Hubby is Afraid Now!

[dreadlocks707]

You’re husband is tentative due to not actually meeting and chatting with a potential bull. The fear of the unknown is his biggest worry. Once he’ll get to chat and maybe even meeting some bulls, he’ll come around. It just takes time.....in the meantime, watch some interracial porn with him (Latinas with black bulls) to condition him in imagining you with one.

 

[KFT3]

Only thing I see getting beat is that pussy of yours. That’s all!!!!!

 

[MIARIVER]

Once your husband sees how you enjoy a BBC, she will be nervous at first and then enjoy it and Desire it all the time !

 

[logansquarechi]

You are amazing. Just get hubby relaxed and invite you bull over

 

[vej54]

So just as he was finally coming around covid hit. Then the protests followed.. so while I support the protests and even attended a few, he is now scared of doing the cuckold thing because he believes the guy will fuck me and then beat the ******* out of him. I just ever see this playing out.. I am so frustrated, mostly sexually frustrated.

Sounds like you and hubby NEVER really were on the same page regarding the LIFESTYLE......until. you're both agree then, don't DO IT.....Now, you might consider the menage-a-trois with another women for his benefit then, down the road....PLAY TIME FOR YOU. Front Porch Swingers Podcast a good resource to explore FIRST-TIMERS in the lifestyle.

 

[eyespy07]

Do you ask for a copy of an STD test? How do you know?

You should ask to see current results. And with the popularity of Zoom and Skype (and other video/conference messaging apps) that should make it easier to screen guys before you take the leap and meet in person.

 

[hwkate]

Kate"s Hubby here. I feel like this thread may hit home to more people than you think. the same subject came up today between Kate and I .
I won't touch on who I think is real or not.. makes no difference. but the issue is real. here is why I say this.
Over this past weekend, Kate was in the "mood" and I got on some online pages and shook the bushes a little bit. by the next morning, had 4 legit conversations going on for semi-driving distance play with "new" black men. actually still have conversations in the air. Kate is interested to an extent, with any of the 4 so far. I mentioned to her that this coming weekend, I have 3 days off, lets make something happen. she texts me today and says, ' I just don't think meeting a stranger right now is a good idea, with all this ******* going on". myself, I'm not scared.. I have a pretty good way with people. I think we both have a good sense for judging character. My point is... the feeling is there. and its not an exaggeration. Kate feels this way and I respect her feelings about it. there are soooo many idiots in this world now, how do ya know ? So, we will continue our conversations with our new contacts, hopefully they have patience, and maybe we can pull off a meet-up this weekend with a guy we already know and trust. Guys remember, you will NEVER get what you want if you let her feel uncomfortable.

 

[GaBlackSnake]

It's a bit insulting to the BBC race , first things first, the protests is about the mistreatment of people of color, second its about the police killings of INNOCENT Unarmed humans and third its about people who have turned a blind eye to all of this that's happening World wide. Education is what your husband needs. The only thing the brothers want to beat up is your pussy. BBC Power

 

[PawgConnoisseu]

It's a bit insulting to the BBC race , first things first, the protests is about the mistreatment of people of color, second its about the police killings of INNOCENT Unarmed humans and third its about people who have turned a blind eye to all of this that's happening World wide. Education is what your husband needs. The only thing the brothers want to beat up is your pussy. BBC Power

Testify

 

[slinky1]

Well, it sounds like he's probably putting up some obstacles while he can, if he's having second thoughts. I will admit, of every male male my wife and my ex's had sex with, every single one of them could have beaten the ******* out of me. We always looked for larger, dominant, alpha types, whereas i'm of a smaller frame and very sexually submissive, so they would have had no trouble at all, some even enjoyed it, especially that i'm bi as well, so a few have taken advantage of that as well.

But not one over a period of 30 years have ever shown any tendency to violence, most know, if they get the cuck on side, the access to the wifes pussy is much easier and more constant. So physical violence we've never come across, but we've had men lie about std tests, their marriage situation, men who have purposefully damaged condoms and cum in my wife/ex's when asked not to, some threaten to out us once we decided we no longer wanted to meet again... which all these are acts of violence as well, so i'd be more worried about these types of things than a bull bashing a cuck. There is no motive for him to do so, so can't see why he would. Most befriend cucks for that access to their wives, rather than make trouble.

 

[PawgConnoisseu]

If you wanna play with BBC, you've gotta get over your fear of black people. Plain and simple.

 

[BBC5555]

It's a bit insulting to the BBC race , first things first, the protests is about the mistreatment of people of color, second its about the police killings of INNOCENT Unarmed humans and third its about people who have turned a blind eye to all of this that's happening World wide. Education is what your husband needs. The only thing the brothers want to beat up is your pussy. BBC Power

, Preach Bro.

 

[MacNfries]

I want to be open about all of this with my husband, which I have been, but it has been almost a year that we have been saying we were going to try this and it still hasn’t happened. I am just getting so sexually frustrated. I don’t want to go behind his back but it is getting hard to control myself.

Then DON'T. He has concerns right now, and quite frankly, there's a lot going on in the world these days ... give him some slack. So, what you're saying IS that you want to be open with discussing and working through this as long as the results is what YOU want, not what's good for the both of you???
And if you cheat, and you get caught ... then what? Or maybe you get covid-19 and bring the contagion home to your husband. Or maybe this guy does have a bit of pent up frustration with white men and a bit of revenge or vindictiveness exist. Oh, did I mention that there's a lot of "things" going on in the world these days?
No one outside YOUR MARRIAGE gives a rats ass about you or your marriage ... trust me. Your husband is your "partner" in marriage. Its also a bad time, all the way around to be bringing in strangers to service your sexual needs. And those guys you "wonder how big they are???" ... you're likely to be disappointed as often as you are rewarded. If hubby and your marriage are important ... be a understanding BRIDE and give him some slack.

 

[GaBlackSnake]

Forgive me for going in hard but I get touching when others box us into the TV and BS news programs that display us as murderous criminals and Thugs. I have been traumatized from the age of four until now . I didn't even know what racism was back then. Not only myself but Countless others whom hasn't realized what they were dealing with. At ten years old beaten by police for playing in a area where he thought that a black baby should not be. At twelve falsely accused of robbery. At twenty one shouldn't be driving a new car. Until you walked in someone's else's shoes Don't Be Falsely Assuming Others. Back to BBC business

 

[MacNfries]

If you wanna play with BBC, you've gotta get over your fear of black people. Plain and simple.

Yep, sure do ... so tell us how THAT WORKS these days, with what I'm reading on this website right about now?

 

[MacNfries]

Forgive me for going in hard but I get touching when others box us into the TV and BS news programs that display us as murderous criminals and Thugs.

If what you describe has happened to you over your life is truly your personal experiences, many of us sympathize with you, we really DO. But the news is the news and it doesn't provide you an excuse or justify as to what many see reported on the news night after night because its not bullshit. The younger the black youth are, the more violent the "banging". Over the past week in Charlotte NC, Raleigh, NC, Chicago, IL ... I believe the count was 10 or so DEAD and many wounded. Its not BS, BlackSnake. Just as many of the black youth are innocent and stereotyped by what the "bangers" are doing, the normal, white citizens aren't rich whites, just normal folks who wish to be able to walk downtown at 9PM again.
And quite frankly, some of the posts that some black male posters have posted HERE, don't help remove that FEAR. We learned a long time ago that you don't corner a cat ... and that's where some black males see themselves ... cornered with nothing to lose. So, please forgive me for speaking from the heart, but that's just where things appear to be right now. The big question is HOW can we ALL help to resolve this FEAR?

 

[GaBlackSnake]

Fries open your eyes, in 1973 a train stop on the tracks behind the Scott's Housing Project loaded with guns so that the young boys not men could steal them. I was a eye witness to this. How do the ******* get into the hands of these young thugs ? Watch the movie New Jack City , watch the documentary the 13 th . Again until you have lived it do not try to Justify it.

 

[MacNfries]

Again until you have lived it do not try to Justify it.

Isn't that EXACTLY what YOU'RE trying to do here? We're simply "reacting" ... our FEAR is every bit as strong as your HATE and REVENGE. Some of us are simply willing to sit and talk about it and try to understand it. I don't give a rats ass what happened in 1973 ... I wasn't around then, my family IS around NOW ... yours is TOO.
I don't know what our ancestors did 60 years ago, and it wasn't actually our ancestors ... it was government.

 

[10pt5applhed]

If what you describe has happened to you over your life is truly your personal experiences, many of us sympathize with you, we really DO. But the news is the news and it doesn't provide you an excuse or justify as to what many see reported on the news night after night because its not bullshit. The younger the black youth are, the more violent the "banging". Charlotte NC, Raleigh, NC, Chicago, IL ... I believe the count was 10 or so DEAD and many wounded. Its not BS, BlackSnake. Just as many of the black youth are innocent and stereotyped by what the "bangers" are doing, the normal, white citizens aren't rich whites, just normal folks who wish to be able to walk downtown at 9PM again.
And quite frankly, some of the posts that some black male posters have posted HERE, don't help remove that FEAR. We learned a long time ago that you don't corner a cat ... and that's where some black males see themselves ... cornered with nothing to lose. So, please forgive me for speaking from the heart, but that's just where things appear to be right now. The big question is HOW can we ALL help to resolve this FEAR?

How can the fear be resolved? Well that’s the simple part. Address the fear and discern why that fear exists. One a proper discernment is made, then address the fear in it’s entirety and understand that that fear will not go away in a vacuum, but will dissipate without constant acknowledgement and understanding. The hard part is doing the simple part.

 

[MacNfries]

How can the fear be resolved? Well that’s the simple part. Address the fear and discern why that fear exists.

That is NOT the simple part, it is actually the HARDEST part, because one side of the table doesn't seem to feel vindicated, and the other side of the table doesn't seem to understand ... its easier to get harsh with language, point fingers, toss up the hands and walk away because neither side feels they should GIVE an inch ... not everyone that is black or white WANTS this resolved. And THEY are the ones that teach the little ones to carry on the hate. Its got to start at a very early AGE. The young ******* growing UP need to look at the older folks and shake their OWN heads and say DAD, MOM ... you're WRONG, its NOT like that anymore.