Very true. And we are learning a not.
How has the lifestyle affected your relationship with your spouse
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You both have teached us a lot! I am going to insist on one question, in order to see what other people find to be comfortable with, ann, how often do you met with other mens? Once a week, once a month? Every day? Thanks!
Hubby is all out lusting after me now. I won't let him fuck me but he can smell my I need pussy. I will suck him off if he tells me who owns my kitty and ass lil. Ya it's hawt!
We are definitely closer now but that has to do with more than just sex. I married my husband for many reasons....but not because of the size of his dick. He was the best sex I ever had but now he is not even in my top twenty. So I do look at him differently that way....but he is still the love of my life....partly because he recognizes my needs and allows me to fulfill them. He has always put me first....still the best guy just not the best lay.
We are very similar though in my case, being the total prude I was, I thought my husband was the best sex I had ever had out of 3 men I had been with before him LOL. Once I went black, I realized how wrong I had been.
The ultimate
Male
Sadly...she divorced me because of it.
That is the knife edge I've mentioned a few times. Guys, if not careful, are playing with fire. I think the relationship has to be really strong before entering this, because the lady may realize, she doesn't need the white husband to get black dick any time she wants. Of course, that means the women has decided it's all about the sex, and not about the existing relationship with the husband.
Still married? If so, how is your current relationship with your husband? Any sex between the two of you?
MoFreakin85
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I have been married three times. My first wife is the one who got me into this and I became totally addicted and obsessed, we shared our kinks and had a sex life completely off the charts. I lost her due to a ******* driver. My second wife had a few black cocks in the Army before she met me. I discussed how my sex life was with my first wife and she agreed to try it. It was too much for her and I just can't be in a relationship with a woman that won't or doesn't share my kinks. My third wife would talk about it, just as a fantasy and she thought my past experiences were pure fantasy ( something I found out after we were married that she didn't think I was for real in that until I showed her pics) once again it was too much for this one too and now I have been single 7 years and still searching for a woman that can get into what I get into and we can share our kinks together.
What we never see in these threads about how the white wife leaves the hubby for a BBC is how exactly the BBC provides her with a better standard of living than the now discarded white hubby.
Seriously if a woman leaves a guy for someone based solely on dick size then the guy who got left should thank his lucky stars to be rid of the bitch.
Nope
Was the sex the reason for the divorce, or something else?
If the sex was the reason, it appears guys wanting to get their wives into this are pretty much signing their own divorce papers.
What are you talking about? I'm happily married and a mom.
Okay, I took "nope" to be the answer when I asked "Still married?" So you're still married, but not having sex with him any more?
husbandchris
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love to chat some with you....
Interesting perspective
It’s a naughty escape from reality that brings us closer
Better than ever!!
Its the best thing that happened to us,it has brought us closer and more in love
