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My girlfriend asked me if she could get a “coffee” with a guy but I said no…
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Very unhealthy relationship and in no way are you both ready to introduce a 3rd to the bedroom.
It seems that you are ill-prepared emotionally if this were to ever happen. What makes it worse is now you've planted the seed in her mind but are not nurturing it's growth. Rather, your jealousy and unsuredness has caused frustration and mistrust between you two.
If you improve your relationship, focus on you two only. But ..... it's HARD to close Pandora's box.
kim&bobby827
Couple
You lacked communication, communication is the key to making it happen successfully. You can not control it, when we get involved we mess everything up. If you have good communication and great support she will come to you with every text every conversation, she will be excited to share this with you because you are her partner. You need to approach it as we are doing this not her. This should enhance your relationship enhance your communication and enhance your love. When my wife has a date or boyfriend she tells me everything and each time our relationship grows. Good luck.
How old are you? Her? What are both your families like? How long have you two dated? What’s both of your dating histories?
Our issues are completely unrelated from the sexual sphere… I was just communicating that this is not happening for the foreseeable future since we split up after a very tough period… what the fuck are you judging and explaing if u don’t know anything… dimwit
kim&bobby827
Couple
This needs to be your conversations. Talk about it embrace it.
I wish
Your replies to some people, including myself, have been emotional and angry. I was only trying to help with your focus as I KNOW more damage will come to your relationship if you don't have a healthy foundation beforehand.
You know what you need to do OR she will seek this out without you.
The actual status in our marriage. Whe only talk like this during sex.
Hopefully we’ll get married one day and also have that…
I got the gist of what's happening. While I won't comment on or tell you how to live in your relationships I will tell you this. If you do get back together or if you find someone else, and this is still something that you can't get out of your head, do this. Bring up the topic. Make it hot when you're getting physical. Do the whole IR porn thing and BBC dildo if possible. Be all in or not at all. Maybe suggest a trial if the opportunity arises for some extra fun for her. It's normal to experience jealousy, worry and fear of losing her. If she loves you, you will not lose her. If you lose her, she never loved you. Push past the negative thoughts but have a plan and ground rules in place that you both agree on. Nurturing the relationship takes priority. Then once it starts, see it through to the end. If jealousy and sadness is what you feel the most, you tried and it's not worth doing again. If it was some of the hottest action you've had, you know you can do it again. The whole point is that you won't know if you can handle it unless you actually try it. Hope this helps in some way.
This is actually a really really helpful, encouraging and mindful comment. Thanks man
You're very welcome. Wishing you all the best. Cheers!
Damn she fine. You need to see her get some BBC for sure
We are also long distance now… which makes everything more difficult
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Ah, sorry to hear that. That definitely makes it more challenging.
She went back home…
always been there