It followed those desires, for sure. But they are connected. And we have the ingredient of her cheating in our early history also. But my sense is, that like a lot of stuff to do with eroticizing denial on any level, and specifically the desire to share or be cuckolded, there’s a process some of us must go through, a wrestling with shame and ego and a coming to terms, that can take time to sort. I know all about that struggle, and if there’s one thing I can say to guys like me, it would be that it’s probably worth exploring if you have these urges. But there’s no doubt, putting on a chastity device can be a big deal, even just symbolically. There’s freight to it.
My initial reaction to caging was pretty much always like,
“Wtf, seriously — What is this?…Why do THAT??! I didn’t get the appeal of caging
at all, even as guy with a pretty small dick. It just seemed
kinda silly…well, until it didn’t!!
Things we’ve learned, and iust as importantly
, things I’ve learned to accept…..1)I’ll
never be able to fill up/please a woman’s pussy or ass the way some men do, not in the way my wife experienced with other guys (way back when)….but I can definitely fill a right-sized cage.
2)It’s a different thrill but still highly charged erotic territory for us. We both love my denial, and if that can enrich our sex life, I want to do it as well as I can as much as I can, and not just when we play, because 3) it absolutely enhances things
when we do play if I go for longer and longer stretches locked up. Plus we found out pretty quickly that I can have the best climaxes in a cage, which she loves. So if I’m gonna get off, that’s a pretty common way for me to finish now.
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