jared7577768
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I barely do as it is, and she only seems mildly bothered by it.
Getting less aroused by conventional sex with wife
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You are out of options. Do you even s*leep in the same bed?
jared7577768
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We do. She wears a cpap machine and has a huge pillow between us that she uses to support her back. All those curves and massive boobs lying next to me every night.
Man you shouldn't be on a sexual lifestyle or kink forum but a health forum instead. Your sex life should be the smallest of your problems. Try for you and your wife to get healthy as good as you can. See a good doctor if you haven't recently and follow her/his instructions!
jared7577768
Male
Healthy how?
iDK about the reasons - you haven't mentioned yet - but having to use a CPAP machine at nights is not the reflection of a healthy life!
What are the symtoms and what's the cause, if i may ask? TY
jared7577768
Male
She is overweight, but she has always snored.
Wish I could offer the magic solution, but reading your posts I’m in a very similar situation
jared7577768
Male
I’m sorry…frustrating, isn’t it?
How many pounds does she weigh? Somehow i have the impression that it might be more than "a little" overweight. If i am right, get rid of her overweight first! If you love your wife, you should be more concerned about her life than your own beauty ideals. Don't sacrifice her for your fetish man! Overweight, if it is more than just a little, is a big hazard for a person's health and even life!!! Don't be stupid.
jared7577768
Male
I’m not fattening her up or keeping her fat because of fetish stuff. We both have weight issues, and I’m usually the one that gets us back up eating healthy and losing weight.
jared7577768
Male
Yeah, I’ve tried the strap ons. It’s a long story, but basically as a strap on I don’t have a lot of finesse with it (I also don’t know how to drive a big dick anyway), but using a dildo right up close to her pussy, using a vibe, being aware of every moment of being able to take more of it…that’s my best chance of success. And I need every edge because she generally doesn’t want “fake” things inside of her.
It’s a losing battle anyway. Your wife has psychologically conditioned herself to not want or enjoy sex. I hate to say it to you, but it’s the truth.
jared7577768
Male
That’s exactly what it feels like…even when she “wants” or “enjoys” it I feel like it’s just outbid a sense of marital duty, and there’s nothing less arousing and fulfilling than that. I guess it’s why I’m desperately imagining a deeply buried bbc size queen somewhere inside of her…keeps the hopelessness away. At least it did.
cumtaster
Male
This could be me. Seems your sexual needs don't match. You can't ******* her to anything she doesn't want to do. To my point of view you've got two option: leave her or accept that your sexual needs will never be fullfilled. Of course this is just my point of view. It might be different for you. (I didn't leave. There is much more than sex. But those desires will never go away. This is more than frustrating.)
jared7577768
Male
I’m the same as you. I love her more than I can say, and I’ll never leave her. She’s the greatest thing that ever happened to me. Our sex life, while not a small aspect of a relationship, is literally the only part of our life together that isn’t in synch…it’s kind of amazing really that we are so far out of whack in this one area. So yes, I’m most likely going to spend the rest of my life sexually frustrated and just getting kinkier and kinkier in my masturbatory prison.
Well at least we have this small corner of the universe where we can live vicariously through others!
A CPAP is a treatment, not a condition. Using one is a perfectly normal thing to do for people with sleep apnea, and honestly, can make people feel much better and have more energy.
I think of being a cuckold like having a sexual orientation. This is what gets me excited sexually, and I am lucky enough to be in a relationship where I can experience being a cuckold. It has not turned out exactly how I thought it would or would have wanted, but it is still an amazing experience, and my wife and I are sexually compatible because she likes cuckolding me.
You sound like you are also interested in cuckolding, but your wife is not, so it appears that she is not sexually compatible to you at this point in your life. Life is a series of compromises, and only you know if you are willing to live with this one.
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