There is story about a guy who went to the doctor because he and his wife could not have *******, when he came home he was driving a new Caddy, was wearing an expensive suit, and had a diamond ring on. His wife said I thought you were going to the doctor? He said I did he told me I was "important" so I thought I should look like I was important. Lol
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I heard that joke too, BUT, it's important to say it the way he said it ... mention that the couple was a black couple, and when he came home he said "the doctor told me I was impotent, so I thought I should look like I was impotent".
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You may be very well able to reach orgasm many times even when unable to manage a successful "penetration-grade" erection (done it myself manually and with a vibrator). That would give you the thrill of having a combination of increased libido with diminished manhood!
nrbill
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My wife told me she couldn't wait for me to become impotent several years ago. Unfortunately, I can still get it up, but it's been getting more and more difficult to stay hard enough for anything but initial penetration. I've only been allowed inside her 5 times since Dec. 2012, and a couple of those times I immediately went soft after a few strokes. I wish I was completely impotent all the time, mostly because it would give my wife the excuse to finally open up about her infidelities after all these years.
You may want to get into this thread: https://www.blacktowhite.net/threads/hops-or-herbs-to-keep-the-cuck-docile.71931/
Maybe that helps and you can get back with your experience
nrbill, I can relate to your situation. I am mostly impotent and haven't had intercourse with my wife in more than two years. I have tried everything short of penile implant. I can get a mild erection and ejaculation through maturbation. I have had issues for years, but did have some good years when younger. But even when things were good I could tell she was not satisfied. I know that she has had other lovers over the years and that she was infatuated with one of her friends black boyfriend. I know that she had sex with him after her friend broke up with him, but my wife always denied it. She used to talk with my ******* about black men, so she has acknowledged being interested. Finally, a couple of years ago I received an email with a video attached. It was a sex tape with my wife and a black lover. They were going at it very intensely and she was definitely enjoying herself. Despite the visual evidence of her love for black men she still will not admit to the past affairs. Now whenever she goes shopping for an afternoon, I am confident that there is even more going on. She should have an enjoyable sex life since I cannot do it for her
But you can give her amazing care, massages, cuddles, spoiling... impotent doesn't mean useless! Have you talked her about how much turns you on her video? How much you love her?
I became totally impotent 3 years ago before that Viagra helped for a while, I've always been somewhat impotent even in my 20s I went limp with the first girl I was with at 29. Here I am in all my manhood
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Not sure what to think, we didn't have sex on our honeymoon as it was a very busy time but i dont know if what your asking is or isnt legitimate.
Hey Mac, I know you asked someone else this question but it also pertains to me. I have a lot of difficulty obtaining and maintaining an erection without taking Cialis or Viagra. I am in my 60's and when I was young, I used to get erect all the time and stay erect. As the years start coming, it became a little harder. Then I had hernia surgery and a mesh implant and that seemed to make it even more difficult. It does not effect my ability to ejaculate, I cum when my cock is soft. In fact, I cum even faster than I used to which was really fast. If I am watching my wife fucking, or something that really turns me on, I can cum without even touching myself.
That's interesting ... wow! I've read that a man can learn to ejaculate without having an erection by concentrating on it a certain way; I've tried to do that but couldn't manage it. Guess I wasn't concentrating hard enough. I've always thought it would be kewl to be able to cum in your pants while driving down the road or having lunch with associates. I guess its too much of a distraction, however.
Yes, when I do cum without an erection it feel similar to a normal cum however when I cum in my pants it kind of feels like a ruined orgasm, if that makes sense. It starts throbbing and ejaculates without feeling an "orgasm" per se
i had my prostate removed and have been totally impotent for the last few years.
Before that I feel i made myself have ED problems with all the IR sex and relationships I had. Basically i stopped being able to get an erection unless i was in, watching or listening to IR sex and mainly cuckold humiliation sex.
In terms of orgasm, I can still wank (soft all the way through) and have a dry orgasm which means i get all the feeling but no end product
