MasculineWannabeCuck
Male
Hey there! Just wanna start by saying how grateful I am for a community like this. The advice in here has been incredible and has helped me and my relationship with my wife in many ways. We’re in our early 30s and have been married for just over a year and have been seeing each other for about five. From the jump, our sex life was never truly great. I’d have trouble staying (and sometimes getting) hard, and am a frequent quick cummer. I can tell at times that she was just going through the motions on her end, yet we never truly vocalized this.
One of the biggest ones for me was truly admitting that I cannot sexually satisfy my wife. For the longest time, I ran from that fact, and so did she for a fear of hurting my feelings. After years featuring some awkward sexual encounters with my wife, at the request of our therapist, we finally became communicative about our sex lives. Our wants. Our needs. Our desires. She opened up and told me that my fear was correct, that she doesn’t enjoy sex with me and sometimes saw it as a chore. I won’t lie, that was hard for me, a guy who prides himself on being masculine, to admit! But once I did, it instantly opened up another world of excitement!
I’ve found out just how sexual she was before me and is capable of being. I even found out about her fetish of big dicks and being a size queen
and how she’d never been with a Black man before but had forbidden fruit desires for much of her life.
Since we’ve gotten a lot more communicative together, we’ve bought not just one…but TWO sex toys for her to get what she needs whenever she wants. And she LOVES the freedom to do that those things work overtime sometimes!)
We are (finally) slowly guiding over to the Hotwife lifestyle and it’s been SO incredibly hot. The beauty of being communicative! Just let go of your fears and go for it, because you’ll never know if you don’t.
One of the biggest ones for me was truly admitting that I cannot sexually satisfy my wife. For the longest time, I ran from that fact, and so did she for a fear of hurting my feelings. After years featuring some awkward sexual encounters with my wife, at the request of our therapist, we finally became communicative about our sex lives. Our wants. Our needs. Our desires. She opened up and told me that my fear was correct, that she doesn’t enjoy sex with me and sometimes saw it as a chore. I won’t lie, that was hard for me, a guy who prides himself on being masculine, to admit! But once I did, it instantly opened up another world of excitement!
I’ve found out just how sexual she was before me and is capable of being. I even found out about her fetish of big dicks and being a size queen
and how she’d never been with a Black man before but had forbidden fruit desires for much of her life.Since we’ve gotten a lot more communicative together, we’ve bought not just one…but TWO sex toys for her to get what she needs whenever she wants. And she LOVES the freedom to do that those things work overtime sometimes!)
We are (finally) slowly guiding over to the Hotwife lifestyle and it’s been SO incredibly hot. The beauty of being communicative! Just let go of your fears and go for it, because you’ll never know if you don’t.
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