My girl and I were discussing our past and the question of the number of past sexual partners came up. I know, in a relationship, one should never ask that because the answer is never what you truly want to hear. Unfortunately if asked and found out my girl has twice, if not there times as many partners as I have. And to make matters worse for me, she passed me in one weekend. Now I feel some type of way because I love her andy feeling have changed now because of what I found out. I know that's not fair because nobody should be judged by their past, but I can't help the thoughts that keep over powering my mind. Can anyone give me some advice on how to deal with this situation, because I do care for this woman.