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Delving into the male psyche
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Personally I think I’m slightly bi or atleast bicurious. But only for black men.
Not romantically attracted to any man but sexually turned on by black men
Not romantically attracted to any man but sexually turned on by black men
For me, I like looking at BBC because I imagine my Wife playing with it, and it turns me on to imagine it turning her on, especially how i can't. It's a submissive cereberal compersion and humiliation process. I think that watching BBC like this over time, however, starts to imprint and becomes more and more homoerotic, even if it didn't start that way for a previously straight male. First you imagine your Wife sucking it, then can't help but wonder what it tastes like. Sex has a powerful impact on men, and we could probably get turned on by tatter tots if our Wife repeatedly ****** us to masturbate to them. My Goddess Wife has done this to me somewhat with Her feet. I was never a foot guy until she started denying me and only letting me fuck Her feet. Now....
Same feeling for me. Like “I know she would love to play with that”
And hopefully have me join in to
bbclovinwife
Couple
Yes I love it I love telling people down on vacation I’m my wife’s gay husband I love getting pounded with my windows open and doing lines of there beautiful BBC’s before getting stretched
I just like the way it looks. Probably some (b)latent homosexuality. I’ve taken maybe 8 cocks in my mouth and none of the were black. But when it comes to porn it’s almost exclusively BMWF. I don’t watch white men masturbating unless it’s sissygasms. If I were in a room by myself and a BBC I’m sure I would probably play with it. But if there was a girl in there with me I’d be a bigger slut than she was.
Yeah, I am certain of my own sexuality, and secure in my masculinity. My interest sexually is only in attractive females, and I don't allow intentional male contact of any kind. Full stop.
Of course, I realize that the cuckold corner of the lifestyle is densely populated by bisexual men, homosexual men, and men who pretend to be straight. Live and let live. On this site, encouraged by the anonymity it affords, a great number of homosexual men hide and lurk, and masquerade as female profiles, and couples profiles where there is no actual wife. I think that's cowardly, and duplicitous, and an exhibition of low character.
Now, in the real world, if a husband enjoys eating my cum from his wife's pussy, that's their thing. I only get off on giving my semen to the woman. No other male may touch my penis. No other male may suck on my penis claiming to be a fluffer, and no, I will never "humiliate" a cuckold by fucking him up his ass. I find all of that disgusting. It's homosexual activity, no matter what those who deny it say, endeavoring to qualify it as something other.
Of course, I realize that the cuckold corner of the lifestyle is densely populated by bisexual men, homosexual men, and men who pretend to be straight. Live and let live. On this site, encouraged by the anonymity it affords, a great number of homosexual men hide and lurk, and masquerade as female profiles, and couples profiles where there is no actual wife. I think that's cowardly, and duplicitous, and an exhibition of low character.
Now, in the real world, if a husband enjoys eating my cum from his wife's pussy, that's their thing. I only get off on giving my semen to the woman. No other male may touch my penis. No other male may suck on my penis claiming to be a fluffer, and no, I will never "humiliate" a cuckold by fucking him up his ass. I find all of that disgusting. It's homosexual activity, no matter what those who deny it say, endeavoring to qualify it as something other.
Heartandsoul
Male
This is a great response. We are both bisexual so we've played with gay, straight and bisexual men and women but never would we ask someone to do something or just assume down the line a straight bull would let husband do something to him.
Most(NOT ALL) Cucks get into the lifestyle to just find a guy for themselves but they can't admit it. So what do they do? Get the wife's into cuckolding in hopes to fulfill there homoerotic tendencies.
The issue becomes when a bull clearly stated they are straight but the cuck down the line gets upset when the bill won't interact sexually with the cuck.
Listen, there is nothing wrong with being gay or bisexual.. but you gotta be honest with yourself,your spouse and any partners you may have
Don't be going in thinking "oh he says he's not into bisexual stuff but once he and my wife get going I'm sure he will let me" that's bull crap.
Also ain't no one going to convince me that eating a creampie or fluffing isn't gay.
I don't know if mine was a 'great response.' I simply intended it as an honest one. With so much deceit rampant on this site, a bit of honesty should be refreshing.
It does make me curious about those husbands here who may be using their wives as unwitting lures to satisfy their true homosexual cravings. And it makes me wonder how many women married these men under false pretenses. In this, I speak from experience, as I was shocked when my older s!ster married a man who consistently registered as a loud blip on my gay-dar. I mean, this guy was effeminate in his speech and gestures, he was a better cook than my s!ster by far, and I noticed the way he would sometimes look at me. But I trusted that my s!ster knew the guy far better than I, and she was obviously serious enough to get engaged to him. I was rather cold about it, but I didn't want to make "A" upset. So, I supported her in their marriage. Years go by, and lo and behold, she is shocked to catch "G" frequently watching gay porn online. Despite her best efforts, "G" refused to break the habit, driving "A" to finally have their marriage annulled. Deceit that led to a ton of pain, yet I wasn't surprised one bit. Subsequently, my niece has grown up with serious sexual identity issues herself.
How my s!ster was fooled still mystifies me, since she was always the most sensible of all us siblings.
Once, years ago, I saw an exotic couple at a swing party. The beautiful wife turned all the heads of the horny single males, including mine. Later in the evening, I found them in the middle of a crowd of guys jerking themselves off as the couple engaged in foreplay in an open area. Guys nearly knocked each other over in an effort to get close enough to touch the naked woman. The husband presided over the proceedings, silently nodding approval for this contact or that with his wife. Obtaining permission at a swing party is one of the cardinal rules. However, sometimes couples feel entitled to break or bend this rule going the other way. Well, after I was granted permission to fondle the woman's breasts, she responded by stroking my exposed penis. Eventually, I felt the tingles of impending climax, and I went to clamp my hand down on my shaft. But the husband moved quicker, grabbing my dick as if fully anticipating my dilemma! Whoa!!! It took all of my restraint not to deck that guy then and there, leaving him to wake up again the following week. But, suffice it to say that I was done with them, and I left before any trouble broke out.
Still later, I spotted this short white guy eating that same exotic wife in "69," her on top. The husband positioned himself near his wife's head, as I hung back, observing. That's when I saw the wife rise from sucking the white guy's dick, and after catching her husband's gaze, she whispered something to him. With her straddling the white guy on his back, her body blocked his view down towards his own cock. So, the wife smiled at her husband and gave a slight nod, and that's when the husband crouched low to take his wife's place, sucking the white guy without his knowledge or permission. The complicit wife used her long mane of black hair to hide her husband's homosexual act from the view of everyone around, save me. Yeah, I saw what they were doing. Sneaky deceit. Dishonesty.
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Weird fetish for sure. In nature dominant males wouldnt let submissive ones enjoy them. Dominant male mates with the female and thats the only view betas are allowed, alternatively no view at all. Its between the dominant and the mate.
marcus3219
Male
Very well said!
A lot of what you say makes sense. But also the assumption that most "cucks" get into this type of lifestyle because of homoerotic reasons may be biased based on your own sexuality. i tend to believe that there is a higher percentage of perfectly heterosexual males who appreciate sharing their Women with other men for other reasons. But also my assumption may be biased based on my own sexuality. Let's keep it real and just say neither me nor you know the percentages of guys in this kind of lifestyle who are bi/gay and who are not. At least i haven't yet found numbers about that in a legitimate study.
Where i strictly disagree with you is a part of your last sentence. A male eating pussy is per definition a heterosexual practice because it involves a male and a female instead of being a same-sex act! Of course that does not mean it cannot be homosexually motivated. A man who never had any same-sex sexual relation but fantasizes about it is still homosexual (or bisexual). So it is foremost a question of the mindset, and not the act itself. If the fact that another man's ejaculate is inside a Woman's pussy is the motivating factor and major turn-on for a male to eat a creampie from her pussy then we can rightfully call him bisexual.
On the other hand, if the driving factor is simply eating the pussy, it would in my opinion be ridiculous to call that bi or gay. Let me explain it with another simply and easily understandable example: Most men (and many, perhaps most Women) masturbate at times. Is a man gay for touching a penis (his own, in this case)? Well, as i said before, it's a matter of the mindset. If he is turned on more by the fact that his hand is touching a penis (his own, in this case) than by the physical pleasure his hand provides to the penis then we can rightfully call him gay (or bi). Yet we know many males masturbate to the imagery of Women or sex with a Woman and it would be ridiculous to think of masturbation as a gay act in general!
One of the three leading scientists who have delved into cuckolding and sharing relationships has announced a future study that will look into a possible biological or evolutionary function of the practice of creampie eating. Sorry that i can't recall who it was but either Ley, Lehmiller or the female sexologist who's name i've forgotten (i think her first name was Susan?) - silly me! If anybody knows who i am talking about, please share! Anyway i am looking forward to the day that study will be published.
i think a first suggestion was that for some couples creampie eating could be part of the "reclaim sex" with "reclaiming" being brought up as a term in an earlier paper. It was described as serving two main functions. First, let me put it in my own words, it is a way to re-confirm consent. It is a physical/sexual way of saying "Hey, you know I gave consent to you having sex with somebody else. By 'reclaiming you' I make sure you understand that consent is still there and I have not changed my mind." It is "taking back" the partner and being intimate like the many times before instead of "disowning" her, so to speak, if that makes sense. Second, it is a way to more actively involve the partner who took on a more passive role during the process of sharing, in case of a voyeuristic setting with the male "just" watching his spouse instead of being involved in, say, a threesome, and thus putting emphasis on the fact that sharing is indeed a "couple thing" instead of just one partner having sex with somebody else. - None of that is in any way a homosexual practice and eating a creampie as part of the "reclaiming" is then nothing more than an act of strengthening the intimate bond of the (primary) heterosexual couple. - At least that's my understanding of it.
Please, share your own thoughts on that. Thank you.
To each his or her own. Some men I'm sure have watched to much porn and just progressed to that point. With couples... I've only had one.. I see it as the man is either gay or bisexual. Plus black men are like Stallions to these people. Black penis envy or desire. Always left up to the individual. Cool
marcus3219
Male
Thanks for that educated explanation. This delves into the psychological aspects of the topic and suggests futher reading into the science of it all. (you may have been thinking of Dr. Susan BlockA lot of what you say makes sense. But also the assumption that most "cucks" get into this type of lifestyle because of homoerotic reasons may be biased based on your own sexuality. i tend to believe that there is a higher percentage of perfectly heterosexual males who appreciate sharing their Women with other men for other reasons. But also my assumption may be biased based on my own sexuality. Let's keep it real and just say neither me nor you know the percentages of guys in this kind of lifestyle who are bi/gay and who are not. At least i haven't yet found numbers about that in a legitimate study.
Where i strictly disagree with you is a part of your last sentence. A male eating pussy is per definition a heterosexual practice because it involves a male and a female instead of being a same-sex act! Of course that does not mean it cannot be homosexually motivated. A man who never had any same-sex sexual relation but fantasizes about it is still homosexual (or bisexual). So it is foremost a question of the mindset, and not the act itself. If the fact that another man's ejaculate is inside a Woman's pussy is the motivating factor and major turn-on for a male to eat a creampie from her pussy then we can rightfully call him bisexual.
On the other hand, if the driving factor is simply eating the pussy, it would in my opinion be ridiculous to call that bi or gay. Let me explain it with another simply and easily understandable example: Most men (and many, perhaps most Women) masturbate at times. Is a man gay for touching a penis (his own, in this case)? Well, as i said before, it's a matter of the mindset. If he is turned on more by the fact that his hand is touching a penis (his own, in this case) than by the physical pleasure his hand provides to the penis then we can rightfully call him gay (or bi). Yet we know many males masturbate to the imagery of Women or sex with a Woman and it would be ridiculous to think of masturbation as a gay act in general!
One of the three leading scientists who have delved into cuckolding and sharing relationships has announced a future study that will look into a possible biological or evolutionary function of the practice of creampie eating. Sorry that i can't recall who it was but either Ley, Lehmiller or the female sexologist who's name i've forgotten (i think her first name was Susan?) - silly me! If anybody knows who i am talking about, please share! Anyway i am looking forward to the day that study will be published.
i think a first suggestion was that for some couples creampie eating could be part of the "reclaim sex" with "reclaiming" being brought up as a term in an earlier paper. It was described as serving two main functions. First, let me put it in my own words, it is a way to re-confirm consent. It is a physical/sexual way of saying "Hey, you know I gave consent to you having sex with somebody else. By 'reclaiming you' I make sure you understand that consent is still there and I have not changed my mind." It is "taking back" the partner and being intimate like the many times before instead of "disowning" her, so to speak, if that makes sense. Second, it is a way to more actively involve the partner who took on a more passive role during the process of sharing, in case of a voyeuristic setting with the male "just" watching his spouse instead of being involved in, say, a threesome, and thus putting emphasis on the fact that sharing is indeed a "couple thing" instead of just one partner having sex with somebody else. - None of that is in any way a homosexual practice and eating a creampie as part of the "reclaiming" is then nothing more than an act of strengthening the intimate bond of the (primary) heterosexual couple. - At least that's my understanding of it.
Please, share your own thoughts on that. Thank you.
) A nice contrast to those who dismiss the science and want to keep their short sighted points of view.Very refreshing. Thank you for sharing!
Heartandsoul
Male
Interesting points. You do a lot of thinking in regards to this lol.A lot of what you say makes sense. But also the assumption that most "cucks" get into this type of lifestyle because of homoerotic reasons may be biased based on your own sexuality. i tend to believe that there is a higher percentage of perfectly heterosexual males who appreciate sharing their Women with other men for other reasons. But also my assumption may be biased based on my own sexuality. Let's keep it real and just say neither me nor you know the percentages of guys in this kind of lifestyle who are bi/gay and who are not. At least i haven't yet found numbers about that in a legitimate study.
Where i strictly disagree with you is a part of your last sentence. A male eating pussy is per definition a heterosexual practice because it involves a male and a female instead of being a same-sex act! Of course that does not mean it cannot be homosexually motivated. A man who never had any same-sex sexual relation but fantasizes about it is still homosexual (or bisexual). So it is foremost a question of the mindset, and not the act itself. If the fact that another man's ejaculate is inside a Woman's pussy is the motivating factor and major turn-on for a male to eat a creampie from her pussy then we can rightfully call him bisexual.
On the other hand, if the driving factor is simply eating the pussy, it would in my opinion be ridiculous to call that bi or gay. Let me explain it with another simply and easily understandable example: Most men (and many, perhaps most Women) masturbate at times. Is a man gay for touching a penis (his own, in this case)? Well, as i said before, it's a matter of the mindset. If he is turned on more by the fact that his hand is touching a penis (his own, in this case) than by the physical pleasure his hand provides to the penis then we can rightfully call him gay (or bi). Yet we know many males masturbate to the imagery of Women or sex with a Woman and it would be ridiculous to think of masturbation as a gay act in general!
One of the three leading scientists who have delved into cuckolding and sharing relationships has announced a future study that will look into a possible biological or evolutionary function of the practice of creampie eating. Sorry that i can't recall who it was but either Ley, Lehmiller or the female sexologist who's name i've forgotten (i think her first name was Susan?) - silly me! If anybody knows who i am talking about, please share! Anyway i am looking forward to the day that study will be published.
i think a first suggestion was that for some couples creampie eating could be part of the "reclaim sex" with "reclaiming" being brought up as a term in an earlier paper. It was described as serving two main functions. First, let me put it in my own words, it is a way to re-confirm consent. It is a physical/sexual way of saying "Hey, you know I gave consent to you having sex with somebody else. By 'reclaiming you' I make sure you understand that consent is still there and I have not changed my mind." It is "taking back" the partner and being intimate like the many times before instead of "disowning" her, so to speak, if that makes sense. Second, it is a way to more actively involve the partner who took on a more passive role during the process of sharing, in case of a voyeuristic setting with the male "just" watching his spouse instead of being involved in, say, a threesome, and thus putting emphasis on the fact that sharing is indeed a "couple thing" instead of just one partner having sex with somebody else. - None of that is in any way a homosexual practice and eating a creampie as part of the "reclaiming" is then nothing more than an act of strengthening the intimate bond of the (primary) heterosexual couple. - At least that's my understanding of it.
Please, share your own thoughts on that. Thank you.
With that said...at no point is wanting to eat another man's cum out of your girl heterosexual. Sorry there is no way that is straight. Nothing wrong with it but...yeah .
Male here. Wife and I enjoy mfm fun with a guy we know. We are mid 50s.
Wife and I share these thoughts. A good looking person is a good looking person. Man, woman, black, white, whatever.
We only have sex fun with our friend. I have absolutely no bi thoughts about him but...I do like to see him doing my wife. He looks damn hot standing there with an erection. His dick looks great after they finish covered in sperm. I wouldn't want to see him naked, or any guy naked unless a woman was involved.
There's very attractive people of all races and ages.
Wife and I share these thoughts. A good looking person is a good looking person. Man, woman, black, white, whatever.
We only have sex fun with our friend. I have absolutely no bi thoughts about him but...I do like to see him doing my wife. He looks damn hot standing there with an erection. His dick looks great after they finish covered in sperm. I wouldn't want to see him naked, or any guy naked unless a woman was involved.
There's very attractive people of all races and ages.
bbclovinwife
Couple
I started off by wanting to watch my wife pleasured but it turned out it’s not all I truly wanted I knew I loved BBC’s and my heart tells me I needed to feel the pleasure
