Try role play while porn is on in the background . Build the fantasy then dominate him to get his reaction but do it in a seductive way. Push his hot buttons
How do I convince my husband to accept my lifestyle?
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She trained you well. Get on your knees
If you like your marriage but want more then tell him. You do not want to cheat but you want more. You want him to be part of it. If he get aroused then you have your new friend over for dinner. He gets a front row seat to the best live porn he has ever seen" I know this" If he gets hooked like so many of us he can easily slip into the cuck role at what ever level he is comfortable with. Maybe photography? I wish you luck as life is so much more exciting since I got Hooked.
I was with an alpha male who was deeply possessive of me when I decided I was going into this life. Now I am a Queen of Spades and bitch Domme hotwife, and he is a powerless slave who hasn't had an orgasm in 900 days, accepts he is no longer allowed to touch me as I belong to BBC, and sleeps locked in a cell at the back of our house while I sleep with whoever I want with his full knowledge.
So, trust me, it can be done!
So, trust me, it can be done!
Damn I love that !!! I love it
YOU are the woman of my dreams
to be trained and dominated so
would prove HEAVEN exists
I would make sure you work real hard
You better be glad Batman and Mistress don’t work together. That would be epic
Hi Molly. Thank you so much for sharing your story. I can really relate to you in many ways. I am divorced, and I did cheat on my first husband with a black man. I didn't think about it as cuckolding at the time-I wasn't even aware of cuckolding. I'm not the biggest fan of porn or erotica so it simply wasn't on my radar. My encounter with the black man I on cheated with was also spontaneous. I had heard many of the things that are commonly known about black man-they are superior lovers, much bigger, ect. However, my brief encounter created so many feelings of guilt that I couldn't really enjoy it. Ultimately our marriage ended for a variety of reasons, including my infidelity.
I met my current fiancé before I became divorced, and I fell for him. We began dating and it didn't matter to him that I was still legally married, which looking back was an interesting sign. About two years into our relationship we began swinging, which mostly consisted of MFM encounters, and ultimately we evolved to cuckolding.
I know that it can be difficult to harbor desires that your partner doesn't share or even acknowledge. It's truly painful to be unfilled in that way, especially when you know there are so many happy, healthy couples that can engage in this lifestyle. My best advice would be to help him explore his kinks and desires. Foster those within him so that he can also encourage you to do the same. I wish you the very best of luck.
haha you would be surprised
You're a hot woman.
litlepeepeeboi
Male
sounds like a divorce waiting to happen. i'm going to be completely honest with you on this one... i'd stop if you really truly do love him and explore other kinks. or get a divorce and move on, but keeping him in the dark is wrong and actually is very shitty of you when you're married to him and say you love him.
Yeah after “she” hadn’t responded for quite a while I caught on to “her”...
I’m going to disagree, respectfully of course, with a couple of the recent replies here. As I mentioned, I had the same urges for this lifestyle and a partner, who I loved immeasurably, who was strongly opposed to being part of the kind of life I wanted.
My desires were never going to change though, and I didn’t want another partner. He was the man I was in love with.
The first step was being honest wIth him about my desires and the hold they had over me. But the crucial step was patiently - and it took time - reassuring him that those desires were purely sexual and not reflective of my heart. That, although I wanted my body to become the property of black men, that my heart was still always going to be his and I’d promise to always look after it as the priority if we did this. I told him that there was nothing I could do about my desires, but what I could control, through my actions, was the way he understood them.
What we did then was slowly introduce those desires into the bedroom. We got black dildos and I’d fuck then instead of fucking him. He’d fuck me with them. Sometimes I’d play with his cock, teasing it while talking about how horny the thought of cuckolding made me. It wasn’t faked, and sometimes talking about it made me SO horny I just had to climb on top of that cock and cum there and then. But he saw that. He saw the effect it had on me. And when you see something it isn’t as scary.
All the while we were introducing a D/s element into it, and he became my sub long before he became my cuckold. Domme/sub is synergises perfectly with hotwife/cuckold so it became a natural launch point into actual cuckolding.
But perhaps most importantly of all was that I explored his fetishes and secret little desires, ones even he didn’t know he had, and found a way to integrate them into our new lifestyle, so it wasn’t just for me. There was plenty for him to enjoy too and that’s because we tailored it to us both.
So no, I don’t agree the original poster is locked in an either/or husband or lifestyle dilemma. Patience, understanding, and trust can give you both, and I am living proof of it. ??
My desires were never going to change though, and I didn’t want another partner. He was the man I was in love with.
The first step was being honest wIth him about my desires and the hold they had over me. But the crucial step was patiently - and it took time - reassuring him that those desires were purely sexual and not reflective of my heart. That, although I wanted my body to become the property of black men, that my heart was still always going to be his and I’d promise to always look after it as the priority if we did this. I told him that there was nothing I could do about my desires, but what I could control, through my actions, was the way he understood them.
What we did then was slowly introduce those desires into the bedroom. We got black dildos and I’d fuck then instead of fucking him. He’d fuck me with them. Sometimes I’d play with his cock, teasing it while talking about how horny the thought of cuckolding made me. It wasn’t faked, and sometimes talking about it made me SO horny I just had to climb on top of that cock and cum there and then. But he saw that. He saw the effect it had on me. And when you see something it isn’t as scary.
All the while we were introducing a D/s element into it, and he became my sub long before he became my cuckold. Domme/sub is synergises perfectly with hotwife/cuckold so it became a natural launch point into actual cuckolding.
But perhaps most importantly of all was that I explored his fetishes and secret little desires, ones even he didn’t know he had, and found a way to integrate them into our new lifestyle, so it wasn’t just for me. There was plenty for him to enjoy too and that’s because we tailored it to us both.
So no, I don’t agree the original poster is locked in an either/or husband or lifestyle dilemma. Patience, understanding, and trust can give you both, and I am living proof of it. ??
Probably. But there may be a genuine woman in need of advice reading from the shadows ?
You may well be right ...that Molly is a fake. There are a lot of people on sites like this pretending to be who or what they aren't. But I've got to agree with Mistress Aria; there may be a real woman in a similar situation that can relate to the situation Molly describes. I will say that if Molly is a "He" he/she understands a lot of what it is like to be in a relationship with a black man. A need to be blacked ... a physical need. Being made to have orgasms with a black man. And being 100% submissive with a black man. The picture of a BBC Whore. Being with black man being so different, animalisic. Being used. Being taken to a point that I have no choice but to orgasm.
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