My ******* often says "the world is full of good intentions". I often talk with guys who are wanting to get their wives interested in being with other men, not necessarily just black men, but in general. There are a lot of steps between "wanting" and it actually happening, however. They come to these cuckold sites and just assume that everyone must be doing it, and that their own wives would want to do it, when in fact, wife sharing still only encompasses a small % of couples. I'm amazed every day as to how
little guys really know about their wives ... you'd think that, after being together for 5-10 years, they'd know what their wives like or don't like, but guys don't. I think it has a big part to do with the lack of communication within the marriage. My wife opened my eyes years ago when she shared the book "Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus" by John Gray. It points out many of the differences between men & women, and why men & women do things & reason so differently.
The number of steps to wife sharing, and cuckolding are often as many as like baking a cake ... you don't just take the cake mix out of the box and serve it as a cake. You got to mix it with its other ingredients, then put it in the oven and bake it for its required time. And it certainly helps if everyone you are baking the cake for, actually
wants to have cake.