold fantasies.
I really respect the emphasis you put on stressing to your wife that she and your marriage will always come first. And the need for her to feel supported, valued and treated with respect - sounds like you have a really solid loving relationship.
And you are living out your interracial cuckold fantasies and she's enjoying great interracial sex - wow!
All the best to you.

She really does get to have the best of both worlds. She gets the fun and absolute thrill of passionate sex with athletic Black men while having the loving support and security a husband provides. She gets to enjoy other men while her husband remains faithful and monogamous to her. She gets to live out her wildest fantasies while never being judged. This can be a very attractive offering to the right woman -- even if she's never heard of it.

 

[WelshIRcuck]

She really does get to have the best of both worlds. She gets the fun and absolute thrill of passionate sex with athletic Black men while having the loving support and security a husband provides. She gets to enjoy other men while her husband remains faithful and monogamous to her. She gets to live out her wildest fantasies while never being judged. This can be a very attractive offering to the right woman -- even if she's never heard of it.

I fully understand and agree with what you say. On the last point you mentioned, I do think it's difficult for many women to comprehend that white cucks, like you and me, do not want to have sex with other women. It goes against the stereotype of male sexuality, as does the concept of interracial cuckoldry itself.
However, I'm of a similar ilk to you and have no interest whatsoever in having other women. My pleasure would come from knowing my partner was having great interracial sex and I, in some way, enhanced this part of her life - and the rest of it too.

 

[trustnoone]

I fully understand and agree with what you say. On the last point you mentioned, I do think it's difficult for many women to comprehend that white cucks, like you and me, do not want to have sex with other women. It goes against the stereotype of male sexuality, as does the concept of interracial cuckoldry itself.
However, I'm of a similar ilk to you and have no interest whatsoever in having other women. My pleasure would come from knowing my partner was having great interracial sex and I, in some way, enhanced this part of her life - and the rest of it too.

Well said!

 

[WelshIRcuck]

It's not an easy concept to convey - that some white men are crazy about white women who love big black men. And want to be their partners!! Nonetheless it's real and oh so true for some of us cuck wannabes.

 

[WelshIRcuck]

Due to the internet it's now possible for people all over the world with complementary sexualites to interact with each other. This is why I think it's possible for a white male and a white female to meet and form a successful relationship, that has interracial cuckolding as a major factor in that relationship.
Always the optimist!

 

[trustnoone]

Due to the internet it's now possible for people all over the world with complementary sexualites to interact with each other. This is why I think it's possible for a white male and a white female to meet and form a successful relationship, that has interracial cuckolding as a major factor in that relationship.
Always the optimist!

Keep the faith brother, we have to believe!

 

[WelshIRcuck]

Keep the faith brother, we have to believe!

Still believing, against all the odds! I think there are many positives that certain BBC loving white woman could have from a cuckold relationship, and it's this that keeps me believing. And keeps me enthusiastic and excited too.

 

[trustnoone]

Still believing, against all the odds! I think there are many positives that certain BBC loving white woman could have from a cuckold relationship, and it's this that keeps me believing. And keeps me enthusiastic and excited too.

I agree, even though they don’t technically “need” a white cuck we could add an enthusiastic dimension to the relationship.