No, not just about attitude, obviously the lovely dark skin helps. But the point I was making its not just the skin colour, it's other things as well. X
Don`t get me wrong, i am a big fan of the "lovely dark skin helps" argument.
Even more so when it stands out against a lady`s white skin.
There is a visual phenomenon too, that makes dark objects appear to be bigger as compared to bright objects unless they are observed against a light source or the lighting is dazzling. So, in an ambient light like in a "sensually dimmed" bedroom a black body (and dick
) will visually appear to be bigger as compared to a same size bright body(/dick).
Proof:
<= which smilies look bigger? *LOL*
A black person`s skin differs in other ways too. For instance, the vitamin D production (which is carried out in collaboration with melanin) works differently for black and white people. Also the hormonal composition in the dermal layers differs slightly. Maybe a reason that black people - men and women - have on average less problems with spots (pimples) or lumps, and their skin is usually softer and smoother?
But i was referring to your other arguments, as cited below.
I was always curious about BBC and a little worried about the rumoured size of them! But what mainly attracted me to black guys (other than hubby nagging me!) was their apparent absolute confidence in their own sexual ability. No hesitation or needing help to get started, just a belief they can fuck anywhere, anytime. It's a lovely feeling and takes so much pressure of beforehand. And I've never been let down so far! X
But yet that`s more a matter of attitude, not color, right?
Your "always being curious about BBC and worried about the rumoured size" and the "lovely feeling" and their "taking pressure" you described are a valid answer to the question that was aimed at "white women" and what`s going on "inside their minds". Yet it is your own very personal thing and doesn`t explain the
why.
My former comment was related to the part where you explained where black men supposedly differ and what attracted you to them specifically. To sum your statements up:
+ "Their apparent absolute confidence in their own sexual ability", and
+ "No hesitation or needing help to get started" and hence their "belief they can fuck anywhere, anytime"
And i responded - and stick with it! - that`s a
matter of attitude (self assurance, will to lead, maybe even a bit of arrogance to just take what one wants), and
not color! Maybe you would be surprised of how much "Alpha" some white men can be in exactly the same way.
i could tell you stories about that, but i guess you don`t want to hear them.
Oh, and your last statement that you`ve "never been let down so far"... seriously, how could one?! x