Hotwifes do you still respect your hubby?

WhiteSlut4BlackCock said:
I absolutely love and respect my husband and I always will. Black men can own my mind and my body, but hubby owns my heart!
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This is the fantasy beneath the fantasy for many of us men. That we are still loved, and loved more than ever, by the woman to whom we make this sacrifice of our prerogative as male monogamists. There is a natural fear and uncertainty that she might grow contemptuous. Obviously it depends on the individuals in the relationship.
 
I noticed there are alot of women on this site who talk as if they don't respect their men anymore and it just kinda confuses me. I know it's part of the sexual dynamic for some, but if you don't respect each other then why even be in a relationship. At that point just break up with him and go date one of your bulls. That's what I hope to achieve with the wife in that we can disassociate love from sex and intimacy to get her to let loose and hopefully get loose if you know what i mean. That's why I convinced her to let me start an account for us to show her there are many other couples like those who have posted on this thread. Helps her feel much more relaxed about the idea.
 
Agree but as noted (and see the admin notes about what this site is about- all the snivelling/wus/BNWO stuff is what they want) and not about the equality of white male husbands who do this and keep themselves above the silliness that is the pervasive majority here....
 
sophieh80 said:
But that isn't the 'Hotwife' scenario/lifestyle then. To be honest I am not sure what it is.

I love my husband, as others have said it is he who facilitates my journey into this life. It has bought us closer together and I obviosuly enjoy having sex with other men and he enjoys seeing me and joining in.

However, if he said tomorrow that he didn't want me to do it anymore then I wouldn't. Hopefully that day doesn't come for a very long time, but I am sure it will at some point. He is my life and my world. The extra sex is just that - sex.
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Agree with practically everyone's responses. This kink or fetish cuts both ways.
I totally support and encourage my wife to have a 3rd in our marriage. I enjoy helping her prepare for her dates and thinking of what she is doing, minute by minute, on what they are doing.
My wife loves the attention she receives from both myself and her Bull.
She knows it turns me on and it is my kink and she loves sex, and in having sex with a dominant black man is good for both of us.
 
Our very private sex fun with a 2nd guy, a guy we do this with regularly has improved our sex life immensely. We are adults, our friend us an adult. We always do this together.
We don't use terms like this but...she gets the hell fucked out of her from him and me when he visits. She gets turned on like crazy. She obviously enjoys the sex, she likes the kissing, oral, getting split roasted and everything else that happens.
She's horny as fuck for days after so we have a lot of sex after he's been with us.
There's no humiliation, nothing negative, she's never said anything about his(bigger) dick other than it feels good.
We do this together because we both have fun.
 
Loridan said:
Our very private sex fun with a 2nd guy, a guy we do this with regularly has improved our sex life immensely. We are adults, our friend us an adult. We always do this together.
We don't use terms like this but...she gets the hell fucked out of her from him and me when he visits. She gets turned on like crazy. She obviously enjoys the sex, she likes the kissing, oral, getting split roasted and everything else that happens.
She's horny as fuck for days after so we have a lot of sex after he's been with us.
There's no humiliation, nothing negative, she's never said anything about his(bigger) dick other than it feels good.
We do this together because we both have fun.
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Absolutely the way it should be!
 
AnnieS said:
I agree. It’s just ridiculous. The amount of men that say all of this inferiority complex bullshit and I’m not worthy and black men are so superior and the BMOW is the only way to live your life and blah blah blah blah blah. They have fallen so far off the edge that this has become their virtual reality instead of fantasy. I actually had one guy now mind you this is gonna be a generation Z person. Tell me that he wanted to raise a black baby with a white girlfriend and I asked him why because there’s a whole lot more involved culturally than just raising a baby and he became indicted and said it’s none of my business. And then asked me if I had a *******. Think of the sociopathic thought process that goes into contacting someone you don’t know, asking them if they have a ******* because they want to raise a cross cultural baby of another ethnicity and searching for a white partner that’s all on board with that thought process. And they were only 30 years old Now not only was it insensitive and inappropriate to make such a comment to me it is in exceedingly inappropriate to think that you’re going to intermingle your sexual kink and fantasy into the life of a family or a baby. That’s spooky.
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What is a ****? The most important word of this post is illegible because of this stupid automatic censorship system
 
Great to see so many self-respecting men and women still on this site. Seeing the new threads mostly being started by losers who babble about 'BNWO' and women who claim to be cheating on their spouses is very disheartening and has me questioning why I spend any amount of time here.
 
QOShotwifeDFW said:
Half the reason why us hotwives become hotwives is that we love our husbands so much that we will do anything to please them, even if that means having sex with men outside of the marriage. That doesn’t mean that we don’t also find lots of pleasure in the acts too. It’s just that our husbands help us learn to disassociate sex from love and intimacy so that we can enjoy different aspects of sex that we would otherwise likely never discover. Bottom line is that if I didn’t live and respect my husband then I wouldn’t be with him. I’m pretty sure most of the other real women here would also be in line with that mindset.
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Well said
 
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