Next step is likely IR porn and a BBC dildo. Send her hot messages during the day prior to play to know what you’re fantasizing about. Women typically enjoy the fantasy over raw porn images. Use the dildo on her while she’s down on you. Make her use the dildo on herself as you watch as if she were being fucked for real.
And then, go find a fella! Sex clubs are a gamble, but allow on site play. Sites like this or swinger sites that have single males are a great start. You can see their profiles, pics, and start a chat. Doing that together can be a great turn on. Meet out for a ******* w no pressure to play. Let her get comfortable w the idea. Take her home and play as you talk about him. Set up another date where it’s a quick ******* again but w hopes of play afterwards. Drinks allow for a reconnection and some sexy touching, kissing and maybe more.
Before hand, discuss your role. Joining in is amazing. But there will be times your in the way. Discuss that you will remain close and be watching. Discuss recording it w the bull and privacy.
Bareback/creampie is incredibly hot, but it does come w risk. It may be a lot for the first time, but make an informed decision together. We only go bare w trusted and tested bulls. My wife can’t get pregnant so we don’t have that fear either.
Good luck and let us all know how it goes.