BrunetteBecky
Female
Hello, I will try to make this as short as possible. It's almost midnight and I just got back from my first official date with a man who's the reason I'm posting here.
I (WF, 21) started working for him (BM, 42) four months ago. The relationship was super positive and professional from the start with more then evident sexual tension and charge between us. Salary he gave me was insultingly high for someone with my age and experience, his mentorship made me learn more in four months then I did in four years of college (and I went to real college not woke one), even though I have usual 8 hour working shifts, I stay with him 12 hours (sometimes even 16 hours) every day so we can discuss all kinds of topics over breakfast, lunch and dinner he takes me out to every day, and so on and on and on.
I was the one who initiated things to go from professional to personal with comments like my dream guy is tall, BLACK and handsome which really made his antenna go up and after that he joined in on the flirting and I remember him talking about racial orientation being as important as sexual orientation, the term I never heard of, and that his racial orientation is interracial. I still don't know If he made all that up but it worked.
So he asked me out and I said yes and the date was amazing. But... he just admitted to me that he was a bull for 20 years and that he slept with 1000 women (yes, ONE THOUSAND), all of them white, during that period. That's like different women every week for two decades. Firstly, I honestly didn't know what a bull is. Secondly, since he is a former NFL player and now owns a successful business and is really handsome, I suspected he had a lot of women in his past and I didn't have a problem with that at all. He is twice my age, I had no doubt he must be more experienced then I will ever be, but this... Kinda is a deal breaker. He claims he said this to me point blank because he want's to be one hundred percent serious and exclusive with me. Still... if I'm going to be number 1001, who says there won't be number 1002 next week?
I'm young, educated, smart and good looking, I'll find another job just like that and I'm not worried about that at all.
To be unapologetically honest - I still want him to fuck me. Just don't see something more, much more, I saw four hours ago when he picked me up.
Any advices?
I (WF, 21) started working for him (BM, 42) four months ago. The relationship was super positive and professional from the start with more then evident sexual tension and charge between us. Salary he gave me was insultingly high for someone with my age and experience, his mentorship made me learn more in four months then I did in four years of college (and I went to real college not woke one), even though I have usual 8 hour working shifts, I stay with him 12 hours (sometimes even 16 hours) every day so we can discuss all kinds of topics over breakfast, lunch and dinner he takes me out to every day, and so on and on and on.
I was the one who initiated things to go from professional to personal with comments like my dream guy is tall, BLACK and handsome which really made his antenna go up and after that he joined in on the flirting and I remember him talking about racial orientation being as important as sexual orientation, the term I never heard of, and that his racial orientation is interracial. I still don't know If he made all that up but it worked.
So he asked me out and I said yes and the date was amazing. But... he just admitted to me that he was a bull for 20 years and that he slept with 1000 women (yes, ONE THOUSAND), all of them white, during that period. That's like different women every week for two decades. Firstly, I honestly didn't know what a bull is. Secondly, since he is a former NFL player and now owns a successful business and is really handsome, I suspected he had a lot of women in his past and I didn't have a problem with that at all. He is twice my age, I had no doubt he must be more experienced then I will ever be, but this... Kinda is a deal breaker. He claims he said this to me point blank because he want's to be one hundred percent serious and exclusive with me. Still... if I'm going to be number 1001, who says there won't be number 1002 next week?
I'm young, educated, smart and good looking, I'll find another job just like that and I'm not worried about that at all.
To be unapologetically honest - I still want him to fuck me. Just don't see something more, much more, I saw four hours ago when he picked me up.
Any advices?
