I respect your right to your opinion. I am not weak nor am I into being humilated nor am i a homosexual. My relationship with my wife is as strong as it has ever been; we will be celebrating our 30th wedding anniversary in June We are in a cuckold relationship because we want to serve Black Men. We do not need or want your respect or understanding. We are happy in our relationships with my wife's Black Lovers. Good luck in your pursuits.
I think a great deal of it comes down to low self-esteem, jealousy and denial. Most of these white men who are into being cuckolds are the same ones that believe they should be humiliated by others because their cock is small. I'm sorry but the last time I checked that is something that you can't change about yourself and if you don't have the confidence to know you can give a woman what she wants and needs with what you're working with then you've already lost. The jealously operates along these same lines. Most of these white men with small cocks have always wanted a big cock or are perhaps in denial about being homosexual and due to family/society obtain what they really want in secrecy and under the premise that it is part of what their wife really wants. The only true thing I see in cuckolds is personal weakness. On the side of the wives they are probably motivated by financial security or are ashamed of showing society what they really want and desire which is the affection of a black man and like previously stated the only way they feel comfortable achieving it is in the darkness and security of their own homes or a random hotel or through anonymity on boards like these. If these white wives were truly comfortable and honest with themselves and society about what they wanted they wouldn't tolerate these weak white men who like to parade around as cuckolds. Personally I would never engage in a cuck/bull relationship because I could never respect a man who wants to be a cuck. This is the main reason I'm not attracted to white men in the first place...they are either totally weak or are overcompensating for their internal emotional and mental weaknesses that they become douche bags. I think this sector of society is just disturbing. I think if you want something you should pursue it and not be ashamed to live your life as evidence of what you truly desire.
Well, what I can say with a 100% certainty is that, fortunately, your opinion is the opinion of "one"!
As such, your opinion is less reflective of the motivations of the individuals who may partake in this lifestyle as it does your own personal views of what they may be! I'd strongly suggest that there are as many reasons why people do things are as varied as there are the number of people who do them. In short, everyone has their own reason(s) and/or motivation(s).
Should one want to attempt to define "why people do what they do" or "what they are ... should they do something", regardless of what that "Do" may be, in a few lines of a paragraph or two, are perhaps less wise as to the real reasons than they take credit for! I am not suggesting that there does not exists, out there somewhere, some individuals who may have mental weaknesses of some type or other practicing this lifestyle. I would challenge you however, "Show me just "one" segment of society that does not have at least some individuals within it suffering some from or type of mental disability! So to comment as you have, is both disparaging and ingenuous to many, if not all of us.
In our own case, my wife and I that is, we have enunciated elsewhere on this site (Interracial Story Section) as to why my wife and I gladly partook in the opportunity to allow our black friend, Edwin, to take her and go all the way! They even went "bareback" much to our mutual pleasure! In our case it was a simple matter of all the "necessities" coming together at the right time, in the right place and with the right man, which allowed us both to fulfill a long held fantasy, that is "to see my wife get a real royal fucking from a black man"! Edwin happened to be that man and he delivered in "spades"! He was black, he was well hung (12 inches x 7 inches), he was gentle with her, he satisfied her as she satisfied him, and we all ended up delightfully happy! We happened to be in the right place, Vegas ... where else, eh! So the place was right! My wife is a professional model, and while it was the first time Edwin met her, why would he not want to fuck her! She's beautiful! (5ft 10in tall, 135 lbs, blond hair, well educated and, as I have said, beautiful) We were all horny and a change of pace was a welcome delight, so why not!
An evening out on the town together, a few too many drinks as well as a few bottles of wine back in our suite, some soft music and the rest looked after itself!
So please tell me, what the hell is the difference in a spouse going out and getting laid behind their partners back, and estimates range to 65%+ of the population do, go take a look at the divorce rates, to what I described above.
As an old Indian Proverb states: "Never judge another until such time as you have walked in his moccasins"!
So please, be wise, stay away from attempting to describe people as you have, regardless of what their lifestyle may be, you're far less qualified than you'd like us to believe to do so!
ps.
"I think this sector of society is just disturbing".
These are your comments so may I ask:
"Why the heck are you on this site?"
Would it be wise to suggest "a voyeur" maybe!
How sick is that, eh!?