Damn That's what I love to hear from you and I am very interested in hearing more about your experiences with the lifestyle and I love to share my knowledge and experiences with you as well! 👁👁It was the first time I had sex with any black men. There have been a few since who used condoms, but that was their choice. YES, YES, YES, YES because I knew it was going to happen,. The parties were black men and white women. Once in a while a white or other race man might show up, and sometimes. black women were there, but very few. My younger sister was the one who 'turned me out'. We knew it would happen.