I don't understand how a white man could tolerate being a cuckold

[Jen2016]

Sorry...too much sugar...I will settle down.

 

[tomtomjim]

I have been told where I can be dominating in a relationship because I am very self confident. It turns some guys off. But if I am dominant, I don't want sissy or pussy husband. I want someone tough, self confident also.

Why marry someone to degrade them and walk all over them and make them feel inferior. Not all black men are superior. I am sure we have all know some inferior douche bags, black white Chinese...

Not enough sugar? I think you need some more. dominant women often pick tough men. I am not pussy and no one humiliates me but the truth is I have submitted to pussy or my wife who owns it. I am strong and very tough and a rebel and twice as big as her but. I could walk away whenever I want but there is no reason to do so and there is no love like the love of a dominant fucking bitch. Accepting her having other men is not an issue. if you ask I can tell you how physically tough i am

 

[Jen2016]

Well...I just don't understand it and I guess I never will.

 

[tomtomjim]

Well...I just don't understand it and I guess I never will.

do you have sex with other men besides you man

 

[Jen2016]

No...

 

[tomtomjim]

No...

what attracts you to this site and many women never have sex with other men but are still dominant

 

[cvacuck]

I'm with you on that one! No real man never stand for such things! But to each it's own..

Well, I think it depends on one's definition of "real man".

For me, none of this is about being humiliated or particularly enjoying watching someone else fuck my SO.
What brings me to B2W (over and over) are things I do find very very hot:

- IR - this first hit me when a childhood friend's parent split up and his (very pretty) white mom started dating a black guy. There was just something about it that made me..tingly.

- "Slut" wife - I actually think "slut" is a compliment, not a slur, and I find women who love an enthusiastic fucking - even (particularly?) multiple men at once - super-hot. Of course a woman who engages in something taboo and with such a lust driven approach (size queen) is even hotter.

- Bisexuality - for me, this is really all about "switching" and playing the girl's role, not so much about being particularly attracted to men. Of course a "bigger" and "manlier" man makes that click - but I came to that part much, much later in life. Maybe that role switching makes me "not a real man" but I'm plenty hung and I fuck the hell out of my wife pretty regularly. I would never consider giving that up.

So, even though some may not consider me a "real" man (for taking dick) I really do not get off on the "cuck" part, which seems to mean: chastitty, no sex with wife anymore, humiliation and above all getting off on the fact that someone else is fucking her. That part just does nothing for me.

Seeing my wife as a wild an uninhibited fucking machine (my personal pornstar) does pretty much get me off.

 

[cvacuck]

I have been told where I can be dominating in a relationship because I am very self confident. It turns some guys off. But if I am dominant, I don't want sissy or pussy husband. I want someone tough, self confident also.

To me, this is a matter of playtime vs. everyday relationships. I think dom/sub/whatever can be a hell of a lot of fun as a form of roleplaying in bed. I think a lot of the extreme 24/7 stuff you hear some "inferior" guys carrying on about is just out of control fantasies.

I personally don't find the idea of being "rejected" or "replaced" because it scratches some inferiority anxiety of mine particularly appealing or arousing. In my mind, seeing my SO fucking well endowed guys is in a way making her submissive: a sex object, used by men and getting off hard on being used.

 

[Jen2016]

Much better insight from the last two posts.thanks fellas..

 

[tomtomjim]

Women make cuckolds and the men decide how they will react, some walk away, some put up with it and some try to find meaning in their role. Letting other men fuck your wife for your pleasure or profit is not being a cuckold it is more like being a pimp. Men are abused and humiliated by women and wives but this does not make them cuckolds just sad.

 

[a96]

Well, I think it depends on one's definition of "real man".

For me, none of this is about being humiliated or particularly enjoying watching someone else fuck my SO.
What brings me to B2W (over and over) are things I do find very very hot:

- IR - this first hit me when a childhood friend's parent split up and his (very pretty) white mom started dating a black guy. There was just something about it that made me..tingly.

- "Slut" wife - I actually think "slut" is a compliment, not a slur, and I find women who love an enthusiastic fucking - even (particularly?) multiple men at once - super-hot. Of course a woman who engages in something taboo and with such a lust driven approach (size queen) is even hotter.

- Bisexuality - for me, this is really all about "switching" and playing the girl's role, not so much about being particularly attracted to men. Of course a "bigger" and "manlier" man makes that click - but I came to that part much, much later in life. Maybe that role switching makes me "not a real man" but I'm plenty hung and I fuck the hell out of my wife pretty regularly. I would never consider giving that up.

So, even though some may not consider me a "real" man (for taking dick) I really do not get off on the "cuck" part, which seems to mean: chastitty, no sex with wife anymore, humiliation and above all getting off on the fact that someone else is fucking her. That part just does nothing for me.

Seeing my wife as a wild an uninhibited fucking machine (my personal pornstar) does pretty much get me off.

An actual coherent explanation for once.

Nothing inherently wrong with being bisexual imo, at least you admit to it

The real thing that makes you less of a man is giving anyone power over you, while fantasy is a thing taking that out of the bedroom and creating some sort of freakish lifestyle out of it is fucked up. We are all people, for all our many differences we are still remarkably alike. Why would anyone refuse one of the greatest experiences of life just because a part of their body is smaller than normal? You wouldn't refuse to leave your house just because you were small in height now would you?

As for having your wife play a role of being your 'personal pornstar', then that is reasonable enough. If you decided to take that into the realm of 'superior black man owns white slave' or 'bbc only1!' or 'little dick inferior white bois cant satisfy women' then that is just not only not illogical and nonfactual but racist as hell. There are too many crazy cucks, it seems every time you check the new posts there is always some stupid cuck caption crap or porn with abnormal size differences and everyone acting like it is real life and actually reality.

For decades, white men.....not all white men, but enough that white men should be embarrassed for all time.....have obsessed about the sexual superiority of black men. White men fears the black cock and white women coming down with jungle fever, thus allowing them to experience black men with the fear of losing them. I think these fears inspire feelings of inadequacy, insecurity, and paranoia.

And women have the final say because these men are too weak to challenge them but I don't know if cucks really have a choice......the power of the pussy.
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You don't actually believe that nonsense do you? You need to go outdoors some more, and when you go outdoors or when you go to work (that is if you even have a job) maybe make some conversation with some white guys. And then ask yourself "is this guy obsessed about the superiority of black people?" I don't know if you have some sort of difficulties in differentiating between reality and a website full of cucks, or if you are just trying to show what a 'superior black man' you are to some cucks. Or hell, maybe you are some racist who genuinely believes he is superior to white people based on skin colour. Either way, that's a pretty school boy level of immaturity and ignorance you've got there.

 

[tomtomjim]

most of the stuff on here is just fantasy and most people who post would have a fit if their fantasy came true but as long as it is make believe why not go wild.

 

[PaleSkinLover]

tolerate? a white man should be honored to be a cuckold and to have his white wife be hit upon by a black stud.

 

[tstud]

Some of you here really enjoy the cuckold lifestyle.

But I cannot understand for those white




males who participate in it, does their




inner masculinity not kick in once in a while or is that non-existent? I'm keen to stimulate debate. All thoughts and opinions would be welcomed


from any point of view.

If that keep happy and satisfied go with the flow" // It your life friend"

 

[inkedangels]

Tolerate implies that I put up with something? It's not like that for me or us. I absolutely love watching my wife take BBC, she only fucks BBC because we both enjoy sharing the experience of that moment in time. My cock ain't small and we enjoy a varied sex life, we have sex every day more than once but watching her enjoying a BBC is something special for us both as well as the Bbc

 

[Kuno]

Haven't gone through 26 pages, but agree with the basic premise. The whole thing of just watching, feeling inferior, being a sissy and humiliation holds zero appeal here. None of those things really adds anything to the forum either. It's possible to feel the lust of the IR dynamic, some role playing and explore other mutual fantasies without losing strength and masculinity. Hell, I want to be part of the action!

 

[BethLuvsBBConly]

I can only talk about my cuck hubby. I knew while we were dating that he had, starting at an early, been servicing older boys. He also had submission fantasies of being a sex slave to couples. Sexually he was never macho or overtly masculine; however, in business he was just the opposite...aggressive and in-charge. He is a gemini so I got two for the price of one! He is not a stud in bed but a very attentive lover and treats me like a Goddess. Sexually he would rather see me truly pleased by a man, with his role sexually/orally servicing me and all the men. Going black took him deeper into submission to the men; cucks get hooked on BBC too.

 

[dunacouple]

Haven't gone through 26 pages, but agree with the basic premise. The whole thing of just watching, feeling inferior, being a sissy and humiliation holds zero appeal here. None of those things really adds anything to the forum either. It's possible to feel the lust of the IR dynamic, some role playing and explore other mutual fantasies without losing strength and masculinity. Hell, I want to be part of the action!

So what are you doing on a cuckold forum? Seems very odd tbh.

It's something that kind of bugs me tbh. And I am not saying this is you, as you seem to indicate you rather do threesomes. But there is this weird notion with a lot of black guys of 'yeah let me fuck your wife but let's pretend it's just me fucking a woman who wants to fuck me". Yeah no, that is not how all this works. THEY want to indulge in THEIR fantasy. If that is not the fantasy you are looking for, just don't hook up with cuckold couples.

Cuckolding per definition is about humiliation. Otherwise go to a swingers website.

Now actually I agree, I don't like the whole inferiority play either. But to each their own.

The other side of this is the drivel the unfulfilled cucks spew on the general, about genocide of the white race etc. That really does not add anything to the discussion. But those, I can pretty much assure you, are not couples anyway. Just a bunch of sad mofos.

 

[dunacouple]

As for the OP:
This article I thought was pretty good and touches on the biological en psychological reasons and origins: http://www.queenspades.net/blog/why-honesty-with-your-partner-is-important-in-the-lifestyle/

Because women in this lifestyle often choose to have a ‘Good Dad’ in their life, IE a long term partner willing to provide, they are also some times confronted with a man that is often unable to satisfy her needs when it comes to alpha male behaviour. As many ‘good dads’ are simply beta males. Why do women want this alpha male? While being unable to provide stability and care for their offspring, the alpha male or Good Genes male has evolutionary advantage. Women want their ‘good genes’. So this is how we find women who are married but allowed by their spouse to have sex with alpha males. The reason this fetish exists is purely biological. Evolution has set parameters and women find ways to both provide stability and long term care but also Alpha males who would otherwise be more likely to leave them and spread their sperm and therefore chances on offspring with other women. Now technology and advancements in medicine have lead us in to an age where the biological reasons become merely the driving forces, while the genetic reality is not effected; the beta male can still have offspring with a woman and women do not have to produce offspring with the alpha males who would not take care of her children.

Proactive cheating is the single Mommy dilema. This form of ‘cheating’ relies on the woman breeding with a Good Genes male, bearing his children and then abandoning him, or having him abandon her, (again through invented social conventions) in order to find a Good Dad male to provide for her and the children of her Good Genes partner to ensure their security.

I want to stress again that (most) women do not have some consciously constructed and recognized master plan to enact this cycle and deliberately trap men into it. Rather, the motivations for this behavior and the accompanying social rationales invented to justify it are an ******* process. For the most part, women are unaware of this dynamic, but are nonetheless subject to its influence. For a female of any species to facilitate a methodology for breeding with the best genetic partner she’s able to attract AND to ensure her own and her offspring’s survival with the best provisioning partner; this is an evolutionary jackpot. http://therationalmale.com/2011/08/23/schedules-of-mating/

So we are in a unique position here. Women sometimes want this arrangement. And in todays society the black man is the epiphany of the fertile alpha male. In an article on the very popular online magazine The DailyBeast a writer described why men are attracted to this lifestyle:

“Competition gets them hard,” says sex therapist Susan Block, who operates a phone-therapy program especially for cuckolds to fine-tune their fantasies and strategies. “There are so many forms of substitute competition among men in our society, such as sports, that take the place of the real competition inside a woman’s body,” in which rival males’ sperm engage in “wars” to fertilize her eggs.

“Winning isn’t even that important. What’s important for a man in terms of his arousal is the competition. If you’re a married man, you might love your wife, but you won’t get as strong an erection for her or have as strong an ejaculation if your testicles know that this woman is yours alone. Nature is conservative, so your testicles won’t work any harder than they know they have to. But if your wife has been away at a conference and there’s a chance that she’s had sex with another man, you’ll get a stronger erection when she comes home. If she has had sex with another man, that makes you really hard.”

Turning this dynamic into reality through cuckolding is a mental workout “because it involves getting your mind past the jealousy”—past that touch her and I’ll blow your head off reflex. Jealousy, Block theorizes, is a social construct based on the notion that husbands own their wives, and is thus “much more recent, evolutionarily speaking, than the competition that turns guys on. That’s why it’s mostly intellectuals who are into cuckolding: because other guys are crippled by jealousy. They’re aroused and upset and don’t know why.”

We are here to analyse data and explain. But we also want to make sure people enjoy this lifestyle. And that is why I really wanted to write this. Sure we all love big black cock, but we also love our long term partners right?

Now who ever reads this, a husband, a wife a single black man or white woman. We all have our ideas about this kink. Why do we have it? Discus how you think you became interested in the kink. It can give the receiving end an insight in to your needs. You’re never going to completely know why most likely, but sometimes you can find out more than you think.

On the local Black White swinger party I talked to a women who turned her husband in to a interracial cuckold addict. He was actually fairly alpha male. The wife used to date mostly black men, alpha, big muscular. Security men, dancers, barkeepers. the husband was fit (they work in the club scene) but not muscular. He was simply too busy with running the business. And since they both worked with these black men it often was an issue between them. The husband said that he knew that they knew that his wife fucked them was something that left a mark. And he wanted to explore it sexually. The wife did not and was afraid it would hurt their relationship. When they went in to therapy it all came up and the wife realized after the psychologist explained why this fetish might have developed she played a big part in it.

Now the wife is actively hosting parties and enjoying the lifestyle more than she ever could imagine a sexual kink could do. It took her a while to embrace being so sexually active and separating work from play. Out of respect for her husband she only dated men he does not know. But recently he asked her if she would like to flirt and fuck on work too. She says her work days have never been more fun. Just the possibility makes her very aroused. At the time of talking she had yet to do it though!

I think that was a perfect tale of how important it is to talk about these things with your spouse.

And this article: http://www.playboy.com/articles/why-do-men-fantasize-about-wives-cheating

A muscular, middle-aged guy comes home with one of his friends. Together, they approach his hot wife, who happens to be lying on the couch and wearing the shortest dress she owns. She forgot to wear underwear. Again. The husband makes a proposition: Turns out, he’s always fantasized about watching her have sex with another man. Would she consider doing so with his friend?

She gives the friend a once-over. He is even more muscular than her husband. His erection is nearly bursting out of his pants. She comments on its size, grins and asks her husband, “Are you sure this is what you want?” He nods, takes a seat and begins masturbating while his wife eagerly goes down on the other man. They proceed to have the hottest, loudest sex of her life right before her husband’s eyes.

If you’ve ever browsed Xtube or PornHub, you have undoubtedly seen this and other so-called “cuckold” scenarios played out over and over again. But why would porn made by, and for, heterosexual guys so often depict men who take pleasure in letting other men have sex with their wives?

 

[WCoupleIntrst]

Not knocking the cuckold side of this all, or an individual or couples choice to be interracial, bisexual, bilingual, whatever that choice is won't in anyway change my opinion, or my girlfriends opinion, which is about 90% the same as mine. First of all the whole BBC is just a myth. 2 of my best friends growing up were black, one had an average size to any other guy or race, and the other was literally like 4". Meanwhile the dumbest kid I knew, my best friends brother wa at least 12" he used to show it to everyone, he was a 1/2 irish 1/2 italian. There have been 1000's of documented polls and studies that show overall black men to white mens average penis size is virtually the same on average. But again, Not my overall point.
The fact that either black "Bulls" have the nerve to truly feel they are superior, or the couples or woman feel the black "bulls" or black men in general are superior in any way is a big big problem. Because that is about 1% away from a group of white men feeling they are superior, saying white power. No group, or race is superior to another. There are individuals, family ******* lines, and the way someone is brought up as well as environment that at the end of the day show whether you are good at studies, sports, etc. Penis size and so on is a combination of genetics and just pure luck. It's such a dangerous road to go down to ever get in a mindset, and really believe it that the group you are associated with, or not is any better or worse than another.
My ex girlfriend had more black dicks than white, by far. The one she thought was the best, was 1/2 latino, 1/2 white. He was about 7", Im bigger and her black ex fiance was as well. She fucked that guy after we split, but while dating I heard no complaints. I was a fairly heavyset guy for many years, never though I had a small cock, but never thought it was big. Well now I'm chubby, and I have exactly an 8"cock. But my longtime girlfriend thats signed up here with me, her number one issue is she cannot handle a long dick, shes only about 6" deep, so especially missionary I hear alot of ow, and many times makes me move or go another position. We have some interest in 3 way stuff together, neither of us have an opinion if hes black or white, just a good guy, and we will get to that point eventually. If someone has a preference for a certain race, that is outside of what they are I have no issue with that, the only issue I have is if you for no reason rule out your own race. Cousin was raped, she doesnt like Puerto Ricans, never going to change, the ******* was PR, it changed her view, something happened. My sister dated mostly white guys through high school, then as a senior, her BF was black. She straight told me up until her husband, which is white, she by far prefered black guys because the few guys that rocked her world were black. Until her husband which on her own decided to become a total sub to him. He's equipped, in good shape, tall, smart, and basically said he makes her get off like no one on earth. I get sick to my stomach when someone actually puts alot of time into explaining any race superiority, or inferiority. Just because a specific husband, or group of guys or whatever have smaller dicks, and some big black cock transformed there wife, changes nothing except, your dick is small, his is big, and he knows how to use it. If the whole getting into lifestyle thing and "reprogramming" comes about with a black guy, the truth is you were already easily a woman that wanted bigger cock, and/or you as a man somewher want to be submissive. The difference is I have no problem playing a submissive role, I've let my GF use a strap on, we have tried and experimented with femdom, and all that. But at the end of the day , outside of the "feelings" involved, every once in awhile I pin her down or something and forcefully pound her with my reasonably meaty 8" and when not only she hurts because I'm just kinda big for her, when she loses count of the orgasms I know I have no reason to think my masculinity or relationship is in danger. Not to mention her 1 black guy.... the childhood friend thats under 5", closer to 4". So from her experience white has been best. All I ask is be careful when truly preaching superiority, because at the end of the day the only thing superior is maybe the person you are, not the race, sex, or sexual preferences you have.