How to deal with people noticing QoS tattoo / HW jewelry.

Curious to know how you guys handle the situation when someone outside of IR lifestyle asks you about QoS tat or jewelry. How to respond in order to avoid people knowing what it all means and I think with current anti black wave its important to know these things.

I would say there is not an 'anti black wave'- "ITS THE OPPOSITE " You've been watching too much Fox news .
 
I have QoS tattoos because I am proud of what I am. So if anyone asks I tell them, saying I love black men doesn't seem a terrible thing to say these days...

Sarah x
I have a permanent QoS tattoo in my bikini area clearly visible when I wear my low cut thong bikinis I like showing off. I also have temporary ones also when I want to show who and what I am. I like to walk the beaches showing off in the morning when the beach is mostly empty and I am clearly noticeable. I was walking recently and several older teens in skimpy thong bikinis walked by the other way and we eyed each other and said good morning and as we passed I turned around and saw them looking at me and I smiled and continued on my way. On my way back I met up with them again and they approached me and asked me about my QoS tattoo. They knew what it was and were more interested about the lifestyle. I did ask them how old they were and they were between 18 and 19 so I gave them some basic information. They weren't ready for a permanent tattoo but I told them about the temp ones and where they could get one. They said they would get a thrill wearing it in public and and the ability to remove a temporary one solved some problems. I asked them if they ever had been with a black man and they said no but can't wait to try it and asked me about my experiences. I told them where I was sitting and come back with their driver's licenses to ensure they were not under age. Within 20-30 minutes they were back with their ID's and they were legal so I gave them a whole bunch of information which just touched the surface of my experiences. I can see they were thrilled but what surprised me most was they were interested in mature black men and they were very familiar with the internet interracial series Blacked and Black Draw and it was their fantasy to be taken by one of those dominant Bulls and asked me if I knew any. I just smiled and told them for that experience they would have to willing to let them do whatever they wanted to them. They said that it was so hot and was what they wanted to experience. I took their numbers and said if they were truly interested I would contact them when this Covid 19 thing was over and to practice safe sex. I told them if they wanted that lifestyle staying free of STD's was critical and told them how I have been doing it for all these years. It pays to advertise and I might have some new offerings to my Bulls.
 
Well, personally with everything going on, white women are coming out of the woods, trying to talk to me. I was approached yesterday, by a white woman asking for my IG, I told her I don't do IG, she said, what's your number then just offered her number to me; btw I live in GA north of Atlanta. The anti black is coming to the head and non black people are starting to recognize the pain, that we as black people deal with. Unfortunately, insecure white men are realizing the pecking order, so it's called growing pains, lol. I understand all lives matter, all lives matters equally in all situations, not just white people live. Personally, I come to know, what I call THE LOOK, especially during job interviews. I would know in 5 minutes, I didn't get the job, because the eyes tells the true story. Especially white men as a potential boss. I would see the intimidation in their eyes. A well spoken, masculine, in shape, handsome, college educated with a lot of determination, black man, hell no we can't have him here. But life goes on. Now, regarding tattoos and jewelry, it your right to say you want, depending on the environment. We all wear many hats, so in my opinion, regarding the qos, that's simple, that your favorite playing card, because it is. That's really your "playing=fucking" card for people who understands the game, if you will. HW just as easy and you are not lying. "HW=Hot Woman" because you are a woman whose pussy is hot for dicks and it needs to be fucked but they probably would think you are talking about being sexy. Now, wasn't that simple.
This is crazy.. I do not agree with your perspective. I think the world is waking up to realize the value of a human life... not a black or white life.. a human life. That is the truth of the reality.
 
I like to watch for women stopping at the supermarket on their way home from work in late afternoon. In the summer time you see women wearing anklets that you know is intended to draw attention of black men. Sometimes you see the spade charm, but the women are always dressed to draw attention.
 
Well, personally with everything going on, white women are coming out of the woods, trying to talk to me. I was approached yesterday, by a white woman asking for my IG, I told her I don't do IG, she said, what's your number then just offered her number to me; btw I live in GA north of Atlanta. The anti black is coming to the head and non black people are starting to recognize the pain, that we as black people deal with. Unfortunately, insecure white men are realizing the pecking order, so it's called growing pains, lol. I understand all lives matter, all lives matters equally in all situations, not just white people live. Personally, I come to know, what I call THE LOOK, especially during job interviews. I would know in 5 minutes, I didn't get the job, because the eyes tells the true story. Especially white men as a potential boss. I would see the intimidation in their eyes. A well spoken, masculine, in shape, handsome, college educated with a lot of determination, black man, hell no we can't have him here. But life goes on. Now, regarding tattoos and jewelry, it your right to say you want, depending on the environment. We all wear many hats, so in my opinion, regarding the qos, that's simple, that your favorite playing card, because it is. That's really your "playing=fucking" card for people who understands the game, if you will. HW just as easy and you are not lying. "HW=Hot Woman" because you are a woman whose pussy is hot for dicks and it needs to be fucked but they probably would think you are talking about being sexy. Now, wasn't that simple.

All this type conversation is great on this website. I hope this isn’t really the way you think. Because, if it is, you’re sadly mistaken. You think you don’t get hired because the “white man” interviewing you is intimidated? Come on.
 
All this type conversation is great on this website. I hope this isn’t really the way you think. Because, if it is, you’re sadly mistaken. You think you don’t get hired because the “white man” interviewing you is intimidated? Come on.
Any of wife’s tattoos offensive or anything not appropriate she was asked to cover them while at work.
 
All this type conversation is great on this website. I hope this isn’t really the way you think. Because, if it is, you’re sadly mistaken. You think you don’t get hired because the “white man” interviewing you is intimidated? Come on.
Here's the thing, a lot of men are intimidated by very attractive people. No, this isn't the way I think, I believe in giving people a chance, regardless of race. Unfortunately, sometimes it's not mutual. Have you ever done 1800 push-ups? If not, you wouldn't understand what it takes to get there and if so, you would understand exactly what I am talking about completely.
Simply stated, walk a mile in my shoes first.
 
All this type conversation is great on this website. I hope this isn’t really the way you think. Because, if it is, you’re sadly mistaken. You think you don’t get hired because the “white man” interviewing you is intimidated? Come on.
She has her real tattoos underneath and now she's starting to wear spades out in public
Love it, trend setter.
 
Here's the thing, a lot of men are intimidated by very attractive people. No, this isn't the way I think, I believe in giving people a chance, regardless of race. Unfortunately, sometimes it's not mutual. Have you ever done 1800 push-ups? If not, you wouldn't understand what it takes to get there and if so, you would understand exactly what I am talking about completely.
Simply stated, walk a mile in my shoes first.

I agree, everyone should walk a mile in someone else’s shoes before judging them, that works both ways. I’ve been where you are, I used to be a gym rat, I spent my time in the military, and I know what it’s like for guys to not like you because of the way you look. I also know when I hire someone the last thing I give a ******* about is how they look. I’ve never tried to compete with my team for women in the office. I want qualified people who are committed to the company and will do whatever it takes to succeed. I’m married but not remotely jealous. I have no problem with men hitting on my wife and I know she can handle whatever comes her way. She’s an adult and gets to decide if she wants to have sex with someone else or not.

If you’ve been discriminated against in the workplace simply because you are fit and attractive, I hate that . It’s a stupid business decision and makes no sense. I guess there are men who are that insecure, let me personally apologize for their childishness.
 
All this type conversation is great on this website. I hope this isn’t really the way you think. Because, if it is, you’re sadly mistaken. You think you don’t get hired because the “white man” interviewing you is intimidated? Come
I agree, everyone should walk a mile in someone else’s shoes before judging them, that works both ways. I’ve been where you are, I used to be a gym rat, I spent my time in the military, and I know what it’s like for guys to not like you because of the way you look. I also know when I hire someone the last thing I give a ******* about is how they look. I’ve never tried to compete with my team for women in the office. I want qualified people who are committed to the company and will do whatever it takes to succeed. I’m married but not remotely jealous. I have no problem with men hitting on my wife and I know she can handle whatever comes her way. She’s an adult and gets to decide if she wants to have sex with someone else or not.

If you’ve been discriminated against in the workplace simply because you are fit and attractive, I hate that . It’s a stupid business decision and makes no sense. I guess there are men who are that insecure, let me personally apologize for their childishness.
Apology accepted and personally you come across as a team player, who only want success. Diversity of all kinds brings in the best ideas. The blockbusters leadership mentality, only will lead to closed doors and gone out of business signs.
 
I use to wear this anket all the time when I'd drive for Uber. On some rare occasions a guy would notice it when I was helping get the luggage in my trunk. I'd always be straight up and say that I find black men beautiful and that I was very attracted to them. Had a couple black guys notice and for one of them I ended up in the back seat with him bView attachment 3430100efore he got out at his hotel... showing him how much of a QoS I really was :lips: :sex:
I rarely hotice anklets or toe rings. My focus is usually a litle farther north.
 
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