Yeah, we've moved away from larger swinger parties to occasional 3somes and 4somes with ppl we know well. With Jenn's black lover (her main focus these days), if I'm involved it always starts out with me voyeuring them and might turn into a 3some later. Depends how the evening goes.Least over the last few years the 3somes I had were a lot better. Since I mostly swing as well I usually just like to fuck the wife solo the first few times before having a spitroast situation.