I want to move forward and find a BBC in Pittsburgh, Pa

I am 41 years old and from Pittsburgh, Pa. My husband is the one who spiked my interest in finding BBC. I have always been the good girl doing exactly what I am supposed to do. I don't want to be with many different men, but I want to find one person who has a BBC for occassional meetings. My husband wants to be cuckolded. Sometimes I would like to meet my lover alone, and others with him watching.

I am sort of shy and I have trouble approaching someone face to face for this sort of friendship. Believe me, it isn't about doing it, but it is about saying what I want to the person when I don't know if they would even be interested.

I have to say, I don't understand my husbands part of wanting to see me be with a BBC....but I know that it doesn't matter what the reason is.....I will be able to enjoy every inch of a BBC.

So...suggestions on how to meet someone....place to go....ways to approach people would be greatly appreciated.