How do I get her to finally try it ?

[KingDong22]

My wife and I fantasize about her being a hot wife. She loves cuckold porn and all that but has been hesitant to actually try something in real life cuz she thinks I may feel different once I actually see her getting fucked even though I assure her I know my boundaries and what I would and would not be comfortable with. Any now cuckold or hot wife had the same concerns and got over it ? What finally made you feel comfortable enough to try it ?

 

[LargoCouple727]

Ask her to start slow. Maybe a nude sensual massage with an attractive guy. Then if that works for you both, she gives someone a blowjob. Baby steps

 

[KingDong22]

Ask her to start slow. Maybe a nude sensual massage with an attractive guy. Then if that works for you both, she gives someone a blowjob. Baby steps

Yes I'm thinking to get her a private strip tease or something like that if I take her to Vegas

 

[Jimmydong]

How long have you been married? How old are you? How old is she? Do you have c h I l d r e n? What type of area do you live in? City or rural? What type of upbringing did you each have? Family lifestyle? How intimate are you two as far as telling each other your inner feelings? I believe I have a decent formula for whether a couple can safely make this relationship work.

 

[sdcouple69]

My wife and I fantasize about her being a hot wife. She loves cuckold porn and all that but has been hesitant to actually try something in real life cuz she thinks I may feel different once I actually see her getting fucked even though I assure her I know my boundaries and what I would and would not be comfortable with. Any now cuckold or hot wife had the same concerns and got over it ? What finally made you feel comfortable enough to try it ?

Dude! Give her a 6 guy Gang Bang with big black cocks and film the entire thing then tell her that if she doesn't continue with the fun you are going to send the media to friends and family and that should do it.
Baby steps my ass LMAO

 

[Jimmydong]

Dude! Give her a 6 guy Gang Bang with big black cocks and film the entire thing then tell her that if she doesn't continue with the fun you are going to send the media to friends and family and that should do it.
Baby steps my ass LMAO

You sound stupid.

 

[sdcouple69]

You sound stupid.

LMAO love it. I just saw your responses/comments in your profile history you definitely have issues you definitely need help. Yes it sounds stupid and funny I can't imagine someone doing that. You have some huge issues.
Hey Jimmy earth is FLAT

 

[ht805cpl]

My wife and I fantasize about her being a hot wife. She loves cuckold porn and all that but has been hesitant to actually try something in real life cuz she thinks I may feel different once I actually see her getting fucked even though I assure her I know my boundaries and what I would and would not be comfortable with. Any now cuckold or hot wife had the same concerns and got over it ? What finally made you feel comfortable enough to try it ?

For us it was a long process we started in the swing world first FFM or FMF and then MFM and in time couples to groups, clubs and orgys. In hind site I would recommend going to a swing club or private party, there is no pressure there to do anything. You can chat with others, watch, be naked or clothed and play or not as you prefer. For beginners I think this is a great option to get your feet wet and see if the lifestyle is for you. If you’re watching porn and talking about it you are more than half way there. Good luck and enjoy.

 

[KingDong22]

How long have you been married? How old are you? How old is she? Do you have c h I l d r e n? What type of area do you live in? City or rural? What type of upbringing did you each have? Family lifestyle? How intimate are you two as far as telling each other your inner feelings? I believe I have a decent formula for whether a couple can safely make this relationship work.

17 years
44
58
No *******
Suburban
She has a more conservative upbringing than I did
She's very open as far as it does not have to do with sex

 

[MacNfries]

She loves cuckold porn and all that but has been hesitant to actually try something in real life cuz she thinks I may feel different once I actually see her getting fucked even though I assure her I know my boundaries and what I would and would not be comfortable with.

I think your lady is being smart 'cause a lot of times guys do have regrets afterward and its hard to wipe the memory away quickly.
You seem to have your parameters set in your head, but, as a 'hotwife' she's not going to be home for you to watch. She's going to be going out on dates, dinners, travel, etc ... sometimes gone a few days. So I'm not sure you're ready for that.
Try going to an adult lifestyle clud in your area when they have a hospitality night to recruit members ... see how you handle that when some guy hugs & kisses her in front of you. If you get uneasy about that, I'd back off of your idea.

 

[Jimmydong]

LMAO love it. I just saw your responses/comments in your profile history you definitely have issues you definitely need help. Yes it sounds stupid and funny I can't imagine someone doing that. You have some huge issues.
Hey Jimmy earth is FLAT

You mean like your head and your tiny dicklet?

 

[Jimmydong]

17 years
44
58
No *******
Suburban
She has a more conservative upbringing than I did
She's very open as far as it does not have to do with sex

Ah you like the older women huh? Good for you. I did as well when I was younger. She is obviously mature enough for this but maybe you are a catch for someone her age and she is afraid to lose you. No woman would reject having sex with other men if she was 100% guaranteed her spouse would not leave her. It’s that doubt that is the number one stumbling block and maybe the only stumbling block. You know her better than anyone so you must assure her there is no way you are leaving and you must make sure you know that you are not leaving once you see another man’s cock in her pussy. Figure that out and you are home free. Roll play in bed and take her to a bar where lots of single guys may flirt with her and watch from a distance. Start slow and heat up.