He wasn't in the room. He refused to whip her sexually. He didn't understand how his wife would actually want to be spanked or whipped. He thought it wasn't erotic. But it is what she wanted. She wanted various types of spanking. Flogging whipping slapping etc. She was turned on by it. Her nipples turn to iron and literally leaked. The deepest part of her feminine energy was released from even viewing spankings! ... so when I finally did it, not only did she derive immense pleasure from the entire scenario. Her husband actually saw a video and understood how he could do it himself. This was a sexually relationship changing experience for them. He was grateful for me showing him and maintaining his privacy so I was given the greatest gift. His wife to use for my own pleasure.