My girlfriend asked me if she could get a “coffee” with a guy but I said no…

I always asked her to cuckold me in the past two years of relationship and there was a guy at her work that was always eyeing her. She always told me no but a few days ago she asked me if she really could do it or not with said guy… I told her no, that I wanted her to be only with me. Then thinking about it again later I got very excited… brought it up with her and she got mad at me saying that I’m too unclear about everything. It’s very exciting to think about it, but once I cum it gets very scary and annoying the idea.

What should I do? How should I approach the subject? She said that it seems that I’m mentally unstable when I approach this subject… I don’t know what to say now… help
Lol, saying no was the right answer if the guy was white
 
Hey man just go with it, let her do what she wants to do and see if you’ll like being cucked. You’re gonna love it, just gotta get through your emotions but trust me, it’ll be worth it
 
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I always asked her to cuckold me in the past two years of relationship and there was a guy at her work that was always eyeing her. She always told me no but a few days ago she asked me if she really could do it or not with said guy… I told her no, that I wanted her to be only with me. Then thinking about it again later I got very excited… brought it up with her and she got mad at me saying that I’m too unclear about everything. It’s very exciting to think about it, but once I cum it gets very scary and annoying the idea.

What should I do? How should I approach the subject? She said that it seems that I’m mentally unstable when I approach this subject… I don’t know what to say now… help
I do not think you are ready to handle it so I would say stop. Do not move forward. Your insecurity will prevent you from enjoying the concept and probably result in future problems in your relationship. You can not go done this path unless you are both totally committed to each other and to the lifestyle. You are not ready to have your girlfriend fuck other men while you are on the sidelines. And why would you want to.
 
I will try to be consistent and not let my insecurities answer or take over… I’ll be the cuck she deserves. If she asked she must have wanted it for real no?
Yes,but you changed course now she's confused of your feelings and desires. Myself I was good with it as we both wanted it equally, ehh maybe her more I digress. Anyway after we tried it we were closer and stronger as a couple and she was able to explore her slutty side again and I got a hell of a show.
 
Myself I was good with it as we both wanted it equally, ehh maybe her more I digress. Anyway after we tried it we were closer and stronger as a couple and she was able to explore her slutty side again and I got a hell of a show.
Ours was never planned, we'd never talked about anything like this but after we did it a few times I realized how much she was into it and how turned on she got. I benefit like crazy as it's REALLY improved our sex life.
First times were weird, awkward and full of strange thoughts after. We're both much more comfy with it now. We relax and enjoy the night. He's just something extra we add to our sex fun.
And yes its a great show watching them together.
 
I always asked her to cuckold me in the past two years of relationship and there was a guy at her work that was always eyeing her. She always told me no but a few days ago she asked me if she really could do it or not with said guy… I told her no, that I wanted her to be only with me. Then thinking about it again later I got very excited… brought it up with her and she got mad at me saying that I’m too unclear about everything. It’s very exciting to think about it, but once I cum it gets very scary and annoying the idea.

What should I do? How should I approach the subject? She said that it seems that I’m mentally unstable when I approach this subject… I don’t know what to say now… help


Really, cuckolds are mentally unstable in a lot of ways.

But, more importantly right now, she doubts your commitment, but not so much hers. I think you should just stay oout of it, and eventually you will discover she has made the leap all on her own - if she hasn't already.
 
I always asked her to cuckold me in the past two years of relationship and there was a guy at her work that was always eyeing her. She always told me no but a few days ago she asked me if she really could do it or not with said guy… I told her no, that I wanted her to be only with me. Then thinking about it again later I got very excited… brought it up with her and she got mad at me saying that I’m too unclear about everything. It’s very exciting to think about it, but once I cum it gets very scary and annoying the idea.

What should I do? How should I approach the subject? She said that it seems that I’m mentally unstable when I approach this subject… I don’t know what to say now… help
I can help
 
You sound incredibly insecure and jealous about your relationship. This is not going to end well if you continue. I'd bet most of the dudes saying to just let it happen have never been in a cuck relationship and are just living out their fantasies through this post. Their profiles with zero information or pictures and a million messages says it all. You are going to regret following through if you can't get past your issues.
 
I always asked her to cuckold me in the past two years of relationship and there was a guy at her work that was always eyeing her. She always told me no but a few days ago she asked me if she really could do it or not with said guy… I told her no, that I wanted her to be only with me. Then thinking about it again later I got very excited… brought it up with her and she got mad at me saying that I’m too unclear about everything. It’s very exciting to think about it, but once I cum it gets very scary and annoying the idea.

What should I do? How should I approach the subject? She said that it seems that I’m mentally unstable when I approach this subject… I don’t know what to say now… help
I will tell you what to do. Grow up. You are suppose to be a man and you are acting like a girl. A little teenage girl that can’t make up her mind. First you tell her to cuckold you then say no when she wants to try? It’s her job to be a silly woman that can’t make up her mind about anything not yours. You are suppose to be the man. The decisive one. A relationship can’t handle two women so act like a man. Think about all the ways your relationship may change when another guy slips his cock into your lady. Are you willing to live with all possibilities? If yes then shut up and tell her to have fun. If not jerk yourself off to IR porn for the rest of your life. The fact that you need to come here asking for advice probably means you are sexually immature and not ready for this. Is this woman your wife or girlfriend? I would think girlfriend since you sound so immature. How long have you been dating? Is she the love of your life that you plan on marrying? To me it sounds as if you are a mess mentally and telling her no isn’t going to help you any so just knowing what I see here I would say tell her to go for it and see how it turns out. On the off chance she falls madly in love with the guy after one sexual encounter and leaves you then you go out and find another girl. You sound plenty young anyway so it wouldn’t be the end of the world.
 
I will tell you what to do. Grow up. You are suppose to be a man and you are acting like a girl. A little teenage girl that can’t make up her mind. First you tell her to cuckold you then say no when she wants to try? It’s her job to be a silly woman that can’t make up her mind about anything not yours. You are suppose to be the man. The decisive one. A relationship can’t handle two women so act like a man. Think about all the ways your relationship may change when another guy slips his cock into your lady. Are you willing to live with all possibilities? If yes then shut up and tell her to have fun. If not jerk yourself off to IR porn for the rest of your life. The fact that you need to come here asking for advice probably means you are sexually immature and not ready for this. Is this woman your wife or girlfriend? I would think girlfriend since you sound so immature. How long have you been dating? Is she the love of your life that you plan on marrying? To me it sounds as if you are a mess mentally and telling her no isn’t going to help you any so just knowing what I see here I would say tell her to go for it and see how it turns out. On the off chance she falls madly in love with the guy after one sexual encounter and leaves you then you go out and find another girl. You sound plenty young anyway so it wouldn’t be the end of the world.
She is the love of my life that I plan to marry… indeed…
 
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