My girlfriend asked me if she could get a “coffee” with a guy but I said no…
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A bull needs to provide her pleasure, as she wants it. If he ‘uses her as he wants’ then he is selfish and will not be invited back to play. That is not a bull, that is a fuck boy and someone who spends far too much time trying to hook up in bars because second dates never happen. Land of regrets for her and buh bye. Most attractive women can easily get men if they want, have to offer more than just BBC to attract women in most circumstances. No pleasure, no treasure
emperormwm
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Dude you are angsting about this also you need better insight into female sexual psychology. When women are properly aroused they go insane and will do almost everything that a few hours earlier they condemned or denounced. I remember this black lady one time being very particular about protection and continually insisting on checking but as she neared orgasm a switch was thrown and she literally begged me to seed her, she even tried to remove the condom as I was fucking her. I reminded her of how she approached this a few minutes earlier and she was "oh yeah well now I need it I gotta have it" etc.
It's not so easy for males to understand this without considerable experience because we don't typically think in these ways. The difference between what a man thinks he wants to do, and what he will actually do, sexually is not as large as it is for women. It's also the other way around lol, dudes think they can go all the way but actually it's women who will do so in the end. It's complex because a lot of factors need to come into play and it doesn't happen overnight.
Anyway, to condense the book.... here's a practical suggestion. Seems like your lady is plenty sexual and gets into it, so next time, whisper in her ear, feel how I am riding you how about that thick black cock in your pussy do you think you can take it do you think you want that bbc to sperm into you etc. Afterwards she will psychically retreat again but you have planted the seed LOL pun intended now she can think about this. You'll need to do this again and again and you will only have permission to push her boundaries at such time as she extremely horny you'll get a pass from her on suggestions that otherwise she will totally shut down. Of course it's not logical but remember women have to deal with social inhibition and image fear that can trigger apparently contradictory behaviors.
Your job as a real man is to take her beyond that state where she is controlled by her fears
This is not the same as compelling her to do something she doesn't want, however, in this case clearly she has wanted this, stated so previously, and has now retreated so it's reasonable to assume she retains this latent desire and it can re-emerge when properly tapped. Also you need to be 100pc committed to the idea no mixed signals that really throws the switch off, as stated above. You must overcome this but it's harder when you dug yourself and her into a pit with your mixed signals.
Another remedy is an outsider who can tap in so it's not about you and her, just about authorizing and validating her latent desires. Give me an evening with your gf and I am 100pc sure I can encourage her to go all the way, and I wouldn't even have to fuck her to get her to confess and prepare.
It's not so easy for males to understand this without considerable experience because we don't typically think in these ways. The difference between what a man thinks he wants to do, and what he will actually do, sexually is not as large as it is for women. It's also the other way around lol, dudes think they can go all the way but actually it's women who will do so in the end. It's complex because a lot of factors need to come into play and it doesn't happen overnight.
Anyway, to condense the book.... here's a practical suggestion. Seems like your lady is plenty sexual and gets into it, so next time, whisper in her ear, feel how I am riding you how about that thick black cock in your pussy do you think you can take it do you think you want that bbc to sperm into you etc. Afterwards she will psychically retreat again but you have planted the seed LOL pun intended now she can think about this. You'll need to do this again and again and you will only have permission to push her boundaries at such time as she extremely horny you'll get a pass from her on suggestions that otherwise she will totally shut down. Of course it's not logical but remember women have to deal with social inhibition and image fear that can trigger apparently contradictory behaviors.
Your job as a real man is to take her beyond that state where she is controlled by her fears
This is not the same as compelling her to do something she doesn't want, however, in this case clearly she has wanted this, stated so previously, and has now retreated so it's reasonable to assume she retains this latent desire and it can re-emerge when properly tapped. Also you need to be 100pc committed to the idea no mixed signals that really throws the switch off, as stated above. You must overcome this but it's harder when you dug yourself and her into a pit with your mixed signals.
Another remedy is an outsider who can tap in so it's not about you and her, just about authorizing and validating her latent desires. Give me an evening with your gf and I am 100pc sure I can encourage her to go all the way, and I wouldn't even have to fuck her to get her to confess and prepare.
Where are you from?
hopefully something will happen?
Holy fuck buddy just keep trying and don't over push
Still no development
emperormwm
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No simple answer to that...British parents, HK, Singapore as a kid, then Scotland then US, then Japan, then US...I've lived in different places and belong nowhere...except on top of hotwives or sub student girls, lol, or watching as my hotwife voraciously takes bbc...mmm...
It would be my guess that he definitely wouldn’t have stopped at a kiss,I bet he fucked her,at least three times.
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I know she didn’t. Yet…
this is one reason why a cuck LS should not happen until the, primary, relationship is stable.
being married, or in a committed relationship, for a few years creates feelings of trust, stability & security.
it can take years for that to happen. until then, it's best to concentrate on both of you. leave the playing for future years when your relationship has achieved a level of maturity.
If this is happening exactly as you say then you hit the jackpot. This all took place perfectly no matter how weird it seems. It actually happened in the best way as it sounds very natural. It sounds as if you have a good wife and you are a lucky man. She desires this guy sexually but she was very concerned about your feelings and the fact she was crying the first time and apologizing is so cute and endearing. I think you have a great wife and a very good situation. When you wake up tomorrow pinch yourself and then tell God thank you lol. This sounds as if it’s going to be good. Embrace the jealous feelings. They are wonderful. It will keep your heart pumping nice and strong and give you raging hard ons that you can fuck your sexy wife with all night long. The fact that you are watching him with your wife and now he is watching you and you are inviting him over alone so just the three of you can be together is awesome. You are building something that is my dream. I bet your wife is really happy right now. My personal feeling is a woman needs two lovers. A steady husband and a sexual lover. If the husband and side guy are friends even better. The husband should be forever and the side guys may come and go every few years as your wife’s needs change but that’s ok. Your wife is going to do well with this and that’s very nice for you to. You are now a lucky bastard!
Spot on. This guy hasn’t been here in a while so I would guess they broke up and she is in a relationship with the other guy. Cuckolding isn’t a boyfriend girlfriend thing and these guys are just jerking off to internet porn. I personally have a hard time believing this relationship can exist unless the couple is married and has a serious commitment that has already been going on for at least 5 to 7 years minimum. I do think it’s possible for two people that want this type of relationship to meet and build it together but that way would be outside the norm a little. It would require much more communication and two solid people. This guy that wrote this post wouldn’t be mentally stable even if alone.
We are together now… actually traveling in Japan right this moment.
That’s nice but I highly doubt it lasts. If it’s real in the first place. Your story has all the earmarks of fictional writing.
Well… guess you live a boring life
Don't finish yourself and yes... let her go otherwise she will cheating. She told.younshe want to.have a coffee with a friend ... what anything else you want to.tell.you? She told you... I want to fuck.him.but indirectly. Sorry if I was too rude.
